What kind of response is that?

[Anonymous]

I told the guy I've been seeing that I want him but I know at the moment I can't have him. He responded life hey sucks some times, don't worry I'm not a catch.

What kind of response is this. Has he led me on or won't admit how he feel?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's a kinda weird response from him if you ask me. When a girl tells a guy she wants him but can't have him, usually he'd be more upset about it!

It seems like maybe he's not as invested in you as you thought. Saying "life sucks" and that he's "not a catch" makes it sound like he doesn't really care one way or the other about being with you. Like he's not that bothered that you can't be together.

My guess is he was probably enjoying the attention from you but doesn't have super strong feelings. Or he may have just been playing it cool so he didn't seem too eager. Guys can be dumb like that sometimes.

I wouldn't say he necessarily led you on, but he also didn't make it clear how he really felt about you either. At this point I wouldn't get your hopes up about him. Maybe just move on and find a guy who's actually excited to be with you, you know? Don't waste your time on a lukewarm.

[Summeroflove]

It could be either or. If someone won’t give direct responses. Then the balls in their court. Sometimes you gotta start moving on.



I mean it could be he has low self esteem or is nervous he will get rejected. But some relationships don’t work out and you never really know where something would go. You could try talking to him.


But at the end of the day if someone can’t be direct wijt sometjong. Well…

[Anonymous]

So in what way has he lead you on? Because I know a lot of girls claim a guy has done this but he hasn't.

[Asker]

could be the many dates we went on and all the time we spent together where he would say things that would imply he wants a relationship

[Opinion Owner]

But did you ever actually ask him if he wanted a relationship? Unless you had this conversation and he said he does, I don't feel he necessarily lead you on. You might have gotten it into your head he wands a relationship when all along he probably didn't but you don't know this unless he directly told you he wants a relationship

[Asker]

We did talk about a relationship I at the time wasn't ready for one.

[Opinion Owner]

You just said he said things that implied he wants a relationship now you are saying something different. The fact you just lied right there tells me you never had any kind of conversation with him and it was you who lead yourself to believe he wanted a relationship

[Asker]

Didn't realise him saying I want to be with you and will you be my girlfriend didn't imply he wanted a relationship. My bad. The issue I have now is now that I said yeah I'm ready and I want that too he replies with this

[boggboss]

His answer don't say if he has led u on or not he simply responded to what u said saying u haven't missed anything special