It's me again.
So I don't know I'm so happy that I became an Editor again that I feel like I have another 10 takes to write in one single day lmao.
Anyway I saw a MyTake recently that talks about Bi-sexuality and all that stuff.
Don't get me wrong, I don't have the tinest problem with people that identify themselves as bi-sexuals or homo-sexuals. After all it's their life,their bussiness, they can do whatever they want to and as long as they are happy for who they are I support them and wish them all the best in life.
I really don't understand some things that they do if they so called have accepeted themselves.
If you really have accepeted who you are,you don't need to scream your choices in every chance you get, neither need others to accept or agree with you.
Cause you simply don't really care, you are okay with yourself and that all that matters.
You aren't really happy with your decisions or how life turned out for you if you make such a big deal out of your choices all the damn time.
So basically...You are searching for acceptance that you can't give yourself.
I'm one of those people who really believe that if you are proud for who you are, you should be open to express it... But this is different.
Being gay,straight, bi-sexual or whatever isn't an achievment.
It's something that came natural to your life ad you'll live by it because there isn't a choice on it.
Everybody does it every day.
Maybe in the past, or even now there are countries or/and people who dissaprove your actions or way of living.
But there are people who will dissaprove every and each one of us for every possible thing.
There might be people who will call you out for your sexuality, and the same people might call me out for my nationality and someone else for their looks.
All 3 hurt the same, but you need to accept that these people exist and they are actually needed for the world.
Your sexuality isn't anyone's bussiness but yours, none else except you,needs or have to know about who you prefer having relationship with.
And before you jump on me and attack me because I somehow offended you and start telling me things like "But they always talk about me being gay/bi." or " They are paying attention to my sexuality."
Let me tell you that, no other makes homosexuality such a big of a deal than homosexuals themselves.
We live in 2018.
The ones that wanted and were able to accept that there are people different that then who prefer the same gender as sexual partners,have already done it by now.
By repeating the same things about how being "gay" or " bi-sexual" it's something natural, you only achieve to tire people that have heard these a million times before and not changing anyone's mind.
Also by presenting examples like "everyone deep down is gay or bi-sexual" you won't make a difference, personally when I hear these things I either get annoyed because of how dumb they sound or just laugh because I assume that this person that said that must have had a pretty shitty dating expirience.
Not everyone will accept you, cause after all they don't have to.
What you need to do instead of trying others to accept your choices, is to accept yourself and live your life.
That's it for today babydolls.
Till next time, stay sassy.