Have you ever called your partner “b! tch” or “jerk” during a fight/argue?

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ShellyB · Accepted Answer

My current partner no never. And he hasn’t called me anything like that either, except when we are joking around maybe.

A partner I had in college called me names like that all the time, I did not call him anything I just took it.

My HS boyfriend never called me anything and, I did not call him these exact words but I did say things like “you’re a coward” or “you’re so weak” not meaning physically, but more like that he was too easy for me to push around in our relationship and I was kind of a mean girl at the time (I have grown a lot since then).

emeraldsaphire · Accepted Answer

Nope, We have a 5 second rule when ever we argue. We have to wait 5 seconds before saying anything. Sometimes we also use a ball, if you hold the ball you can speak. It seems silly, but ever since I started doing this in my relationships things have gotten so much better.

MicahRaine · Accepted Answer

I've never done that, but I could definitely see myself saying something like "don't be a jerk" to my partner in the future.

I pray I'll never call my partner a "b*tch" out of anger though. Maybe in bed if she likes that, but I tend to value respect a lot so it's unlikely.

Professor-college · Accepted Answer

In my case I have called a woman that but it was my ex-girlfriend and he was after I found out that they have been sleeping with one of her patients for more than  4 months before I found out

Apple1996 · Answer

All the time. I don't play when fighting.. if someone is acting like a bitch I'm gonna call them one especially my partner

Billlewis · Answer

I often refer to a woman as a ‘Bitch Goddess’, but that’s of course intended as a compliment.

glennos89 · Answer

No if emotions run that high I'm going to walk a block around the neighborhood to avoid escalating the situation

kellytheman · Answer

No and if I did ever called her the b word is the worst thing I could do. I did have a girlfriend that was into dirty talk during sex and liked being called names like slut, who’re and the b word.

HungTexan · Answer

I try not to engage in verbal arguments with my partner.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I’d be lying if I said I never have. I was much younger and didn’t know how to have a mature disagreement about something at that time

Still-alive · Answer

I probably won't use names but i am not shy about calling out toxic or bad behavior outright.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

An ex? Yes…. In moments I was put through so much I got nary and petty. I think the pettiest thing I’ve done is play a song about them being gay and liking dick

GODBODY954 · Answer

Nope I just try to calm her down and if that don't work I'll walk away and let her argue with herself

dudeinohio · Answer

Never have had a fight and will never call each other names.

GrinchyTsy · Answer

I call him that when were not fighting in a playful way.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. I do not get into those types of discussions.

Dargil · Answer

Not back then. Now I call her Beelzebub.

call_me_scar · Answer

Not during a fight but during rough sex yeah

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Yes, in the heat of the moment

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap

CubaPirate · Answer

Haven't we all lol

Ironic_Method · Answer

Never. It's really easy not to call them names.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Nope

bowenw · Answer

Never.

AnonAndrew · Answer

Nope.

nawtee_me · Answer

Never….

In_Trance · Answer

Never

slatyb · Answer

No, never ever.

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