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There is a guy who gets visibly nervous when I’m around him. I have asked him why he gets nervous two times and he just stays quiet.

i also asked him if he has a girlfriend to sort of make a move on him and let him know that i like him, but i think he didn't get the hint.

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Would you be upset that he's playing with dolls or would you be supportive and allow him to play? Do you believe that playing with dolls will make him less manly when he gets older or would it prepare him to be a good father?

Currently I'm working at a childcare center and while at work I noticed a lot of the little boys (ages 1-4) playing with the baby dolls. And when I run errands or go to the mall I'm seeing a few little boys not only have baby dolls with them, but some even pushing the baby doll in the stroller made for baby dolls. I've also noticed some mothers encouraging their young sons to play with baby dolls, while some fathers are not too keen on the idea.

Physically, do you like how your body looks.

Do you dress a certain way to make it look different, to make you like how you appear better? Or do you prefer how you look all natural, without styling your appearance? Do you think clothes actually do you a disservice?

I've personally known this guy for 5 months. I initiated conversation first and followed him first. We began texting each other and I ended up asking him out. Even though he agreed, he canceled on me twice. Despite him eventually telling me that he wasn't ready for a relationship and wanted to be friends, we still would text each other, a few times for hours til the early morning. He did admit to liking me and being attracted to me. One of the last things he texted me was, "although I was supposed to go to bed, know I'm thinking about you and I care about you".

A week later in person, I asked him, "How would you feel if you were to never see me again? How would you feel if we never spoke again?" His response was, "To be honest, I don't know how I would feel. I don't know". I just nodded my head and moved on. But what does this mean when a guy says this?

I had some high school friends over for an afternoon at the weekend and after we had lunch I “accidentally” poured leftover soup all over a guy I like so he had to give me his clothes to wash them. My friends dared me to do it like out of a movie or something haha. He just had to sit there in his boxers waiting for the clothes to wash and dry while we watched tv lol. And it might have been a bit obvious I did it on purpose. I told him I didn't have anything that would fit him while he waited, when he asked. 😂

He seemed to find it funny, but he looked a bit embarrassed and red as well and mainly sat there awkwardly with a pillow across his lap for the afternoon. Do you think I went a bit too far?

You just started talking, with no rapport & NO attempt by the other person to build a rapport. They pushed to meet quickly & when on the phone, for one, spoke of sex. You are NOT an easy person after cheap sex & told them this a few times but still NO attempt to build rapport.

It's Christmas Eve and your supposed to be in bed asleep. But you're over excited and playing up. Your parents need you to stay in bed until morning so they can put out presents etc and so they have 2 options.

1. Tell you there's a monster prowling around outside and you need to be real quiet and stay in bed if you don't want to be eaten.

2. Tell you Santa won't stop if he in knows you're awake.

Which would have got you to behave the best?

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To make it short — a really cute cop stared at me and I stared back at him and it really felt like something sparked lol as silly as it sounds.

Would it be strange to ask about the guy at the gas station? Just if they remember him and if he and/or other cops visit regularly?

Is it a desperate move? or a creepy behavior to you guys?

And if I ever get lucky again and see/meet him again, what should I do?

We get along great and I’m truly in love

Growing up in the 90's and 2000's men's shorts were super long and baggy, but they have begun to get shorter in more recent years, and honestly it's about damn time! In my opinion long shorts look absolutely horrible on men, and they look much better when they show some knee and some thigh.

But I've also seen several people express the exact opposite view of mine: that the longer shorts were way better. So maybe I'm the weird one, haha.

My manager is another woman, who is about 4-5 years older than me. She got promoted into the role relatively recently.

I am a professional, and I am kind but can be firm when necessary. Yet, a conflict came up at work and my boss said to me, "I'm worried that you're too sweet to handle this, so I will take care of it." I found this to be really infantilizing/belittling because I've been working there for a long time and have frequently and successfully handled conflicts and yet she always talks to me like I'm too fragile to handle things. Every other superior in the place has always had confidence in me, so I don't know why she always has to talk down to me like this. I'm getting really sick of it. I've tried to prove that I'm strong enough to handle things, but she just can't seem to accept that I'm capable. I'm starting to think she's threatened by me surpassing her or seeming more capable than her.

Do you think I'm being belittled, or am I being too sensitive?

Plus, if she thinks I'm too "sweet" to handle my job, then why am I there? She's even started calling me "Sweet ____ (insert my name here)" as a nickname...