Guest Feature: Expert April Masini Explains Why Nice Guys Finish Last (Page 4)

[justbanANNAz]

lol oh my goodness... is this some kind of joke?

[the_rake]

it's not joke. there are plenty of women who genuinely do think like this.

[Under_The_Sun]

Yes, there are, you're right. And why shouldn't they, right? Why settle for a needy, dorky , desperate man like the typical "nice guy" (as described)? Unless dating has to do with charity, whch I think it shouldn't :)

[the_rake]

@underthesun

Ok two things, lol.

1. You should refine your concept of niceness because niceness does not have to mean unattractive, unassertive, boring, etc.
2. Yeah those girls can date who they like but they can't hate on guys for dating based on looks (these girls are always the same people to can men shallow).
3. When they are older and can't get a nice man to, you won't hear anyone crying them a river.

[the_rake]

*3 things

[Under_The_Sun]

@the_rake That's why I said: "nice guys as defined above". And honestly I never saw a problem in guys (or girls) dating for looks. I never understood people saying that going for looks is shallow.

[the_rake]

@Under_The_Sun
1. ok, but she didn't really bother to make a distinction at any point between the two kinds of nice guys, and most people, even if they do make a distinction forget to mention that they're not all boring, ugly, etc. (they just talk about not using niceness to get a girl in bed).
2. a lot of the girls using nice shaming tacks do.

[AleDeEurope]

#joke1 you should make that a thing.

[Remonster]

Jesus Christ it never ends

[zagor]

Needy is never attractive, in either gender.

[SuitAndTie]

Expert? Ha!

[Polocrew]

#stopfucboyshaming