Polyamory isn't wrong

[AngyLlama]

Lots of people think that a person can't love more than just one person. Why?

I do love (and I mean love, not like) two boys, and can't see what's wrong. If I love them, then why should I choose one? I love them both at the same way, it's impossibile to choose.

Like, if you like Coca-Cola, why can't you like Pepsi, too?

Obviously, if you're in a poly relationship both of your partners should know about the other one. I don't think this is cheating.

What do you think?

#polyamory

[bamesjond0069]

Its a gendered question. Women cannot romantically love two men. If they feel like they do they are both quite shitty prospects. Women are wired to seek out the best man. So its a joke to me. Once you get into top selection of men there is no chance for them to be so close it confuses the woman. So unless you're picking men out of a dumpster its not possible.

For men. Women are possessions or trophys so yes men can love multiple women easily. I dont want the best woman. I want all the women. Thats how men are wired. You can see how men having multiple wives is very common across all places and times in history. The opposite is very very rare.

[ARWINGx1]

I also wish that Polyamory wasn't frowned upon. Mainly because I feel that in a Monogamous relationship, I have to stay the fu** away from any and all girls (heck, even reject them rudely if necessary) once I'm committed to that type of relationship.

[MissDawn7961]

There Is a difference in loving someone and having sex with them ! A man who rapes a woman does not love her , he just wants to have sex with any female he can get his dirty hands on ! For those who do not know the difference in these two situations they are to immature to have sex ! For this is wrong to have sexual intercourse with more then one person and that means those who do this are just wanting sex and are not mature mentally enough for an actual meaningful relationship with the opposite sex ! Thanks

[AngyLlama]

Polyamory means actually love, not having sex. So a person doesn't only wants to have sex with more then one person, but love them. I suggest you to make a research on polyamory, I cannot explain it well

[Smoothing]

Become a Mormon then you can be entitled to have more than one man. In fact you can get married to more than one man.

Otherwise forget it. It doesn't work. Not in this day and age.

[JRandomMan]

If the men are aware and accepting of it, why not?

Of course, one would expect you to grant them the same choice.