I've spent most my life fighting and jails and geney not weak ar all... as i gotta older my ego has diminished as my need to be in charge of things.. i still fix snd provide but im tired and it feels good to submit to my partner now
Hmm I wonder. Why can't it be a mix-and-match too? Like a woman can still approach a man (however unlikely it is too catch on as much because of nature) but a man can still choose to be the payer for things if he chooses to.
There's a ton of evidence to back it up, too. Women have posted stuff all over the internet asking what alpha-type women are supposed to do in dating, because they don't see themselves with beta guys. In all fairness, though, I don't think any women want beta-type guys.
Wow, I didn't know stay at home dads actually existed back then. All I knew was back in the 1980's, men were the ones socially required to be dominant as feminism in that decade wasn't as rampant yet. I don't know I might be wrong.
It's confusing for me because I like to pay and take care of a woman. I'm fine making decisions, but I'm not overly dominant in the bedroom. I like to let her call the shots and I'm a giver. I want to please her. What does that make me?
and many men are born more dominant ;) before the elites started the infamous 'war on testosterone' and sent all the high T men off to get slaughtered in droves, no woman would need want for a man to tame her. Now that men have been turned soft, you see this problem of some women not having dominant enough men, but fuck that it's unnatural.
Indeed I never said there was. However, it is far, far more important that a man knows how and when to be assertive and dominant, and I've heard soooo many women dance around this point, but I know enough about female psychology to 100% insist upon this point.
I understand that but there seems to be an awful amount of men here who want women to make the first move and pay on a date. They are either submissive or simply just lazy and selfish.
lol how can you say you understand and still make such a point? I'm telling you, there is a WAR on testosterone, been going on for over 100 years. Our food, water, plastics, and the culture of shaming any kind of male behavior throughout public school. We have been made into soft pieces of shit, those of us who's bloodlines were NOT eliminated during the first 2 world wars. The absolute last thing we need is for women to play into the other side of the dynamic. Don't ever enable any of this shit, demand a real man and men will rise to that challenge.
The elites are counting on it that women will just play into the dynamic and help drive that final nail into the coffin of masculinity. Do you ever wonder why men are so afraid to initiate anything with a woman? How hard is it to get accused of rape? All you have to do is be in the relative proximity of a dumb thot or drunk girl and if she's in the wrong kind of mood, she'll sexually assault you and then claim you raped her. Happened to me, happened to people I know, so all the meathead idiots are gunna do whatever they would normally do while all the somewhat smart men will not risk having their life ruined and simply aren't interested anymore.
I don't know what the solution is tbh im just tellin yah why things are the way they are and that's it's wrong and unnatural, and we can't give into it. We need to seriously start brainstorming how to fix gender relations in this society or our future is not looking good
I have a husband and although he is an introvert, he pursued me but he likes me to take charge and be the dominant one in certain areas. He’s quiet, keeps to himself, doesn’t smoke or drink. He works, comes home and is loyal to me, so he doesn’t ever get involved in the bullshit all these other dudes complain about.
well congratulations to you, also im 25 and things have changed in the direction I was talking about wayyyy more over the last decade. You did not have metoo style shit going on when you guys were growing up, I grew up surrounded by this stuff, pounded into my young impressionable mind by all cultural institutions and parents. You don't know what it's like.
Is it not? You would not say that standing in my shoes, I promise you this. My attitude is that women and men need to work together to repair this, this is a serious problem that's been decades in the making and you don't seem to give a fuck because you're all fine. Selfish as fuck is what you are.
I'm calling you selfish because your acting selfish, and now ontop of that, you're acting childish. I've done what I can to pursue generative discourse here, you have simply offered anecdotes from your own life and accused me of being the problem. We are tied to our environment you know, a man is not an island. I see nothing worth pursuing out there... where peoples minds are at is completely fucked, especially the women of my generation here in north america. I've turned plenty of women away but I've never pursued, and now you know my reasons why. Can you give me any ray of hope, any actual advice? Something tells me you are so sure of what you think the world is that you are unable to learn and evolve anymore. I think you are patronizing me and I'm sick of it, don't even bother replying.
yah another full of herself shitty therapist, loves to dish it out, can't even take being called selfish while being EXTREMELY, OVERTLY SELFISH but oh other people wouldn't like what YOU have to say
that is fucking rich lady. Go fuck up some more innocent minds with your poison brew why dontcha. If you got something of actual intelligence and substance to say to me, by all means, it's about time you said it
Exactly, GreatNews. It's "good that people have a variety of personalities." And nobody is one dimensional. They may possess various characteristics to one degree or another. It's good to acknowledge the entire range of possible characteristics instead of trying to fit everyone into artificial, stereotypical roles.
