I usually said, "I have plenty of friends and don't time for all of them. I thought perhaps we could been more. When you see me in a different light, call me. In the mean time, fuck you very much, have a good life" And DO NOT ever look back and don't be their friend, regardless of how needy they appear to be.
I don't want to date her or fuck her, I'm not an animal buddy.
And lets me real, you are exactly 6 years older than me. Of course you've fucked around multiple times in contrast to me. Difference is you make it sound like dating and sex is ALL that matters with the women in my life. I actually appreciate friendships.
If you find a girl who actually has enough character and is entertaining/funny enough that being friends with her would be worthwhile... seriously, date her. It's a rare find.
That's quite a few female friends of mines. And there's a reason they're "FRIENDS". I don't want a relationship with them. I only pursue relationships with certain girls not each and every one of my friends, cause that screams thirsty.
In my opinion if someone finds a spark in Friend-zone, then relationship is going to be very stable, and a long time relationship. Cause of time and mutual respect and understanding.
I'd rather just not be friends. If it's a girl I'm not interested in then yea I can be friends. But if we don't work out I just cut them off. I can't be friends with a girl I was once interested in.
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If you think about it, before you date someone, yous are pretty much friends... its just the stages towards before getting in a relationship
Very much not. If a man pursues a woman as a friend, he will get a friend. Friends and lovers are totally separate paths. I wish someone would have told me this sooner.
Umm.. I won't date someone unless I've been friends with them for at least a year. People need to stop just jumping into relationship and actually get to know the person as a friend first. Friendship is so valuable to me. @Transigence
I agree. I only date people I've known as friends. That way, you actually know the other person. Makes more sense than jumping into a relationship with someone whose name is the only thing you really know.
Love this! My best friend is a guy and he is there for me more than any female ever will be. His friends often give him shit about it because he's "friend zoned" but he doesn't see it that way.
Sounds like a young people thing. I'm older, we don't have friendzones, we have spouses and married friends. lol.
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I mean.. I guess I'm "friend zoned" by my ex.. but I can't really blame her... I think I pushed her away by being too needy.. so she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore... I can't force her to be with me... So, I figured a friendship is probably better than nothing.. it might be awkward right now... but I feel in the future we'll either be great friends or date again
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What RachelBrigs said, if it hurts too much there's nothing wrong with not being friends.
I also look like I give zero fucks and that's about accurate in response to this comment cause I'm assuming you're either an idiot or just can't see the little ole age next to my username says 18.
I look young. Yes, that exists in men. No, it's not a growth disorder.
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I usually said, "I have plenty of friends and don't time for all of them. I thought
perhaps we could been more. When you see me in a different light, call me. In the
mean time, fuck you very much, have a good life" And DO NOT ever look back and
don't be their friend, regardless of how needy they appear to be.
Awesome take and the friend zone be a good thing. It still sucks but there is an upside.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGK2KprU-ToYou go right on and be happy that a girl was willing to be friends with you, kiddo.
The men will continue to date and have sex.
I don't want to date her or fuck her, I'm not an animal buddy.
And lets me real, you are exactly 6 years older than me. Of course you've fucked around multiple times in contrast to me. Difference is you make it sound like dating and sex is ALL that matters with the women in my life. I actually appreciate friendships.
From my experience...
If you find a girl who actually has enough character and is entertaining/funny enough that being friends with her would be worthwhile... seriously, date her. It's a rare find.
In my experience,
That's quite a few female friends of mines. And there's a reason they're "FRIENDS". I don't want a relationship with them. I only pursue relationships with certain girls not each and every one of my friends, cause that screams thirsty.
In my opinion if someone finds a spark in Friend-zone, then relationship is going to be very stable, and a long time relationship. Cause of time and mutual respect and understanding.
Friendship can turn into love, but love cannot go back to friendship
That is very true. My ex actually said to me "we were friends before we fell in love, why can't we just go back?"
golden lines
Become sexually attractive and make your intentions early on that you want to date and never be in the friend zone again!
Just general insight I believe in, not trying to be cocky..
I love your take on this 😊 friendship is so important to me, I wish more people appreciated it!
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I'd rather just not be friends. If it's a girl I'm not interested in then yea I can be friends. But if we don't work out I just cut them off. I can't be friends with a girl I was once interested in.
If you think about it, before you date someone, yous are pretty much friends... its just the stages towards before getting in a relationship
Very much not. If a man pursues a woman as a friend, he will get a friend. Friends and lovers are totally separate paths. I wish someone would have told me this sooner.
not always, when you first start to get to know the person you love, it goes through being friends?
Umm.. I won't date someone unless I've been friends with them for at least a year. People need to stop just jumping into relationship and actually get to know the person as a friend first. Friendship is so valuable to me. @Transigence
exactly @existing_not_living I would only get in a relationship with someone that im friends with
I agree. I only date people I've known as friends. That way, you actually know the other person. Makes more sense than jumping into a relationship with someone whose name is the only thing you really know.
No, I don't consider strangers to be my friends
Love this! My best friend is a guy and he is there for me more than any female ever will be. His friends often give him shit about it because he's "friend zoned" but he doesn't see it that way.
Sounds like a young people thing.
I'm older, we don't have friendzones, we have spouses and married friends.
lol.
I mean.. I guess I'm "friend zoned" by my ex.. but I can't really blame her... I think I pushed her away by being too needy.. so she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore... I can't force her to be with me... So, I figured a friendship is probably better than nothing.. it might be awkward right now... but I feel in the future we'll either be great friends or date again
What RachelBrigs said, if it hurts too much there's nothing wrong with not being friends.
There are indeed some advantages to having female friends you don't screw.
Exactly besides that's how you get to meet other females. Maybe not always but it certainly helps develop your skills with talking to them.
how to beat the friendzone 1. take time to get over her 2. become her friend when you get over her
Being friends with a hot girl that's getting sperm dumped in her vagina by chad thunder cock... Mwhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
I guess - I have to agree... because friendzone is the only thing I can get.
Yeah man, I can't even get that.
I knew it, peer pressure and mainstream media are bad.
Lol i felt like i have been friendzoned after reading this.
Well you look like you're 15 so once you become a man you'll understand why being friendzoned sucks
I also look like I give zero fucks and that's about accurate in response to this comment cause I'm assuming you're either an idiot or just can't see the little ole age next to my username says 18.
I look young. Yes, that exists in men. No, it's not a growth disorder.
Yeah cause you can't falsify your age on this site haha. Let's see if you have the same feelings when you're out if high school, kiddo
I'm in college you dumb fuck, want a few pictures?
I'm not into pedophilia
This is why I block anonymous idiots. I'm fucking 18 and not about to explain myself further.