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Right now I would say mines is okay but I could use improvement. I typically eat frozen dinners for lunch and try to cook for dinner. I used to go out to eat almost everyday but lately I've cut back a lot. This week I haven't had fast food at all which I'm proud of.

So what's your diet like?

And the whole office knows - maybe not that many details, but that this was the case.

I know I should never be involved with someone at work and I never was, just to make it clear. This was a 'breadcrumbing' and narcissistic type situation I guess.

And I feel like a damn idiot. Thanks for the input!

Ladies, which do you prefer to date etc.

Consider that blue collars work a hazardous job (electrical, construction, mechanical, heights, mechanical) they come home dirty/sweaty/dirty nails, but makes 6 digits and provides. He is one of the workers that builds America (paving roads, building) He just has a high school diploma but makes the same money with someone with a bachelor’s degree. His job requires physical and mental abilities like learning how to rewire a car. Alcohol, vape, marijuana, dip, and cigarettes help him destress from work. He loves his burgers, steaks and sweet tea.

Consider that white collars have a office job with AC sitting on a computer and comes home from 9-5 making 6 digits. He earned a bachelors degree and he might be saving peoples lives (doctor, surgeon). His work is rewarding and given the job, it can be done remotely. It is safe, but it is a sedentary life style.

Would you take them seriously?

I see most people don't follow their own morals. They break them. I'd say 99.9% of people don't follow their own morals. And about 1 in a 1000 does. I've actually never broken my own morals. I've done bad things and misstakes but my deep morals I've never broken.

Morals can be:

1. Never cheat

2. Never murder

3. Never rape.

4. Never start fake rumors about others

.. and so on.

my crush and I made eye contact for a split second (and when I say split second it was actually really short, like less than 1 second, but that's also because I looked away first). this happened twice, and it both happened when he was standing somewhere behind me and I turned around. was this all a coincidence？

At 10pm. By 1am the request was still pending so I cancelled it.

Do you think he saw it?

Mine is Spotify

i should make one of these with things i like lmao

One of my mum's sisters just announced she's pregnant, at 56 years old. Mind you, they've got 4 older kids. Two of whom are married with kids of their own.

Even if I hadn't hit menopause yet, I think I would be too embarrassed to have another child at that age. But I can see the benefits.

There was a male poster that was enabling the behavior of using older women (ages 30+) for sex and dump her later on because they wasted their years. He was asking if it was fun using older women for sex and dumping/ghosting them afterwards. Another guy went even deeper; he claimed to have no problem having sex and going after an older, wealthy woman for her money.

Or others that think just because a woman had a high sexual past but was later on looking for love, that she deserved to continue being used for sex and ghosted afterwards. That's just as awful as the gold-diggers leaving the guy penniless.

Aren't those the traits of narcissists and/or sociopaths. That's already a total disregard for a human being, a person with feeling and their own desires regardless of their past, age, etc. Lack of regard for a human and no remorse is a sociopath.

My boss is married and so am i but there is deff an attraction between us. I plan on ignoring it but i feel he is trying to push for something more.

I dont want to cut our friendship off though if im wrong so please look at the list below and let me know beacause they all point to different things!

- he flirts with me/ talks to me constantly

- he compliments me on my hair and appearance.

- he messages me non work things when he is on vacation with his family. Asking what im up to etc and sending photos of the beach.

- he mentions is wife a lot, always on possitive terms though.

- I said he looked cute in a photo once but he got all awkward about it (if he was into me, surely he wouldn't be?)

-he asks me personal quesions a lot. About my husband etc and what my favourate things are.

Is he just being nice?

I see so much hate towards each other. I don't know if the bad ones are just grabbing more attention or if they are the majority.👀

This isn’t rhetorical! How have you been doing it lately if at all? Women, how would you prefer it?

I would prefer the friendship first, but I don’t mind the meet cute situation. Not a fan of dating apps personally.

First off we have NOT had sex. We've sexted a bit.

Anyway he sometimes gets called into emergencies at work & I asked him to text me if he does. It's a simple request so I know he hasn't been in an accident or something.

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He didn't do it the first time, okay. We talked about it & he promised he'd text me.

Second time, just a few days later, he's called in and AGAIN he doesn't text me.

He promised & promised up and down that if it happened again he'd text me. He says he wants a future with me, etc., etc. - we get along quite well otherwise - and said he'd text.

Third time and AGAIN he doesn't text me.

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There's other little things he's done - it's not just this - that imply he doesn't respect me.

Like I'll link him something and instead of looking at it he'll just respond off the article (and been wrong). And other things, etc. it'd take too long to list all the little nuisances that are niggling the back of my mine.

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But this not texting when he promises and promises is like fuck you.

If you really did mean what you said --- and I am someone raised to stand by my word, not spout empty valueless air --- you'd do it.