I am passive in the since I want her to be happy , but I would't accept a job she wanted me to take, I wouldn't do certain things I felt wrong for her.
I'm glad that you are interested in the affairs of your surroundings. It is a vitally important aspect of your psyche that helps successfully navigate the extraordinarily complex world we find ourselves in towards towards enlightenment.
As to the deeper meaning of my statement - This will require you to take a stance diametrically opposed to feminism, women's general view and understanding of the world today, and popular culture, beliefs. I discern that you are incapable of separating your observational capabilities from your personal values and will thus abstain from expounding on my, admittedly, superficial and brief statement.
However, in case you have some kind of interest in the truth, I will provide a hint: You may research "Gnosis".
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I strongly prefer dominant women since I tend to be on the shy and passive side, and I just like women who like to take charge!
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not believing or buying into this dominance/submission thingy. It's not for me.
based on this logic, European (and maybe also American) women are dominant. They're not. And neither are we i suppose.
Bruh, if I ask back where the person wants to eat is because idc about it, I want the other one to feel good.
I've spent most my life fighting and jails and geney not weak ar all... as i gotta older my ego has diminished as my need to be in charge of things.. i still fix snd provide but im tired and it feels good to submit to my partner now
Hmm I wonder. Why can't it be a mix-and-match too? Like a woman can still approach a man (however unlikely it is too catch on as much because of nature) but a man can still choose to be the payer for things if he chooses to.
Dam.. you should get an award for the way you wrote this masturbate i mean piece
The problem for these guys is that dominant women don't want them. Dominant women want men who are even more dominant than they are.
I wouldn’t say that’s largely the truth. If it is, that’s foolish and a recipe for disaster.
There's a ton of evidence to back it up, too. Women have posted stuff all over the internet asking what alpha-type women are supposed to do in dating, because they don't see themselves with beta guys. In all fairness, though, I don't think any women want beta-type guys.
A beta guy is exactly what they should go for. They’re good in a lot of ways too.
I agree with you. I think it takes all kinds, and women who want to lead are making a mistake by trying to get with guys who are also leaders.
Dominant women are badass and sexy
Getting married to one
Nice! Congrats!
She is the boss
Wow, I didn't know stay at home dads actually existed back then. All I knew was back in the 1980's, men were the ones socially required to be dominant as feminism in that decade wasn't as rampant yet. I don't know I might be wrong.
And after that decade, feminism was pretty much taking over the world now.
It's confusing for me because I like to pay and take care of a woman.
I'm fine making decisions, but I'm not overly dominant in the bedroom.
I like to let her call the shots and I'm a giver.
I want to please her.
What does that make me?
I def checked the first two. But not wanting to pay? Id say thats in a catagory of its own! Haha
he needs a more submissive partner so he can realize his dominance. Women are not meant to be dominant, total inversion of the natural order
Many women are just born dominant by nature.
and many men are born more dominant ;) before the elites started the infamous 'war on testosterone' and sent all the high T men off to get slaughtered in droves, no woman would need want for a man to tame her. Now that men have been turned soft, you see this problem of some women not having dominant enough men, but fuck that it's unnatural.
Nothing wrong with a man knowing how and when to be soft.
Indeed I never said there was. However, it is far, far more important that a man knows how and when to be assertive and dominant, and I've heard soooo many women dance around this point, but I know enough about female psychology to 100% insist upon this point.
I understand that but there seems to be an awful amount of men here who want women to make the first move and pay on a date. They are either submissive or simply just lazy and selfish.
lol how can you say you understand and still make such a point? I'm telling you, there is a WAR on testosterone, been going on for over 100 years. Our food, water, plastics, and the culture of shaming any kind of male behavior throughout public school. We have been made into soft pieces of shit, those of us who's bloodlines were NOT eliminated during the first 2 world wars. The absolute last thing we need is for women to play into the other side of the dynamic. Don't ever enable any of this shit, demand a real man and men will rise to that challenge.
The elites are counting on it that women will just play into the dynamic and help drive that final nail into the coffin of masculinity. Do you ever wonder why men are so afraid to initiate anything with a woman? How hard is it to get accused of rape? All you have to do is be in the relative proximity of a dumb thot or drunk girl and if she's in the wrong kind of mood, she'll sexually assault you and then claim you raped her. Happened to me, happened to people I know, so all the meathead idiots are gunna do whatever they would normally do while all the somewhat smart men will not risk having their life ruined and simply aren't interested anymore.
