Polls

When it comes to dating, I'm really worried that this is the reason why I am so unlucky in love, because I'm not very active person nor interesting enough for the guys.

I feel like after work and duties and all that needs to be done, you don't really have enough free time for hobbies and even if you do, if you are a homebody like me then you're happy just to be in a nice cozy calm place, home.

What I like to do:
- Play videogames from time to time (mostly horror games, RPG when I was younger)
- I like watching movies, especially old good movies and horror flicks
- I love good music, I prefer old music (80s, new-wave and similar).
- I like to spend time with my very few closest friends but it's so much harder now that we are all adulting lol
- I like to shop fashion and little things but I am still considerate while I do so
- Sometimes I like to bake (sometimes because not always it is eatable)
- I like eating out but as I said, I do it only when I can really afford it
- I do like animals a lot, care after them
- I also like cars, no pro but I know a bit about them, I like driving and I can myself traveling somewhere far, treat myself and my closest ones

This is most of the stuff I do after I come home from work and once are all the household duties done.

I'm kind of a nerd but I never really wanted to date a nerd. Is that normal?

Are hobbies/interests like these strange or not good enough?

I feel like it's technically always planned even for a second in advance, so just for statistical purposes,
If you didn't even consider cheating until the interaction that led to cheating, please pick spontaneous.

If someone has cheated on their SO with you, then please use that as the answer unless you are unsure what he/she was thinking. Then I have other options for those.

I feel like without my makeup and lashes I might seem more homely and approachable, that’s the vibe I get from people. But I overthink a lot so I’m just looking for opinions.

I'm self conscious about my skin color. I am pretty pale, and I don't tan that easily. What makes it worse is that I have dark brown hair, I'm the literal complete opposite of the beauty standard here in Sweden. No guys are interested in me, and I think it's mostly because of my hair color and skin tone.

I look like a nerd they present in movies. Pale skin, dark brown hair, brown eyes, glasses and a few pimples. (They aren't really visible though)

Guys in Sweden are very picky, and their type is tan skin, blue eyes and blonde hair. I've noticed that Asian people think I look good, but it's because where they are from pale skin is the beauty standard.

There's so many blue eyed, tanned skin, blonde hair girls here. I see them everywhere I look, it's impossible for me to compete with them. They get all the guys.

So, is pale skin unattractive to you?@

Before I explain the correct answer for the followers of Christ, let’s just say, when I asked this you probably went to say well, I’m working on it. As Christian’s what we should say is yes. Now you might be a bit confused so let me explain a little:

The main definition of Holy is perfection and purity. When the Bible talks about Holy things/people other than God it is different. That doesn’t mean the God isn’t Holy, it’s not that he isn’t pure and perfect, there’s no doubt about that. When the Bible talked about Holy, it’s talking about purpose not perfection. Each and every person whom is reading this, is holy. God picked each and every person and made a purpose for them to serve the lord.

So, when someone asks you if you are holy, you now can tell them the right answer:

The answer is yes!

Now that you know the right answer, comment down below and tell me what you think. Also just FYI, I honestly used what I remembered from the sermon this weekend at my church. by the way, great pastor!!!

There's a troll on this site who was saying a woman was racist for dating a black man. But it got me thinking as, a white woman, being interested in someone who is n. east indian how many people would think I am racist for dating him.

I know everyone has their own preferences, etc. I am asking in general.

ref. Loudermilk series.

With all this talk about how great the gift of life is and I'm sure it is for most people who make that statement, 20,000 foster children age out of the system each year. https://www.adoptuskids.org/meet-the-children/children-in-foster-care/about-the-children Currently they're about 400,000 children in the system from infants to the age of 21 in some states and approximately 117,000 are waiting to be adopted. Many don't get adopted because they are older or for other reasons such as disabilities. If more children are going to be born in the U. S. can we also find a way to get more foster children into permanent homes? What are your thoughts on this.

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Since a woman has no rights to decide what her body can do in America an inevitable outcome is an increase in babies and new mothers. With this extra burden, new mothers may need daycare assistance while they work, extra medical help for them and their children, and family medical leave. Do you support these efforts to help them or do you oppose them?

61 American vaping deaths occurred in just one year so the FDA almost banned all Juul e-cigarettes (a single manufacturer).

45,222 Americans died from guns in the same year, and that seems to be ok according to the some lawmakers.

https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2022/02/03/what-the-data-says-about-gun-deaths-in-the-u-s/

https://www.fda.gov/tobacco-products/youth-and-tobacco/results-annual-national-youth-tobacco-survey#:~:text=2021%20Findings%20on%20Youth%20E%2DCigarette%20Use&text=Among%20students%20who%20currently%20used,reported%20currently%20using%20flavored%20products.