How to train your man into becoming your ideal mate (Page 4)

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Feminist likes the mytake, its cute.
Don't confuse feminist and feminazi.

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  Okay, will search the difference. Thanks for the heads up.
  
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roberte Follow
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none of this happens in real life at least after your married

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  I am married and I do it.
  
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Anonymous
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I came here to say The best way to train a man is to leave him alone and let him be himself because you can not change a man.

But it looks like you were spot on. :)
Thanks for not being what I thought this was going to be. haha

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  Thank you for reading it. 😊
  
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OpenWine Follow
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Your take is the definition of failure 😂

Until I read the last words I've sensed so much hatred writen into

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  How is it a failure? Explain.
  
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- OpenWine
  
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  Only need 2 words to tell you why doing all that doesn't give you your mate: femdom, BSDM
  
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- Mesonfielde
  
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  Ideas of whipping each other aren't exactly necessary for a healthy relationship. Downvoted.
  
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- OpenWine
  
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  It is about having the ideal mate, being just nice to your partner sure is the way to have a good relationship but it doesn't mean you and your mate are a match. Comparison: you like metal, your mate likes EDM. Your mate wants to go to Tomorrowland but you hate EDM, it would suck
  
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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  This take is only about a few things, people act as if this take is the whole of a relationship. For Pete sake, I know these twelve things are not the only things a person needs to stay in a relationship. I have been with my hubby for nine years, do you seriously think we have nothing else in common? I hope you understand this is one sided, not meant to cover a full relationship experience.
  
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- OpenWine
  
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  Consider me one of those guys who was just looking to piss someone of or trying to prevent missunderstandment
  
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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  Oh! I think I get it. Thanks, I think. 😊
  
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- OpenWine
  
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  There's no need to thank me, I am also wrong by getting your take wrong. Tho I don't even think that men are going to change just because the girl fulfills its needs. Best is to find someone already treating you well or not keep trying to change a guy if you don't see improvement over long term
  
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code3 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 31

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I would love to do all this, but I work longer and harder hours than he does. If I was a stay at home wife then hell yeah.

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Anonymous
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I agree but you don't have to make me a sandwich!

Bless you child!

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  This made me laugh. Nice! Thank you!
  
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John_Doesnt Follow
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Sounds like my bride to be. If I could find a woman like that I'd be in heaven.

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  Country girls...
  
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- Conrad_Kelsiven
  
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  Is that supposed to be a hint?
  
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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  No, I am married. I was suggesting to him to find a country girl.
  
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Gommers Follow
Xper 7 Age: 36

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OP is definitely not a woman. No woman in history has ever come to this realization. Men, living in caves, only wanted to sit on their comfortable log and watch Mammoths take on whatever animal was trying to kill them that day. Even back then women didn't know how to make a fire and stand over it all day with the man's kill and trip from the grocery forest.

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TheButterfly Follow
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Not sure whether this is a joke or not, but either way. Men are not dogs and women are not slaves. When two people are in a relationship they should both give and take.

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  I know that. This was simply one side of the coin. I know both should be respected. It implies that.
  
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Casper286 Follow
Explorer Age: 31

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I'm not his mommy. But when he does nice things for me I'll do it for him in return.

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Shamalien Follow
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This is actually pure gold hahaha "never let him leave the house hungry or horny" I mean once your married, I totally agree with that statement. The thing is that some men would totally take advantage of this behavior and take it for granted, and the key is to not marry those ones :P

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Liam_Hayden Follow
Guru Age: 30

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At first I thought this would be yet another course in manipulating a guy and training him to be a puppy. Instead I find myself intrigued as to whether women like this really exist. I mean, if I found someone like this I'd give her the sun, the moon, and the stars - or as close as I could get to that.

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93stepsawayfromhome Follow
Yoda Age: 25

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Joke or not, writing a large amount of misogynist bullshit isn't excused by ending it with "this is not to be taken as fact or as serious". If I, a male, were to write something like this and end it with that I'd get bashed to death. If I tell a mass of people that I think Mexicans are rapists and drug addicts and then get booed by all of them, I can also claim it was a joke. Discrimination is not funny.

Just kidding.

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iamshelly Follow
Xper 5 Age: 29

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This is dumb. He already has a mother. If he can't make his own meals or clean up after himself then he shouldn't be in a relationship.

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  Fair enough.
  
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Mesonfielde Follow
Master Age: 34

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This feels like satire. But I don't understand the point that is meant to be made.

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- Hannah591
  
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  Women should "serve" their man hand and foot basically and do whatever he asks.
  
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Anonymous
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Thank you for this myTake, it's reminded me why I'm a lesbian.

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  Cool...
  
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- idkwtftoputhere
  
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  Lmao
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  No offence but I prefer having a relationship with someone who views me as her equal, not her mummy.
  
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HereIbe Follow
Guru Age: 53

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You forgot the REST of the training:

When he starts acting bullshit, you STOP all of that and let him know that when YOU are happy you will make HIM happy. If he is smart or nice enough to ask what happened? Tell him without nagging or complaining. Remember, it's reciprocal. You make him happy, he makes you happy.

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WhatTheHellAmy Follow
Guru Age: 27

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2, 4, 5, 7, 8 never horny, 9, 10, 11 and 12...
I would do all those things for him.

I'm not good at cooking and I'm not planning to become a great cooker.
I'm lazy as fuck so...

He wants space and good sex, he can call me.

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Metlahaed Follow
Explorer Age: 36

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You really only need 7,9, and 11. 12 helps too though.

The rest is a little... lets say... mundane, for lack of a better (nicer) word.

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  Fair enough.
  
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Xper 5 Age: 29

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i would sy this is more of trianing women.

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- Nettie29Howie
  
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  Ya, the title was deceiving on purpose. But there is no training in this take, just showing respect.
  
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