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Sorry but I disagree with a lot of this and have met quite a few women that prove the vast majority of your take flat out wrong.
Bad advice.
oh really. what are the ones you disagree with exactly? being insulted? being physically abused? being with a mentally unstable, withering, lazy woman? being with a junkie? with an unfaithful slut? what is your disagreement exactly and what did your experience teach you that you dont explain to us?
@Phoenix98
You seem like a fine upstanding discerning young man, so I'm really wondering...
What are your objections to this list?
What am I missing?
@I-am-a-nobody Some of the broad generalizations and assumptions made.
yeah pal. hello. thats why their called clues, and not absolute guides of defining people.
And I quote
The "Ultimate" "Guide" for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).
if you are not smart enough to get they are hints, you are not smart enough to use the guide. it could get much more detail but this was outside the scope of this take... .
This list is somewhat shallow. There are certain things, that I do not agree with you.
But about half of it is true at least.
life is somewhat shallow as well. also shallow is subjective. also too deep or elaborate psychological red flags would be hardly digested by the broad masses.
you could be helpful enough to clarify the parts you disagree with, so that i can understand what frame you are coming from. i can make a few guesses but i'd prefer the real thing, not speculations.
Alright, let me share you my thoughts inside the brackets () :
if she has that cunning look (Irrelevant to her character. She might be confident or feel sexy)
Introvert (I'm an introvert myself. Nothing wrong with being introvert. The world has not to know about you anyway)
Seems apathetic about her own life (I feel apathetic about my own life. What's wrong with being stoic?)
Shows little to no empathy for the pain of other humans and animals. (Again, this is linked with being stoic and there is nothing wrong with being stoic like I am)
Someone in whom you see the future mother of your children. (I want no marriage and no kids. It's a firm decision and will only disrupt my long term life goals. I prefer travelling around with a nice lady as a companion, that I am committed to.)
hmm interesting. quite close to what i expected. well i'm happy to clarify that: 1) there is a subtle different between confidence or intelligence and cunning. it takes quite the discretion to tell them appart. i'm in no way saying date someone who stares like a cross eyed cow on crack. 2) i clarified i dont mean introverts, but those who hide nastiness behind an introvert facade. 3,4) well, stoic is an epheumism for not empathetic enough and closed to one's self. defensive versus expansive and radiant. 5) cool. your life. your goals.
It's all common sense but there are some little things that I didn't think about. I can say I completely agree with you on every point.
The only real way to know a woman is to spend years with her. Women are very good at putting up mask.
everyone can put up masks. if you need to spent years with a crappy person to get they are crappy you are doing something wrong. there are exceptions of course.
Um okay, my list of candidates shrunk from like 4.000.000.000 to 4.000.000 to 4.000 to... well... none. To be honest, you kinda scared me out now, mostly by the financial thing.
dont be pessimistic. they are millions. in the billions though but still its a good number.
So 4... your list is still 4 lol.
@rjroy3 If only...
lol. I was just teasing about the use of period, instead of commas to differentiate numbers.
4.000000000 = 4.000000 = 4.000 = 4
4,000,000,000 = 4 billion
4,000,000 = 4 million
4,000 = 4 thousand
Goodluck finding the women of choice lads. Seems impossible where i live 😂😂
sometimes you see in others what you wanna see. or simply get reflections of your own character with that feedback
ok .
YOU MESSED THE MAIN POINT OF WHY RELATIONSHIPS END
THROW ALL THESE AWAY
ITS CALLED BELIEF
can you elaborate on "belief"?
think about how the world works as a whole
people literally separate themselves from one another because of beliefs
relationships are no different
you are getting somewhere but even your self have a very skewed idea about it... .
I have separated myself from a ton of people because of belief
most don't study there ignorant
they believe everything they hear without any evidence what so ever
so I do not want them around me
I will tell them the truth but if they do not listen bye
this tactic never works. an intelligent well read man like you can certainly understand at this age range, that militant approach doesn't work. people are led with love and by example. also cutting them off in a nasty way will only decrease the chances of them ever looking towards the direction of the values you want to promote... .
I have tried the nice way they don't listen
I get better results with when im serious
my job is to speak the truth and show the truth
to those who listen and do research on the things I have to say good for them
to those who ignore and go on with there life
there fucked unless someone else goes up to them and hopefully they reach them
it's how it works
"nice way" won't make the cut. you need cleansing, humility and enlightment by the Holy Spirit. and you have way to go in that department in that denomination/sect and lifestyle of yours. to remove the other's little stick in the eye you should remove your huge ass log said your Teacher.. .
James 4:4
Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.
so basically if you do not agree with me CAUSE I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING IN THE BIBLE then I will separate myself from that person
IM TIRED
the church of today is stupid and runs on feelings and im not even Christian
im a man who believes in the Bible
its ok pal. you have love in your heart and want to spread a message you believe is right. you are tired cause you really try to help. but no human is an island. Church is necessary and its not cut from the body of Christ in orthodoxy. you say you are one man with just a bible. well wasn't this the exact recipe that gave birth to all heresies on earth? Studying the bible isn't enough. you need to be saved to save others. and saved goes much further than you are told in protestand cycles. "accepting the name of Christ" alone is a generic nonsense the way its interpreted. it means much more. to transform your life wholeheartedly and repent. do you really think Christ taught with intellect? no it was mainly with Spirit. you cannot speak from a basis of ego. its just can't work. it should be from a base of divine love. i'm sure your consciousness knows deep down what i say is right. something is wrong with what you are currently doing. but you have the hope to overcome it.
nope ONE the church is not a building BUT LETS MOVE ONE
JOB 37:18
Hast thou with him spread out the sky, which is strong, and as a molten looking glass
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAcp3BFBYw4&t=60s
GENESIS 7:11
In the six hundredth year of Noah's life, in the second month, the seventeenth day of the month, the same day were all the fountains of the great deep broken up, and the windows of heaven were opened.
