Respect Your S/O's Privacy Or Stop Being With Them (Page 2)

[passinby]

I don't care what my SO s are doing or thinking nor would I spy on them. As long as she respects mine, she will never have a problem with me and her's.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Easy to say. So yeah I agree but let's not encourage people who takes advantage of it. I mean there are times that if you catch your partner cheating, they act like you're the one who should be sorry and accuse you of being insecure even if you're not. Mostly in guy's cases. So my point is they sometimes seem loyal until they're caught. So I'm on both sides. I don't just let girls take advantage of me but it doesn't mean I don't give them privacy at all.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm 10%, 90% by the way. 90% percent respect their privacy.

[MelaninDoll]

AIKO!!! 😝😘❤😭😭

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@MelaninDoll Hehe calm down! *Hugs* ;) <3

[HereIbe]

Oh, golly, ALMOST SEVENTEEN! Who the fuck would be impressed by that. You're still just a baby, go drink your milk. If you weren't just an emotional and mental child, you would feel no need to point out your age. You are acting like a four-year old who must proclaim "I am four AND A HALF!!!"

As for "privacy", if your lover is obsessive about "privacy" and hides things from you, it means she's a cheating bitch and needs to be kicked to the curb, no need to snoop.

[wingattebaby16]

respect their privacy... only if they are hiding things, should you worry...

his cell buzzes... he grabs it so you cannot see who is texting him... you catch a word or two... "... fuck... tonight... yummy cock"...

then you get concerned.

[PsychoKiller]

Agreed. I dont have anything to hide in my phone for an example, but if a girl snooped through it behind my back I would dump her instantly, literally the same second I would kick her out of my house. That is pure disrespect for the partner and is absolutely never justified

[Trippintfout]

This sounds good in theory until you find shit in your SO phone showing shadiness. If you and your partner don’t have open phones, someone is likely hiding something. Should be no secrets...

[QueenofCups]

I agree. If you have probable cause to believe your partner is cheating, maybe it's best to move on.

Great Take!! And I don't mean "for a 16 yr old."

[OnlyYouKnowThat]

I'm just writing something here to get the 6 Xper points, i didn't really bother reading all that nonsense above.

[Unit1]

"I was right though for checking his/her phone or following him/her around, he/she was indeed a cheater!"

...🙄🙄🙄
Nein. I'm staying with that *if* I'm ready to break up and do this before breaking up.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I give him space and I definitely don't care to fool around with his phone.

[ATuairiscean]

Great take - Maybe ask them first before breaking up but if the mistrust is there you are right break up

[RayBandz]

I will let you into my life completely , but i have my privacy as well.. and this can not be violated. Trust me or leave me.

[NoPoliticsPlease]

There is no privacy for your significant other otherwise somebody ends up cheating with someone who lives states away that they met on a dating website

[LegateLanius]

Good take. Lack of trust, especially in that form makes a relationship fall apart. Also:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rb2q1S-O4WY

[SydneyTW]

I think being curious is okay, it just all depends on how you act on it.

[Pejtu]

If someone is insulting you without any reason this person really doesn't give a F bout u so whats the point of even being with them :)

[Iron_Man]

As long as she's behaving I respect her privacy but If I think that she's cheating or playing games behind my back that's a big problem

[Chuck9z]

If you don't have a relationship with a person that you can't just flat out ask if they're cheating or not then you're not in a relationship you should be in

[AbdKilani]

Trust is something that I give , but to my partner there are no secrets
I would trust her
Well, I did that before , and got shit but I don't care

[TsubasaCorrupted]

I personally don't care if my loved one has access to my social media or m phone. I have no secrets with her. She can even get on my account here if she choose.