27F Am I right to assume that I’ve had it tougher than others when it comes to dating?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been chunky, slim and currently slim/thick. No changes in the amount of attention I get from guys, on and off dating apps for years. I’m at a point the past few months where I check the app/swipe on profiles/send msgs maybe 2-3 times per week. I really don’t believe dating is this hard for the average woman, most women don’t really have to work to find a guy they like. I get matches/msgs but they fizzle out and I’ve had more bad “dates”/video calls than good. I’m almost thirty and accept that if I’m this old with no success, maybe it’s a sign to toss in the towel and accept it as it is. I’ve been told I’m cute/attractive, I use the apps because guys never approached me in person. At the back of my mind it’s a “not worth it” dialogue & don’t really have the desire. I really don’t think there’s anything wrong with me, it just hasn’t happened for me. Can confidently say I’ve never been approached or went on a date with a guy I really really liked, I’d rather be alone vs settle I feel like I could’ve settled if I wanted but not worth it.

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

Most women have no idea what's been going on with the dating market. The increased risk of approach, high body counts and empowerment that makes it worthless to invest. Most men are just looking for sex, and the rest have opted out completely.