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If so, was it a helpful coping mechanism for not being able to be around them more?

Hey guys, I’m trying to figure out if my crush brushed against my shoulder/arm/hand region intentionally or accidentally. There was enough room for him to pass by and he saw me standing where I was. Once he brushed against me, he didn’t apologise. Usually I’ve noticed that when it’s a genuine accident, you’re suddenly jerk and say “sorry” like it’s a reflex, intuitive behaviours response.

Because he didn’t apologise, and there was enough room for him to pass by, I feel like it wasn’t an accident but I’m not sure.

Thoughts?

I had a huge crush on a guy for several years. I’ll refer to him as “A”. We used to flirt like crazy and I could tell he was into me. It was all in the intense eye contact and the body language. He also displayed jealousy if I was “flirting” with someone else.

A couple of years ago, I met another man to who I am now engaged. The first time “A” saw me with my partner, he completely ignored us and presumed he was just a friend. When he found out we were together, he constantly gave him dirty looks and was icily polite if he had to talk to him.

When A found out I was moving in with him and getting married to him, he became quiet and moody in his interaction with me. I saw him today and he barely said a word. I asked him if he was ok, and he said “yes, everything’s perfect”. He said it quietly gave me a fake smile.

Is he upset by the fact that I’m with someone else? Is he obsessed/in love with me?

Do you think Mr. Biden (or the people who run the country) will eventually get the East Palestine situation under control?

Within 10 months, he went from being his normal happy go lucky energetic guy to being grumpy, than not showing up for things he said he would attend and finally ghosting everyone and not answering to messages. He however still hangs out with his work colleagues. Obviously we are worried he may be depressed but it might really be any reason… he might be offended for something we didn’t realize would offend him, or I even suspected he might have found out he’s gay and his work colleagues are more “open” than many of the boys of our group in this respect. Curious to hear if anyone had past experiences with this.

If your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband didn’t have perfect eyesight like everyone else (like me) what would you want them to do?

Yuriko or Mary Saotome

I had a pre op operation and a male doctor had to come in and examine the lymph nodes in my groin area (didn't have to expose that area completely.) I'm mid 20s, he was probably 40 or 40s. The nurse in my pre op sent him a message to come in to carry out the test explaining I was very fit in general for the surgery to him. I assume I'm in good shape as I cycle, run and even do a bit of soccer. He probably knew I was in mid 20s (25-26) also if said my age on the records but maybe he didn't see that. I don't know whether this would be classed as a younger female to him. He came in mega flustered and fumbling on his words and said how the nurse told him I was very fit for surgery and then after dashed out after doing the test. It's possible he could've been attracted to the nurse also but they probably see each other daily so it was quite an extreme reaction if that.

Mine is my dad & in a way I feel bad about feeling this way towards him. He’s a good person but out of everyone in my life he’s always annoyed me the most I lose my patience quickly. I think it stems from when I was younger, my mom divorced him after cheating & I feel like he took his frustration out on me. I’m his only child & my parents are good friends, he lives in another state but I get irritated when he calls too much. It’s known that his side of the family is shitty, he’s single (by choice) & my moms family has always pointed out that I’m all he has which is too much pressure to me. Back in HS/college he used to take his frustration out on me even living in another state & one day I cut all contact with him. We didn’t talk for 3 years & since speaking again we’ve been on good terms. I just lose my patience with him so quickly, he asks the same questions over again & it’s like he thinks he looks cute playing clueless every once in a while. My mom said he does that with me bc he doesn’t know what else to talk about with me, what if I was married or had a man? Would I still be expected to make sure I’m at his beckoning call? I don’t know if I can ever move past this 🫣

My boyfriend takes such good pride in cheating on every ex he had, him and his dad are very similar in that department I court him on a couple times texting other woman and I pushed it to on side for the simple fact he would be homeless if I sent him away he has a son and doesn't see him (his ex will not let him he has tried to see him) I really do love him and I would miss him a lot he has told me he's done and has give me no reason to believe other wise

I live in a studio apartment. It’s a room next to the landlords home. I have to pass by her backyard to enter & exit my studio. Things were great when she lived alone now her daughter around my age moved in permanently with her as she broke up with her boyfriend. She has 4 kids & now building a tiny studio for her. When the landlord isn’t home she is bringing her boyfriend same as I do. Our bfs arrive at the same time I assume after work, so it’s uncomfortable for boyfriend visit me now as they are outside always & weird to pass by them. It’s only easy for boyfriend visit me super late when they are asleep. It’s kinda weird two girls bringing bfs home. I miss my privacy i used to have alone with my boyfriend. Also the room they are building for her the door is right next to my door now when I enter. Even tho her boyfriend visits daily now or living here, and my boyfriend visits weekly only or every other week, it’s giving me more stress her boyfriend arrives same time mine does too. They have similar color car too which is weird and he steals my and his parking spots so we now have to park super far. I plan move out in 5-7 months but plan tell owner in 3 months I’ll be moving out. I have no kitchen, also I plan have baby this year, so I need a bigger place & windows & kitchen & be alone with boyfriend. Not live with other girl. Not live anymore in owners backyard but have a private place to live. Maybe a Duplex or real apartment. Now I kinda understand why landlords want to rent studios only to single men that work all day & no girls. Lol.