Questions

i have been with my girlfriend for over a year now. i love her very much and im very loyal to her. she's the love of my life. before her, I've never even loved anyone else. she makes me very happy. i always tell her/show her how much she means to me.

a couple months ago, i was at a bar with my friend. just the two of us. this girl just came up to us and started talking to me. hitting on me even after i told her i have a girlfriend. she said she didn't care. i ended up telling her to fuck off.

just yesterday i was on the phone with my girlfriend. my girlfriend lately have been making jokes about me with other girls. ever since she had this repeated dream that i cheated on her. its funny a lot of times but lately i think its been too much. which i let her know. i think its just her way of showing jealousy/wanting reassurance.

i ended up telling her about the girl hitting on me a long time ago. which does not happen a lot. i didn't tell her this until now because i didn't want her to think that i was "bragging" about it. she got upset and said that she thought this would be something i would tell her about. she was asking all these questions of when, where, how it happened.

i told her if she wants me to tell her these things from now on then i will, then she said its fine, if my initial instincts was not telling her about it, then i shouldn't change that. it is obvious that she's upset that i didn't tell her.

what do you think? was i wrong not to tell her about it? do you tell your girlfriend when a random girl hits on you? should you?

this is over distance we met a few years ago at a mutual friends party and started talking online
I met this woman a few months ago and last night she finally admitted that she likes me but the thing is I can see that she is very afraid of being vulnerable whereas I am not she seems to have fear of abandonment

Anyway she obtains her income by being on social media and she posts a lot of things relating to her work on this. The thing is she posts things like if a man is not as successful as her she cannot even be around him. Whereas with me I can associate with anyone I do not care who they are

She claims that I am like family to her and she did wear her best outfit for me on my birthday

she says things about her friends to me and she seems very upset when her friends think she is weird but she also says that she is so confident that she doesn’t care what others think of her

She says on her social media that she wants a guy who is wealthy. But with me she claims that money does not matter to her when it comes to love

she told me that her social media is just a game and she also told me when this guy was sending her gifts that it was just a game as part of the social media

She asks guys their height

She has lip fillers and spends a lot of money on her appearance (not that this matters but it may help with your assessment)

She said that she could not even be around a man who isn’t as successful as her but thing is I am just some ordinary guy

I have helped her with one part of her social media and I have achieved massive results for her whereas on her own she was fairly idle and just quite lazy with it

I am qualified in communications so I know how to increase audience

I don’t know what to think of this

Should I stay with her or go?

I do like her and she knows it but I don’t know if she’s being real with me or fake as in she is fake in general and just wants me to remain in her life so she does not feel vulnerable

if I delete her I may lose her forever