Why Men Aren’t Committing To Relationships (Page 3)

[Kaamraj]

Relationships are an exchange on the sexual marketplace, a compromise between the man's commitment and the womans youth, fertility and sezual exclusivity. If a man doesn't get that for whatever reason then he's not sexually obliged to commit. Politics will never triumph biology.

[Warmapplecrumble]

How else will the traffickers steal babies and young women. Gotta brainwash the men via media and create fake mgtow and feminist movements and separate the two then they can traffic the weaker ones...

[VanillaSalt]

Between you and me... ide rather break a strong woman than dominate a weaker one.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@VanillaSalt it's not about you, it's about the people who steal innocent people

[JayCasper777]

Your the best conspiracy theorist author I've ever heard. Lmao

[Warmapplecrumble]

@JayCasper777 thanks. But young children going missing is no conspiracy. They get trafficked, and their organs are sold. Please do something about this and look after your children.

[JayCasper777]

Wait I'm a child trafficker now. I don't like my role in this novel your making lmao. None of what your talking about is relevant it's just stuff that for some reason you want to believe. Mgtow and feminism isn't a cover up so peados can get kids. Most likely lol I don't know. Can you have something with some evidence or proof to contribute lol

[Warmapplecrumble]

@JayCasper777

1. When did I say you were. I guess you are self proclaiming.
2. How is everything a conspiracy theory?
3. I guess children being taken is not relevant to you so you should have not messaged me on this post
4. "Mgtow and feminism isn't a cover up so peados can get kids. " - this is what you think. This is not what I typed.
All I said was no one is lookafter the children, thousands are going missing, everyone is more concerned about social media, feminism or mgtow.

6. Even though children go missing, organs go missing. You are asking for evidence. Alright then:

globalmissingkids.org/.../
Even with this challenge, we know that:

In Australia, an estimated 20,000 children are reported missing every year.
Australian Federal Police, National Coordination Centre.

In Canada, an estimated 45,288 children are reported missing each year.
Government of Canada, Canada’s Missing – 2015 Fast Fact Sheet.

In Germany, an estimated 100,000 children are reported missing each year.
Initiative Vermisste Kinder.

In India, an estimated 96,000 children go missing each year.
Bachpan Bachao Andolan, Missing Children of India.

In Jamaica, an estimated 1,984 children were reporting missing in 2015.
Jamaica’s Office of Children’s Registry

In Russia, an estimated 45,000 children were reported missing in 2015.
Interview with Pavel Astakhov MIA “Russia Today”, Apr. 4, 2016.

In Spain, an estimated 20,000 children are reported missing every year.
Spain Joins EU Hotline for Missing Children, Sep. 22, 2010.

In the United Kingdom, an estimated 112,853 children are reported missing every year.
National Crime Agency, UK Missing Persons Bureau.

In the United States, an estimated 460,000 children are reported missing every year.
Federal Bureau of Investigation, NCIC.

[JayCasper777]

You said please do something about this. I can't I don't know it exists. It's implied that I'm not doing something about it because I don't care and am a bad person or I'm a perpetrator.

This stuff is happening but I can't do anything. I'm talking about this not that. Your convo is irrelevant to the subject don't you get that?

[Warmapplecrumble]

www.acamstoday.org/.../

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Organ_trade

And this is Sandra Bullock trying to explain what she does

https://youtu.be/PwO3TEj9-5g

[Warmapplecrumble]

@JayCasper777 if you can't do something about it then don't tell me to stop talking about it.

Of course it is relevant because it's a man's job to lookafter his biological children.

[Curmudgeon]

But Warmapple crumble, MGTOW is the backlash. Femi (commu) nism was the brainwashing.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@Curmudgeon both are too brainwashed sitting there while people taking advantage of their children. We need to just stop fighting as man and woman and come together. We cannot let the family unit be divided, that will be bad for us as a entire human race.

If they want to fight about anything that should be human rights.

[VanillaSalt]

@Warmapplecrumble so what can men do? Don’t say get better I’m tired of improving while women remains thots...

[Warmapplecrumble]

@VanillaSalt choose better women that'll raise children the traditional way.

Try and get the government to make salary more comfortable on one wage. - say no to double taxing

[VanillaSalt]

And so while doing this you suggest we just continue like nothing is wrong here? So if a mans constantly putting you down and holding shit over your head. Beating on you and lying about to to everyone you will try and change him while acting like something different? I don’t think you would. When the man hurts you you leave. When apparently a majority of women hurt men we stay away. You cannot expect us to just look to other way while trying to fix this issue. No I’ll see the whole of man kind burn in hell before I give in.

This is a group effort and if only one sides any fucking good then it’s not gonna work.

Mgtows what I feel so if it is fake well they sure as hell embodied how I fucking feel every time I think I wonder if she’ll make a good wife...

I don’t wanna hear anymore about the pay gap you women should be getting husbands and making babies not working your lives away... but if that’s what you want I won’t have my kids grow up in a world where men are constantly castrated at every chance. For centuries it’s men change men be better men’s fault... it’s time women did something to make up for this shit... it was your female rights that fucked everything up now you extend the olive branch first or burn it down...

[Warmapplecrumble]

@VanillaSalt you didn't even read what I said... I just said marry housewife's and get rid of double taxation caused by women working when the man is working as well.

And anyways if you hate women just don't get into a relationship, don't have sex.

[VanillaSalt]

So listen to why I’m saying... considering how unfair society compares men and women... you suggest men should continue the status quo and aim to change the system? Meaning continue to date to find the one while changing the system.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@VanillaSalt I don't think all women are bad. You just need to go with the one that isn't bad and change the system.

