I’ve been chunky, slim and currently slim/thick. No changes in the amount of attention I get from guys, on and off dating apps for years. I’m at a point the past few months where I check the app/swipe on profiles/send msgs maybe 2-3 times per week. I really don’t believe dating is this hard for the average woman, most women don’t really have to work to find a guy they like. I get matches/msgs but they fizzle out and I’ve had more bad “dates”/video calls than good. I’m almost thirty and accept that if I’m this old with no success, maybe it’s a sign to toss in the towel and accept it as it is. I’ve been told I’m cute/attractive, I use the apps because guys never approached me in person. At the back of my mind it’s a “not worth it” dialogue & don’t really have the desire. I really don’t think there’s anything wrong with me, it just hasn’t happened for me. Can confidently say I’ve never been approached or went on a date with a guy I really really liked, I’d rather be alone vs settle I feel like I could’ve settled if I wanted but not worth it.
27F Am I right to assume that I’ve had it tougher than others when it comes to dating?
