The best example of understanding for all Dynamics.
Of you love or care for someone and they aren't on par with you mentally:
Don't force new ideas on someone who has needs too and expect immediate response that favors you, and then decide to look elsewhere where a person is easy and will give you only temporary gratification. Don't get mad at someone for wanting to learn and to make a good choice.
If someone is a novice and in comparison, you a master, give them the respect of learning. You got to learn. Why shouldn't they?
When the person is finally ready to answer, don't fuck yourself over just for small cheap temporary pleasure. Bliss is truly patience and understanding.
Wait. Don't push them away by forcing a load on them. Wait don't push them or yourself away for cheap thrills only to make them regret trying to respect their selves and make sure they make you happy as well.
Learn from mistakes.
Don't hold on.
Don't dig up buried trash.
Don't burn gifts of good intention.
Don't show them the ash if you do.
Especially if they forgive you.
Especially if they don't understand.
If you were handed 'a pretty bug"' by a sweet innocent kid, don't smoosh it and then shun them for it being a spider.
Teach them and put the spider away.
If a child is asked to tell you the definition of hypothesis, and they take the time to look it up, learn it, and make demonstration for you.
Be paitent and then be proud of them for doing their best, EVEN IF it's the wrong definition, then teach them, and help them learn.
It might be hard, but that's why you learn to walk in shoes and to grow with said person.
I hope this makes sense. What is opinions? Is it good? Feel free to ask scenario opinions?
Also. Sorry if image isn't relevant. I picked random picture.
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You know... So far... I find you one super-interesting person. I'm sorry, but im not familiar with what "small functioning disabilities" are exactly? Could you please tell me a bit about what that means?
I really enjoyed reading this. In fact I read it several times. I think I understand most of it, but one or two parts were a little bit over my head. 😊
You're also quite a talented poet.
If you take everything from "Learn from mistakes" right up to, and including your line "Teach them and put the spider away" you have one AMAZING poem. 👍
Oh and by the way... The picture is TOTALLY relevant... In several deep and meaningful ways. It's hilarious that you chose randomly, and ended up with an image that fits so well.
For example, one way to look at it is: that it serves as a reminder that there is so much more to be known, than the smartest among us could ever possibly know.
Anyway, just thought that was awesome. 😀
Thank you. I didn't see that about the poem or the picture and it makes me happy. Thank you very much.
And. I don't exactly like to talk about it, bit basically I am a high functioning autist and I try to not be seen as such cause I don't wanna be treated like a kid, but it caused issuescause people close to me like to convinently forget and then be big anal retentive.. buttheads. And I beg my fiancee to understand and to be paitent and he blames me and even used it against me I think and I'm in turmoil
I love when I'm accidentally a genius🙂. Seems like you're an accidental genius for choosing that picture... And you're also a poet, but didn't know it!
Sorry, I love rhymes and puns and stuff like that. To tell you the truth, I don't know all that much about autism either.
But If you ever feel like I'm treating you like a kid; or if you ever feel that I'm treating you in some other way you don't like... Please PLEASE speak up and tell me. I don't ever want to make friends feel bad. So if I ever make you feel bad, ai really do hope that you'll let me know.
I would like to hear more about this turmoil you're going through. I think though, I'll message you privately. Talk to you soon 🙂
That's cool to know! And by all the means, sometimes handling me like a kid is the best way to compreve me... I forgot the worde suddenly but that sounds right.
I'm disabled myself. I get it.
Hence why I'm in my 40s and still never married. Every girlfriend I ever dated cheated on me and left me.
I'm so sorry. It's so aweful how people are like that.
The social stigma and ostracism is nothing new.
I'm not normal. Anyth8ng outside that little box of normal garners fear of the unknown and that which is different.