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Women typically have much harder lives than men so it should be up to men to alleviate as much of that burden as possible

Shortly after my divorce, at my ex-wife's suggestion, I joined a dating website and posted my profile, stating exactly what I was looking for, meeting women but not interested in anything long-term. Someone must have complained about that because the site banned me "for violating site guidelines." Oh well, I went to a different dating site, posted a similar profile, met several women who I dated over the next few years, and eventually met my wife there.

Have you ever been banned from a website?

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Even if only subconsciously because men usually have it better in life and have less struggles to endure inherently

What do you find attractive and appealing?

Please leave politics out people. We’re talking about beauty

If she’s distant after coming back from an intense 2 week work trip

She went on a film shoot for work for 2 weeks and she warned me that she might not be able to be in touch much as it will be intense and all day. I texted her something nice halfway through and she responded to say sorry she hasn’t been in touch much it’s really intense and she’ll need to hibernate when she’s back.

She got back and it was radio silence so I messaged and we had a brief chat where she basically said she’s exhausted and has stuff to catch up on so won’t be able to come to an event with me a few days after she got back as originally planned. She said she had a lot of fun on the trip though and she got a bit ill and it was stressful but they all bonded so well and it was the best film experience she’s had.

To be fair its only been a few days so I do think its just me being anxious and overthinking. My gut instinct says I just need to trust her and give her space so that’s what I plan to do.

Concerning just meaning you would think "hmm, I definitely have to ask them about this"