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I mentioned how I think I fancy someone else on my university course and he said “get in there! 🤣”

then he said “why are you talking to me? Text him then! 😂😂😂”. Which is a bit of an odd thing to say.

Then I jokingly said “oh but I was hoping you me and him could have a threesome? 🤣”

then he said “Mate!! my kid just read “threesome” on my phone.. don’t send stuff like that!! My son was in the car with me and reads things on my phone a lot just so you know!! Hope you’re having a fun evening”.
he’s never gotten mad at me for sending nudes to him because of “his kid”.

Do you think that actually happened or he made that up (or he wasn’t actually mad about that) because he’s jealous that I fancy someone else?

He’s never gotten mad at me before like that so I wasn’t expecting that at all… Is he just entitled and feels entitled to me and my attention.

Do you think it’s weird my nice gentleman male boss (I’m female) was on lunch break passing by me and told me to do something work related? He was on break clocked out yet still wanted to boss me around? By the way he’s not my direct manager

Dating is so hard and seems like you are never going to find your match till you do!

Everyone lied about meeting me in my wild dark side it scared them and they hurt me till one day someone just loved me there and joined me!

It might involve sexual things or it might not and I’d be clear about my intentions from the beginning. Not that long ago he said something that implied he’d date me if he could. That combined with a long flirtatious and semi-romantic history between us and the way I’ve seen him look at me and act with me makes me believe there’s a good chance he’d be with me.

REASONS I FEEL IT MIGHT BE A GOOD IDEA:

• My mom and I saw a movie in which a woman decided to be with a guy despite knowing he’s going to die. My mom said it’s not about how long the connection lasts, it’s about how deep it is. That made me feel like maybe it’s worth experiencing a relationship with my friend even though my ultimate goal is to find someone else.

• A part of me feels like life is short, and I should live in the moment as long it’s not something unsafe.

• I’m afraid that if I don’t take my chance while I have it, I’ll never know for the rest of my life how it feels to truly be with him romantically.

• I want him so badly it sometimes drives me crazy.

• A part of me feels like the reasons for not being with him don’t really matter when I want him so badly.

REASONS I FEEL IT MIGHT BE A BAD IDEA:

• I’ve never had a first kiss or date before and a part of me wants to save those things for a guy I feel more romantic about.

• I’m afraid I won’t be able to not compare the way my future fiancé touches me with the way my friend would touch me.

• A part of me hopes to lose my virginity to someone I’m more deeply in love with.

• Since I’m uncertain about the situation, a part of me feels like a ‘better safe than sorry’ approach is best.

The place where I work currently I have been there for a year and four months but I feel I don’t fit in well with my colleagues due to my quiet nature and introversion.

At work there it seems to be more in favour of extroverted colleagues who are loud and love social situations and one of the basis for being promoted in the place is social interactions and being seen rather than your skill set.

it effects me sometimes a lot and I feel ostracised at times by my coworkers. Am I being unreasonable and should I keep trying or start looking elsewhere?

Like if she’s in danger, would you feel the need to protect her?

I don’t know exactly why, probably because I feel protective over my friends siblings and I know my sisters friends would but I don’t know about my brothers friends, but this is something I’ve been curious about for a long time.

Basically meaning like a bunch of bad stuff will happen all at once.

I've gone through this multiple times in my life but going through it again like just in the last week its been every day that I keep getting terrible news dropped on me 🌧

I'm trying to keep in mind that storms don't last forever and brighter days are ahead ☀️

Do you get narcissistic traits for a while whilst healing from narcissistic abuse? I’m really confused whether I’m the problem or he is.

Then when tragedy hits America they tell you to make donations because there’s no money for you!!! Only for Ukraine and Israel to keep bombing innocent people.
why are democrat supporters in unfair of this lunacy?
THANK YOU MR. TRUMP! For successfully ending the Gaza massacre that democrats continue to support while Israel bombs cities full of babies and children to target 1 or 2 people. Sickening!

Now let’s hope this pie e of shit doesn’t start bombing again after the exchange.

Do y'all know about DOWRY?

In December 2024, I met a guy on an app and was instantly attracted to him. He expressed that he found me pretty, which made me feel special. Despite the age difference of 1 year and 10 months—me being older—I didn’t think it would lead anywhere serious. However, I was pleasantly surprised when we began talking every single day. He would text me at any moment, even while he was at school or at practice, sharing pictures of what he was doing. Our conversations often stretched late into the night, sometimes until 1:00 AM, and he consistently sent me good morning texts that brightened my day.

As our connection deepened over the months, I noticed that he was genuinely invested in my life, asking about my family and recommending places he thought I’d enjoy. His enthusiasm is evident in his texting style; he often double, triple, and even quadruple texts, which shows how much he enjoys communicating with me. However, about six months in, while he was on vacation, his good morning texts stopped, although he still reached out regularly.

Now, nearly a year into our relationship, I’m left wondering why he hasn’t asked me out. It feels like we have a strong bond, akin to a romantic relationship, yet there’s no official label. He has shown signs of jealousy when I mentioned dating someone else, which makes me think he has deeper feelings for me. Despite our closeness, I’m unsure if he sees me as just a close friend or if he’s hesitating to take the next step. Our dynamic is unique, filled with warmth and connection, but I can’t help but wonder what’s holding him back from making a move.

Scenario:

If hypothetically speaking, a law has been passed and epidural has been banned. You're pregnant and close to your due date. The only two options are either a painful, traditional vaginal birth or a C-section.

What would you rather have? I think I would go for a C-section in that case. I feel bad for the woman that had to go through natural childbirth when epidural wasn't invented yet.

They're naturally confident and it's obvious to the world. They don't need anyone for anything. Do you find yourself jealous of them secretly?