"Rain check?"
Someone who offers you a lot of excuses is someone who has no interest in you.
How can we tell if our time and love is being reciprocated if we feel like shit? Are we just overreacting and reading things in a wrong way?
It seems that some of our relationships still exist just because we insist that the other person remain in our lives. These people we love and consider very important simply have little interest in us, and fill us with excuses every time we look for them.
Relationships that do us good are those in which love and care happen spontaneously, without one of the two sides having to constantly demand the presence or affection of the other person.
We all have a list of priorities in our lives, but the fact that we put a person on top doesn't mean that they also consider us that important. And when we realize that the other person doesn't have the same interest in us, the only thing we can do is change our own attitudes, because we can't make someone love us and want us around ~ feelings are only true when they're born from within, without having to be forced.
The best thing we can do for our well-being is to stop expecting a contact, a call or some interest from someone who offers us excuses in response to all our dedication.
We don't have time to waste begging for love and attention, while there's a world of opportunity out there just waiting for our attitude.
Of course, some relationships are very important to us and we can't rule them out just because the person made a mistake once or twice. But we must always keep in mind that someone who is constantly leaving us aside is not someone who deserves our attention or even our sadness. We should insist only on those who really show that they like our company and want us in their lives.
Everyone has the right to have their own priorities in life, and no person is obliged to devote to us the same level of love and attention that we dedicate to it. However, we do not need to suffer for those who do not want our company. To change that, we must learn to analyze our relationships more wisely, so that when we find unilateral bonds, we learn to deal with them in the right way, always prioritizing ourselves, not depending on anyone else to be happy.
When we learn to free ourselves from people who only offer us excuses, our lives become much lighter and easier.
Thanks for reading!
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