Five masculine things women do that turn men off

[snackthatsmilesback]

1. Have Unbridled Emotions.

Having emotions is fine, but if you lose your mind when you are angry or sad, that's not a good look. Read a book about it or something and practice getting your emotions out in better, non-embarrassing ways. Like exercise, or talking.

2. Be Self-Unaware.

You dominate every conversation, never ask questions, and often interrupt others? Read the room. Look OUTWARD when making conversation. If they haven't talked in a minute, open the floor to them. Ask for their opinion, or introduce a topic you know they like. Make conversations a group activity, not only about you.

3. Always Take, Never Give

There's nothing wrong with asking for a fry off your partner's plate, but remember they like fries too. They give you presents, they like getting presents. Give you compliments, they like receiving compliments too. Love languages work like that. If you never give them anything, your partner will feel unvalued and start to worry you're just in it for the benefits. It's important to show you love them too. Whether that gesture is grand, or just getting fries yourself to share with them next time you go through the drive-thru.

4. Be an asshole.

Nobody likes an asshole. Not even a "funny" one, or a part-time asshole who "is nice when you get to know them." Stop it. Nobody wants to get to know you, you're an asshole. Thats a bad look. So self-reflect a bit about why you do that, and then get a different hobby that serves the same need. Like painting, or hunting.

5. Be Irresponsible.

Always getting fired, getting dumped, getting in trouble somehow. Eventually, you gotta acknowledge the possibility that you are part of the problem. Sometimes people are just incredibly unlucky and get screwed over no matter what they do—but that's not most situations. There is probably at least ONE thing you could work on on yourself to improve your chances of things working out in some area of your life. Whether that is time management, money management, or one of the above issues, recognizing and improving in your weaker areas shows you have real potential and character. So give it a try!

[notwoke]

well written and not full of shallow stupid things like what kind of car or cologne you have.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Five things PEOPLE DO that turn PEOPLE off...(there fixed it)

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Ok intersectionalist communist feminist karen

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@hostboy__fastestlaps oh get out of here with that bs🤣

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

this is literally about dating advice, not about social behaviors

[snackthatsmilesback]

@Brainsbeforebeauty thanks lol. That's more accurate, i just titled it based on another mytake that was the same way.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@hostboy__fastestlaps as was my answer😊 you think women aren't turned off by that behavior as well🤔 so my advice was to people 😊

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@snackthatsmilesback 👍 thanks for mhg

[user1516]

Bro you’re sexist. This is literally what all genders do. It’s the typical behavior of a human. You just hate women because of some bad experience with a girl for sure. Don’t even bother miss @Brainsbeforebeauty he’s a no brain-er.

[HawkPerception]

Well said @Brainsbeforebeauty

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@HawkPerception thanks😊

[Sarahplus2]

The fifth item should be just cause your mommy wiped your ass doesn't mean I will

[yourpalval]

Oof here I was ready to say guys do these things too and you nailed it gj girl

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@yourpalval thanks 😊

[Xyliana]

@hostboy__fastestlaps LOL

[Blackcosmo]

These are not "masculine" at all and this doesn't make it alright for men to do. This should be generalized because if a guy were to do the same thing I would be turned off. For a matter anyone who does this turns me off.

[TalynMere]

*these opinions do not represent all men, desires are subjective. Assigning "masculinity" to something like "being unaware" is strange.

You don't gotta frame everything in terms of woman bad. You can just not like things yourself without pushing your views on everyone else.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Yep.

[shaysh87]

These aren't masculine things. Its feminine to be emotional. Its feminine to want to receive more than to give. Its feminine to need help with responsibilities. Not all feminine women are kind, caring and nurturing. Feminine ladies come in all forms. Just like how masculine men come in asshole forms or nice guy forms. Masculinity does not determine what personality you have.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Yeah they aren't masculine, they actually apply to both genders pretty evenly. The title is just a spoof.

[Bandor9th]

Nice post. I am very feminine and a reciever 100%.

[shaysh87]

@Bandor9th

I like to receive too. But somehow it always makes me feel selfish and guilty.

[CubsterShura]

Isn't all of that just bad behavior regardless or gender? Or is it only okay for men but not for women to be assholes? What kinda double standard is that? And you wonder why people go around saying shit like men are trash when there are freaking MyTakes like this?

Also the first one literally proves that men are also emotional creatures but somehow men are encouraged to show only one emotion which is anger and women are discouraged to show it.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Yeah it's all bad behavior regardless of gender

[MzAsh]

None of these things are “masculine” nor are they ok for men to do either. However, I agree that these are things anyone should avoid or correct if there’s an issue.