I don't know what the solution is tbh im just tellin yah why things are the way they are and that's it's wrong and unnatural, and we can't give into it. We need to seriously start brainstorming how to fix gender relations in this society or our future is not looking good
I have a husband and although he is an introvert, he pursued me but he likes me to take charge and be the dominant one in certain areas. He’s quiet, keeps to himself, doesn’t smoke or drink. He works, comes home and is loyal to me, so he doesn’t ever get involved in the bullshit all these other dudes complain about.
well congratulations to you, also im 25 and things have changed in the direction I was talking about wayyyy more over the last decade. You did not have metoo style shit going on when you guys were growing up, I grew up surrounded by this stuff, pounded into my young impressionable mind by all cultural institutions and parents. You don't know what it's like.
That’s no excuse for your sour attitude.
Is it not? You would not say that standing in my shoes, I promise you this. My attitude is that women and men need to work together to repair this, this is a serious problem that's been decades in the making and you don't seem to give a fuck because you're all fine. Selfish as fuck is what you are.
Women and men do need to work together but you calling me names isn’t doing that.
I'm calling you selfish because your acting selfish, and now ontop of that, you're acting childish. I've done what I can to pursue generative discourse here, you have simply offered anecdotes from your own life and accused me of being the problem. We are tied to our environment you know, a man is not an island. I see nothing worth pursuing out there... where peoples minds are at is completely fucked, especially the women of my generation here in north america. I've turned plenty of women away but I've never pursued, and now you know my reasons why. Can you give me any ray of hope, any actual advice? Something tells me you are so sure of what you think the world is that you are unable to learn and evolve anymore. I think you are patronizing me and I'm sick of it, don't even bother replying.
I mostly give women advice and I usually charge them for the more extensive sessions. You will not like what I have to say.
By the way. Never call me names and have the audacity to ask for advice. That is extremely disrespectful. Knock it off.
yah another full of herself shitty therapist, loves to dish it out, can't even take being called selfish while being EXTREMELY, OVERTLY SELFISH but oh other people wouldn't like what YOU have to say
that is fucking rich lady. Go fuck up some more innocent minds with your poison brew why dontcha. If you got something of actual intelligence and substance to say to me, by all means, it's about time you said it
Ladies, this ^ is the type of guy you should avoid.
If I actually FOUND a dominant woman, yeah, I'd be down.
I have always found that women who are so fixated on dominant women and submissive men have very deep-seated insecurities.
How so?
I disagree I think some women have those personalities and that's awesome!
What I mean is it is good that people have a variety of personalities
Exactly, GreatNews. It's "good that people have a variety of personalities." And nobody is one dimensional. They may possess various characteristics to one degree or another.
It's good to acknowledge the entire range of possible characteristics instead of trying to fit everyone into artificial, stereotypical roles.
1. If he is a wimp.
2. If he is a pussy.
3. If he is a cuck.
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I thought you would comment seeing as I just described your dream man. 😂
Geez. Why are you so miserable?
My joking around and laughter makes you think I'm miserable? No wonder everyone says women have no sense of humor!
Well you sure are joking, that’s for certain.
Poking fun at you. Yes.
That’s all you’ll be poking.
Yes. You aren't my type sweetie.
Well I’m not a homely housewife and I talk back so you’re right.
Glad we agree. But to be honest I don't go for homely girls. I prefer the cheerleader type.
I am passive in the since I want her to be happy , but I would't accept a job she wanted me to take, I wouldn't do certain things I felt wrong for her.
The wave of enlightenment continues to strengthen individuals, as seen in the strong replys to this masculinized women's Take.
Interesting. How do you mean?
I'm glad that you are interested in the affairs of your surroundings. It is a vitally important aspect of your psyche that helps successfully navigate the extraordinarily complex world we find ourselves in towards towards enlightenment.
As to the deeper meaning of my statement - This will require you to take a stance diametrically opposed to feminism, women's general view and understanding of the world today, and popular culture, beliefs. I discern that you are incapable of separating your observational capabilities from your personal values and will thus abstain from expounding on my, admittedly, superficial and brief statement.
However, in case you have some kind of interest in the truth, I will provide a hint: You may research "Gnosis".
I like a dominant women cause iam a indeceive man and I am shy plus I can’t tell if girls like me or just being friendly
Next up. Million signs a girl might need a more dominant man.
Do it
I agree with the indecisive one , the reason I don't pursue most women, is I know they're not the kind I'm looking for pretty soon after meeting