Polls

With the whole man vs bear debate. It seems like men are missing the point that if they acted like bears women would like them more.

You could live in the woods, don't attack unless threatened, maybe even wear a cute little red crop top and eat honey 🍯

If a person often says “i talked to this person and I really like them” or “I don’t get that person, I don’t like them that much they complain all the time”. Do you consider that a positive thing or is it too judgmental?

I was sat doing some work at my desk and I could hear my colleague chatting with a couple of others. He is leaving in a couple of weeks and he said “when (my name leaves), all the best people would have left the department” and he turned and grinned at me.

Half Asian

Half black

By peak I mean young years so late teens to very early 20s (most men would agree).

Girl A = used to be quite plain in high school, slightly chubbier and awkward → she worked on herself and now she's more confident, slim & fit and radiating youth and before then undiscovered beauty

Girl B = used to be skinny, one from the flow, trendy pretty gal, had benefits → now she's possibly through some relationships, is less fit, gained some to a lot of weight and faltered, and despite caring about her appearance her beauty somehow is fading out

I believe most people, especially women, can be separated into these 2 categories.

• Which one are you?
• And which one do you personally think is a better?

I'm impressed with my parents' endurance, given their past infidelity decades ago. Obviously I was too young to even form sentences at the time. Actually I wasn't even born when mom cheated first and they weren't married yet. Yup they still got married later on.

Mom got caught (on his couch with his former friend... the journal I read had the graphic details of it, more than what I'm even posting) and dad cheated back years later but at least he felt terrible and confessed himself shortly. I know they worked it out long ago. Though if the cheater got caught, can trust really be regained in that case? If they confess at least there is a small chance since the person came clean but if they got caught, that has to be nearly impossible.

Apart from the hard work they did, I would like to know how is the relationship like if they stay together. Can a human really be capable of forgiving and forgetting that and regain trust if they wanted to? Personally I don't think I can work that, no matter how much counseling sessions, no way I would overcome that.

Most times, I do. I have a little bit of a commute to get to my job & music lets the time go by faster.

Ladies, have you been blocked by a man?

Are they less picky about looks, personality, status?

Please help me settle an argument with my boyfriend.

He never lets me play Beyonce in the car because he really dislikes her music, and I argued that the passenger is in charge of the stereo, but he says the driver is because they are the ones responsible for safety, thus they get to choose the music, and additionally that it's his car anyway so it's a moot point.