What type of man do I think most women want?
Is it the man that is "too nice" or is it the man that is "too bad"?
Does a woman have to choose one or the other?
Isn't there such a thing, as a man who is well-balanced?
I believe so.
By the end of this article, you will know what type of man I believe most women would like on their arm.
THE "BAD" GUY
This man is not only appealing in appearance but his personality has got the women wanting to learn him more. He is nothing short of fascinating! He is the type of guy most parents have told their little girls to stay away from.
- He may have some bad habits such as smoking and drinking.
- He may be the rebellious type (He doesn't care much for the law).
- He may even be incapable of keeping a steady job.
- He may even disrespect his woman or call her out of her name, when flying off of the handle.
I know most people, are probably thinking with all of that said, "What could possibly be so irresistible about this type of man?"
The "bad guy" is very likeable in the fact that, he possesses character traits that are amazing! Some of which may allow one to be blind sighted (if they are deeply infatuated or in love). The women who choose to pursue a relationship with the "bad guy" tend to ignore his negative qualities, and put their major focus on the positive ones.
This is negative because it can lead to a woman feeling regret in the future with her decision to date him.
"Mr. Bad guy" is usually great in bed. Even though he has a hard cut image, there's this little soft spot inside of him that is hard to resist. He is caring, thoughtful, and a great listener when not pushed to the edge. It's quite hard for "outsiders" to understand why this woman is so caught up.
She can't help herself.
She just is.
Like a fish, this man continues to wheel the ladies in, not leaving much selection for the "nice guys".
THE "NICE" GUY
This man is safe on the rocks. He doesn't take much risks in life. He would rather do things in a well-thought out, and methodical way.
I am sure, that his parents are very proud.
But, where does that get him when he is trying to pursue a relationship?
This guy's usual role in a woman's life is a "friend" and nothing more.
He doesn't appear exciting enough, for some women to spark a romantic interest in.
Although he may possess character traits that are well worth getting to know,
"Mr. Nice guy" doesn't fail to come across as:
Usually, the only women he is able to strike an interest in, are those who are very similar to himself.
Of course, the selection of women that want him does not consist of many.
He is completely the polar opposite of the "bad guy" image.
THE "WELL-BALANCED" GUY
This man is a combination of both "Mr. Nice Guy" and "Mr. Bad guy" except he can keep a stable job, and he abides by the law. He may drink or smoke but not to the point where he is spiraling out of control. He takes risks in life because he seeks enjoyment. He also understands that some things aren't worth doing, because the consequences of those actions hold much greater than the experience itself. He is an intelligent guy, who has a very mature outlook towards life.
The type of man I think most women want is the well-balanced guy.
He is a man who is interesting enough to keep most women awake.
And a man, not "too nice" to where one wonders, "What enjoyment could he possibly,
be receiving out of life?"
Sure, Mr. Bad guy may be a lot of fun, but as a woman matures she will realize how much time she has wasted on this road that leads to no where. (If this was her original selection)
Yes, Mr. Nice guy is fantastic but he is often overlooked, usually a woman may take interest in him when she matures or grows tired of the "bad guys". (Mr. Nice guy has a lot of work to do, he has a sea of broken hearts!)
Mr. Well-balanced guy, is a great option because he has the edge that's appealing, and he maintains his composture which is sexy.
This the type of guy I prefer.
Ladies, how about you?
Men, what kind of a guy would you describe yourself as?
Thanks for reading!
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