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What can I do? Why do I feel so mad?

Every time I see my coworker I can’t help but picture her with my ex boyfriend because he had gave her driving clases and also went to her home. Keep in mind she’s married and her husband is out of state.

736_switch_blade

Xper 7 Age: 28

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It is common for couples to gain weight after marriage?

When my wife and I first got together, I was severely underweight (almost anorexic) and she was very thin as well. After three years of marriage, I am into the slight overweight category (albeit with muscles too) while my...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

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Boyfriends kid doesn’t want us to talk when he’s around?

I have a long distance relationship and it’s generally really good but he shares his son 50/50 and when he has his son sometimes his son gets angry when we try on talk on his days but we only see each other a few days a...

Finfin1981

Xper 5 Age: 45

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A man that got burned by a relationship is like an abused dog.

As the title says, a dog who got abused is the same as a man that got burned by a relationship. Both will very likely take a long time to trust again or not ever trust again in their life, especially not those who remind...

RiseofArtemis

Xper 6 Age: 25

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Adult girls (over 18) who prefer an older "sugar-daddy"? Your Thoughts?

sugar daddy = a well-to-do usually older man who supports or spends lavishly on a mistress, or girlfriend

SpaceGalaxy

Guru Age: 29

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Woman marries stepson after divorcing his father, thoughts?

Speaking of awful parents... the most famous case comes from Russia, but this is something that happened where I live as well, and startingly similar to the Russian case - a woman married her stepson whom she knew since...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Do you ever feel like you are just over relationships all together and realize life is better being single?

I would love to fall in love with a girl that loves me like I love her , but sadly it seems like every time I did and tried , I got my heart shit on too many times to the point I realized what’s even the point? Being...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

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Does it make you less then a person if a girl goes into a new relationship and does things she didn’t for you?

Ok so we were together for about 2 years and she was a very active social media user to the point where she was on it all the time unfortunately even when we were together. She could never detach from her phone. Well the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Caught my husband having an affair?

I have been with my husband, I had no suspicions what so ever; and thought that behaviour was in the past. I had a Christmas clear out and found an old laptop. I noticed it was still logged in to my spouses fb, i clicked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Why do I want my husband to cheat on me?

I always false accuse him of cheating on me with his co worker. He's told numerous times he would never do that. But with my anxiety mixed in he's better off cheating so I can get over my anxiety.

Anonymous

(30-35)

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How do I say 'I love you' for the first time to my boyfriend without it feeling too awkward or rushed?

We've been together for a while now and I really feel it, but I'm not sure if he's ready to hear it yet. How can I make it feel natural and not put too much pressure on him, especially since it's such a big step?

lovely

Xper 5 Age: 51

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Sometimes, is it best to settle for less?

When people set their standards high, sometimes they're not going to get everything they want out of something. So, is it best to settle for less, sometimes?

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Am I overthinking this and what should I say to them?

I’ve been messing around with a guy for 3 years sneaking around. For his 21st birthday he invited me to Europe with him, but also I’m meeting his family (both his parents, 18 year old sister and older brother). I’m really...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Is it true when my friend said friendship is a two way street?

Even though he never visits me, and always wants me to come over, to visit his apartment in a different town

Supergodman12

Xper 6 Age: 34

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How do I tell my parents I have a boyfriend who’s 25?

I'm 39 and he's 25. I worry that they'll judge the age difference or find it weird. He's mature, treats me well, and makes me happy, but my family can be pretty traditional. Do you have any advice for bringing this up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Could you be with someone who has cheated in the past if they were honest and up front about it?

HawkPerception

Influencer Age: 32

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What do you think are the most important questions to ask someone before getting into a relationship with them?

HawkPerception

Influencer Age: 32

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Am I a bad friend for removing my “online friend” from IG? Why am I always quick to unfriend vs talk through issues with interpersonal relationships?

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I’ve had an online friend for a few years and he started wishing me a happy birthday every year after we got to know each other a little better. There were times where he would & I

So I’ve had an online friend for a few years and he started wishing me a happy birthday every year after we got to know each other a little better. There were times where he would & I wouldn’t, when that were the case, he’d follow up a few days or maybe a week after saying I forgot it was his birthday (more subtly). Last year, he wished me a happy belated & this year I decided to also be more laid back. I just asked him if he had a good birthday maybe a day or two after it actually happened, I sent him that message after he followed up with me about something else. He leaves me on read yet continues to view my IG stories.

This has always been the case, he’s always one of the first to see my stories but may go weeks without msging me. A few years back, he’d literally go weeks without replying but will be the first person to see my stories or comment. But when I’d take long to get back to him, he’d *jokingly* say that I’m ignoring him or ask if I’m busy. Honestly I don’t feel like I did anything wrong so I don’t see the need to reach out, it just seems hypocritical. You can be busy but I can’t? He hasn’t made a comment like that in years & his response time has gotten better. I have a tendency to delete people when my frustration has built up, I don’t know if it’s an avoidant personality style trait.

I just…couldn’t bring myself to confront him and ask if he was upset with me. I just felt apathetic yet hopeless in a way, even though I had total control. It’s been over 5 months since I heard from him and we’ve never gone that long without talking, so I took a hint and removed him (unfollowed him/he’s no longer able to follow me) from my IG. He’s still on FB, gaming app & linked in but those platforms are a lot less personal. Now I officially have no “friends” and at 30F I should be A LOT more upset but it’s more worrying about how I’m perceived. Is avoidant attachment the cause? Or excuses and I’m just a shitty friend?

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How do I tell my boyfriend that our conversations feels forced and not engaging anymore?

My boyfriend (23M) and I (23M) has been in a relationship for almost 5 months now. He's got work which I understand but almost everyday, while we're in the middle of a conversation, he disappears without replies for hours...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Ladies of here ,, tell honestly do you feel jealous of their beauties? and which one of those are more subject to jealousy for you?

Just imagine if they were so much close to your husband or boyfriend , would you feel insecure? and which one makes you more insecure?

Anonymous

(25-29)