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im correct
in the end it doesn't matter who is "correct". our bodies will perish and our memory forgotten in the depth of the centuries. your little campaign will need nowhere and is an exercise in futility and underlying self justice. a disciple of Christ would prefer to be wrong in Christ than be "correct" in narcissistic isolation. as Dostoyevsky said if Christ and truth were two separate things, i'd prefer to be with Christ than the truth.
no it does matter who is correct this world is filled with lies
and im trying to get to anyone that will listen and get them to Christ
cause I can not save them only Christ
and trust me hun I spent most of my time hanging around with fools
im not going back to that
Hosea 4:6 for my children are destroyed for lack of knowledge
2 Timothy 2:15
Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth
im trying to do my best in what GOD said to do
the church right now is being lied too on a global level I don't even waste my time in churches anymore, I do research and study on my own
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Ok. but i insist you are not of the Spirit of God. I've see those guys. They are the polar opposites from us. We are just gentiles in disguise. Those people believe they are total sinners and that everyone else is saints, and that everyone will be saved except from them. We are as distant as earth is from heaven to the Spirit of God. Only the humble in the heart will see God.
hun its okay I know you just wanna help
its true i do. its a pitty to see people being in the fountain and being unable to drink water. cause you search in the right direction (Christ) but got lost in the process (deception). God will not leave you though. you will find the way. every human is given hints and chances.
Dayyuum that first girl is tight
Nice click bait with that chick in red lol
Decent stuff, but missing some huge critical pieces.
please share your beliefs. are much appreciated
You touch on it, but the big problems I see in married couples?
#3 - some combination of entitlement and perfectionism. She's unhappy with how things go, and oscillates between feeling let down by life, and feeling like a miserable failure.
#2 - she wants to be an equal partner, but can't actually cope with the responsibility for decisions. Or she demands what she wants, then loathes him for making her in charge. The alternative? Someone very mature who can handle her own mistakes and compromise, OR someone who is willing to follow the man's lead. Either can work for a good man.
#1 problems around sex. Low drive, low willingness to be flexible, low -priority- on sex. It's not what she'll do on vacation and after being spoiled. It's how big a priority she thinks sex is when you're both working and running around and got the kids to bed and you have a touch of a cold and the laundry is now running... because THAT is real life. Is she the type who just shuts it off? ...
... or is she desperate to connect? Is she bothered if one of you is mainly masturbating, since the connection is important, or does she think oh that's fine? Does she cut off sex whenever she's unhappy? Those are -massive massive- red flags.
well i didn't want to "inflame" people's sensitivities here if you knw what i mean. nor get deeper than the scope of this take. i take more abou responsibility aversion and foul responses to it in my new take. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a35350-4-ways-people-cope-with-their-shitty-choices-and-or-unfortunate
Funny. A FEMALE thinks what kind of women us MALES prefer and post it. What an idiot.
some seemed happy with it. so i guess you are not qualified to talk about all men just by filtering it through yourself.
1: This is GaG, there can be trolls.
2: Although some of your reasons were right, you still are just a woman. You don't even have the right to believe which kind of women we men should date because at the end of the day, WE MEN CHOOSE WHAT WE WANT. If a woman is a little bit arrogant, but the male still wants to date her, he can discipline her so she won't fall further into depravity and arrogance. That is a possibility. And that was an example. There are more but I don't want to list them here.
ITS YOU WHO is not qualified to talk about men, you're just a woman, with limited wisdom and dosis of emotions. You women don't even know what you want.
There were about two of them who were ''happy'' about your myTake. But do you realize some of them only say that for points?
I missed the part where she says what men prefer. I did however enjoy reading the parts that suggested how to choose a woman. Maybe she should have ended with a disclaimer
"disregard at your own risk" but all her points seemed fairly valid to me especially since I personally know men who have chosen the opposites and are still paying the price.
so much negativity and prejudice and suspicion. dude with much love, you are a good man and all, but have lots of stuff to work on and its not "confused women" that are too blame for your situation. best luck.
you are an intelligent young man, but are a victim of your victim mentality at the same time. you are the male version of what i described on the take. but you have the mojo in you to get better and move up.
Did you read the list , buddy?
she's pretty spot on!
i have different view on 3 and 4 .
maybe they are silent or giving us suspicious look for some flaws in us and not feeling good about ourself. ?
I didn't bother reading. I'm not going to take relationship advice from a GIRL.
So what advices you have sir?
@Ovidiu-Nicolae Ask OP how many girls she's dated, the answer will more then likely be zero.
I only take advice on girls from people who have experience with girls. That means from other guys.
very good take... Good job on this one :)
So like, that was actually pretty good :)
i dont really care about all this stuff.. the only thing i care about that it all boils down to, is loyalty. if she's cheating, im done
What about anger, critisism and other traits?
those can be worked out, but, loyalty, can't
If you say so good luck with that
Oh God... you described my ex!
damn i guess no one's gonna love me lmao
well there is always changing you know... .
true, true... do you guys like belly shirts or are those too slutty? how about those booty jean shorts? are those ok? you should make me a list of stuff thats slutty and not
i dont know what guys like. everyone is different. if clothes is what you understood from this take though, then my efforts are in vain. character and beyond skin depth are far more imortant... .
plus if you do something out of puritanism its just deception. its not what you really have in your heart... . men shouldn't dictate to you what you wanna wear.
The chicks that you listed under "Things to Look for" don't really exist.. sorry.
Well said!
Spot on,,
I'd rather have all the bad chicks.
bad chicks need some lovin too... .