Understanding Separation.

Majority of Couples spend a lot of energy and time to build relationships, which is the reason it hurts when things do not work out.

Separation takes so many forms and can occur in minute relationships to marriages. When couples separate, it looks like they have wasted their time and energy on the wrong person, and some people develop the resentment of giving love another try. Separation happens when partners are no longer compatible, especially when there are a lot of differences between them.

Before you separate, try to fix. A lot of people throw away a healthy relationship just because of the ill feelings of the moment, the regret after the dust is settled.

Some unknown truth about successful relationships

All successful relationships had its trying periods but the determination of the couple to face the storms together saw them through.

In case of separation, never see your ex as your enemy, people come into our lives for different reasons, some to help us, some for us to help, and some to teach us a valuable lesson. When you develop a negative feelings about your ex, you are only trying to cage yourself, and which may affect your ability to make further efforts on love, but you have an edge when you wish him/her well after separation.

Let go out of love

Instead of continuing in hurt, bitter feelings, fight, and malice it is better to let go out of love. Why does love come during separation? Love is light and it brings with it healing that nothing else can offer. The pains, the fighting, and the ill feelings and emotions will only drag you down, but love will lift you up.

After separation, the lessons are very important. Reflect on what led to separation, was it pride, misunderstanding, or anything? The lessons will help you avoid the pitfalls in your next relationship.

Separation does mean the end, each new day provides us with a new opportunity. One way of healing a hurtful separation is to replace old people with new ones, discover new people. When you find the right person, he/she will make you forget the pain, such people have a soothing effect on us.

After all the separation and the pain, look back at each event and smile within yourself, the wonderful stuffs life has in stuck for us. Keep wishing your ex well, he/she might someday pick up your thoughts and send you goodwill thoughts as well. Do not forget, people are subject to change, if you keep the ill feelings, your partner might in the future change to be a refined person while you are still having that negative feelings all to your detriment.