[Subarugirl]

None of those things are inherently masculine… and I don’t think that the women who do those things care weather or not men in general think it’s a turn off…

A better title would have been (5 things that maladjusted adults do) ..

[ChrisMaster69]

@Subarugirl I would even say what kids do as well, it applies to all ages that socially interact.
I went to school with guys and girls that tick those options.

[Subarugirl]

@ChrisMaster69 that is very true

[CA4444]

At one point in my life i thought that having unbridled emotions and showing how angry i was was going to tell him i actually liked him (in my head it was connected anyway)... he stopped talking to me :/ lol

[EmyyWolf]

I only known the FEMINIZED men tend to be turned off by some masculine traits on women..

The alphas , these manly men that are getting All KINDS… they don’t get turned off. They just don’t. 😑 let’s just be realistic. He don’t give a f*k cause he got game. He’s still gonna go deep inside

[anon1903]

I disagree with the masculine part, since women don't like it in men either. But it's very well written — very straightforward, realistic and a set of annoying traits that do matter, and hence should be changed. Well done!

[hahahmm]

These aren't traditional male traits except maybe being an asshole as it's debatable... If you ever get anything you want in life it's likely that someone will think you're an asshole because it kept them from getting what they want. Guys who have figured this out spend way less time trying to please people.

[Bambalicious]

This is actually a door that swings both ways. These are qualities a lot of girls don’t like either.

[TenderFantasy]

Yes!

[Rosexøxø]

@TenderFantasy I love the way you worded it tbh 😂 hopefully the door of reality will swing and hit a few simpletons back to reality 🥲- guys AND girls 👐

[Bambalicious]

😂😂😂

[cipher42]

This is just things that people do that would turn anyone off, I don't know that gender is really relevant here

[ChrisMaster69]

Those are literally things anyone can qualify for, either gender.

not just that you can take it back to school age and use it for friends of any gender.

would anyone have a school friend that showed those characteristics?

[AviatorTom]

I'd like to add a physical thing to the list.

A woman crossing her legs by putting her foot on top of her other knee, like many men do, is unattractive.

[Bandor9th]

Noboy gives a crap.

[peedy]

Body bluid
Im not talking about a girl that exercises and stays in shape im talking about the ones trying to be Arnold Schwarzenegger and pump testosterone into themselves to bluid that muscle and they start developing male characteristics wide shoulders, Adams apple deeper voice facial hair etc
Total and complete turn off

[Tileana]

#4 and #2 are wrong. as a male. I respect a woman of conviction. I suppose though it matters more on audience. when dealing with males reverse #2 and 4. for females I don't know girls you need to chime in.

[snackthatsmilesback]

I mean that's fair but I'm not really talking about conviction, that's a totally different thing.

[Keepitanomonous]

Kinda puts a bad taste in my mouth that you would consider all those negative traits as masculine in nature. But agreed otherwise. If anyone does any of that id be turned off immedietly

[EarthRealm]

If anybody calls me an Asshole or that I’m Being rude when i know im not I like to Act the way they are Accusing me of being.
Also turning someone off isn’t just a Sexual thing.
If im in a good mood listening to Eminem and some dude Trips me with his foot and I fall down that’s definitely gonna be a turn off and im gonna wanna Beat him up.

[EarthRealm]

And I’m old enough and experienced enough in life where everything a Girl does is a Turn off so I’m just never Turned on anymore. I rarely get turned on ounce in a while I will but for the most part getting turned on requires some sort of motivation
And mental strength on my end and lately I’ve been depressed so that makes it that much harder to get turned on and I’m also a misogynist so that makes it more difficult to get Turned on

[EarthRealm]

But I’ve got enough self control To not beat a person up a person could literally push me down or hit me and I would try to tell the person I’m not interested in. Fighting but If the person doesn’t plan on talking it out that’s when I’ll Start Beating the shit outta the person

[EarthRealm]

I like to go the legal route
That way both parties Don’t experience A worse day than they are already having and I don’t like to press charges As i feel its unnecessary and a overreaction since the body heals itself

[CA4444]

Depression means pain, unhappiness, insomnia and a bunch of things but also loss of libido it’s ‘normal’ let’s say…. are you an Aquarius

[EarthRealm]

No I’m not

[devilish-cutie]

So it is ok for men to be that way but not women?

Dont think anyone should be that way hiding by term "masculine", you just called men out, not women

[snackthatsmilesback]

Ur rite no one should be that way. The title was just a spoof.

[TenderFantasy]

Wow! For a 22-year-old, you speak like you're a lot older! Geez! Good job!

And thanks for the tips! 🙂