Polls

I am not talking about your preference. But what you think most people think.

Who has it so hard in the dating and relationship world:

- Sarah is just average (isn't that pretty, not even with make-up and she knows that) in looks and there is nothing she can do about it. She gets hit on by either average, broke, poor, or unattractive guys below her in looks or status. She's going to have to settle or continue being single.

- Michael is average or mediocre in looks and is poor. He will never be wealthy, has no exceptional skill compensating it and has no luck at all. He isn't getting hit on by anyone. His only single relationship lasted a couple months several years ago and he's been single since.

I have these exact 4 & I got compliments, are they lying?

Link to photos:

https://imgur.com/a/Qqh429C

I watch YouTube videos of Harvard lectures and one thing that surprises me is that a lot of fat people appear in their videos, I believe Harvard will allow morbidly obese people in their school if they are exceptionally intelligent and successful. I’ve met rude guys with accents who have humanity degrees from Harvard in some of my classes at the University of Toronto, one was my TA.

I found out recently that my boyfriend and his ex were still sending each other pictures of NSFW fan art for the first month of our relationship then stopped because they realised it was inappropriate.

For context they were in a long distance relationship and used to send each other NSFW fan art all the time. They broke up when we started dating and she ghosted him for 2 weeks, then when they started talking and hanging out online again they started sending the pictures again.

It's been over a year since this happened and they stopped but they still hang out online together often. I only found out that they used to date recently and then I found out about the pictures and i feel hurt and a bit betrayed.

I want to know if what they did is considered cheating or if it was just really inappropriate.

I'm not sure what to do and having some clarity on this might help me figure it out.

After talking to my boyfriend about it I've forgiven him and he has agreed to stop spending time alone with her and only to talk to her when she's hanging out with our mutual friends but I feel like I should confront her because she kept this from me and befriended me while sending these pictures to my boyfriend and not telling me about their relationship.

If you guys dont consider it cheating then I'll let it go and try to move on but if you do consider it cheating then I feel like I have a right to bring it up despite it being in the past and at the very least demand an apology from her and at worse cut ties with her completely. This whole situation really pains me because I did like her as a friend.

It's obviously not my fault. Nothing is, as I'm a woman.

Honest question. I see so many guys calling black women ugly and i can't think of a single non franchise game/movie with dark black female lead that was successful

A few years ago the UK famously left the EU so they'd have the freedom to eat bent bananas. But what I'd like to know is when you eat a banana which way do you put it in your mouth?

https://youtu.be/qq7LXn4KSrM

Natural redheads inherit two versions of the MC1R gene that leads to red hair – one from their mum and one from their dad. I know that many people hate red hair in my country and also the UK. The hair colour may change with age but the genome remains the same. Curious to know your thoughts.

I really need this dress for this summer, I'm already working on my figure to slim down a little bit. I work in office but a very casual one, jeans are the most usual garment in the company.

I am clueless about which shoes to go with though.

I have to drive to work and to places so crazy ass heels will not probably work well. I do like the idea of cute heeled sandals with a round open toe, slingback style, though...

Or I'm gonna go with my white birkenstocks :D I own these Madrid ones. They're cute and you won't change my opinion! xD

I absolutely hate ballerina shoes so they're out of question.

I've always been a fan of the classic look of a black leather jacket. I definitely prefer black on myself, but when it comes to men... I just can't decide which one looks better.

Or maybe I'm just sooo in love with Dean Winchester who absolutely rocks the brown leather jacket/coat in Supernatural :D

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I prefer calfskin and lambskin jackets, the buttery soft look is just the nicest in my honest opinion (and experience).

I do have a serious thing for men in leather jackets 😋

i spoke with my aunt about my crush and said that im not sure if he likes me back or not. she told me that since he isn't talking to me outside of school and church and doesn't text me, he isn't interested. but some people say that texting isn't an indicator of someone's interest. what do you all think?

i trust my aunt's opinion, especially since she isn't blinded by feelings like i may be. but one reason i didn't think much of him texting me is because he is almost never on his phone when we are talking. and he has told me that he's busy and with what. but i have also heard that even a busy man will make time to text the woman he wants. i am confused.

also what are indicators that a guy is interested?