[zagor]

The VAST majority of missing children are abducted by family members or are runaways, not taken by mysterious strangers. Yeah, there were serial killers back in the '70's, but even then they accounted for a very small portion of the missing.

[VanillaSalt]

You also don’t think about how long men have to look to find a good one... I’ve been looking for about a year... so I’m supposed to suffer your system for a random amount of time so that AFTER I find what I want I can change a system YOUR gender broke... ya you can just fuck off if that’s how you feel.

[JayCasper777]

I don't have an biological children. Please go do something about this if you care so much. Do you see the topic of discussion or are you as rude as you are dumb.
Talk about the topic not your weird conspiracy theories.

Or

Go ahead and start a convo and start talking about this there so people will engage with you properly but don't come in here and try blame mgtow for child trafficking.

It's bad because mgtow are avoiding women & society they ain't peados or traffickers. To put suspicion on them means that real traffickers will get away with trafficking because dumb f*cks like you will have everyone looking in the wrong places to find traffickers.

Grow a brain. Please. Lmao

[Warmapplecrumble]

I guess all of you are being paid to say this.. or really have 0 humanity left. I just posted the links from official websites and you all keep saying this is a conspiracy. Disgusting.

[Tonita91996]

I really do believe that men are more selfish than women are. Men are about about his own needs and only wants a woman who will help provide from them. So they dont have to be doing everything by themselves. They always just want sex too.

[bluetoblack99]

Men are more selfish? Smdh

[Tonita91996]

@bluetoblack99 they are I dont care if men get mad for me saying this or not it is true.

[bluetoblack99]

I could rattle off a list a mile long when it comes to the contrary. Both from personal experiences and from observations of western society.

If you lived in the Middle East or Southeast Asia you can claim that. But not in the western countries especially first world ones like the USA, Canada, UK, Australia, NZ, Nordic countries, etc.

[Tonita91996]

@bluetoblack99 fuck men I dont want them anyway all they do is take us good women for granted. Men dont respect nice women and yes it is true women dont respect good men either. We women are more gooble than men. But you dont see me getting offended over what is true.

[bluetoblack99]

Well y

[bluetoblack99]

Well I don’t see you putting together a cogent argument for that beyond your emotions.

[Tonita91996]

@bluetoblack99 I'm just telling if like it is that is how most cases are the woman doesn't used her value enough without trying to seek validation from some jerk who just wants her for her body.

[bluetoblack99]

And that jerk is so charming you overlook the fact he’s nothing trouble. Than he predictably screws you over and now everyone else is the blame. All during this time you passed up and friendzoned guys who are not like this “but boring”.

At least half the time I see women get screwed there are signs it won’t even well. But you want to be “the one” who tames him who ends up being another notch on the bed post. But the drama made you feel so alive, right?

[Tonita91996]

@bluetoblack99 usually the ugly man is the one who wants a relationship.

[Dali-chan]

I’m not shocked by the blue downvotes you got. Men don’t know that they’re selfish cause for them being selfish mean leaving your wife and kids with no food, while fucking many hoes around and abusing your kids, while for us girls being selfish simply mean caring about our own needs before the others. The fact that you can easily spot an ugly man with a hot woman but rarely the opposite is already the prove of who’s the more shallow gender but men keep saying that us women are hypergamous while I see pretty girls dating ugly fuckers even if they both have the same paycheck.

[Tonita91996]

@Dali-chan a good looking dude does not want to settle down because he is already getting all the chicks unless you are a model than you can get him.

[Madmegalomaniac]

I don't think we were always this selfish lol. The modern political climate is making lots of people of both genders very selfish in my opinion.

[bluetoblack99]

Not true. But the problem is women have a bad habit of chasing taken men. This screws up everything. It tempts the taken guy and single guys gets left out in the cold.

Every time I’ve been in a relationship I’ve had this bs happen. I didn’t indulge it though even though I was tempted.

Men don’t find taken women more attractive when all else is equal.

[TruthBringer]

@bluetoblack99 You owned them both. I find it insanely ironic that a woman points to another gender for being "selfish". Especially when women are the ones that expect to be treated like princesses and queens simply because they have a vagina. Or whenever they string guys along knowing they want them, but have interest in wanting them back. Just so they can keep them around for free attention/validation. I also got a long list that contradicts @tonita91996. The truth is, we are all selfish.

[TruthBringer]

@Dali-chan Funny, I see the very contrary. It's women who are notorious for only wanting the "Chads" who are also bad boys. It is a rare sight to see a pretty girl with an ugly dude. If that were the case, then there wouldn't be so many incels or sex deprived men who go to hookers or become porn addicts since no girl wants to give them any attention. Should I also point out to the suicide rates of men vs women? I'd rather listen to this psychologist who speaks some facts over some confirmation bias you are preaching
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5u13_Bdw5eY

[Billlewis]

Oh, I think that's absolutely true. That's why I always volunteer to remain 100% celibate throughout every relationship I engage in with women, because guys tend to become lazy and inconsiderate after they've had intercourse with a woman a few times.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Very nicely written

Many will deny or ignore it because they want to lay the blame somewhere else. Maybe its not a bad thing when a woke feminist gets a tubal ligation. These are the absolute worst women to ever be mothers and they would poison their children's minds with their man hating ideology. Sometimes a problem comes with its own solution.

[Dave31989]

men aren't committing

because women aren't committing

it's a fact that more women these days, are preferring friends with benefits, and random hookups

than actual relationships

that's all you need to say, not this long drawn out piece

[captain_voidwalker]

Yeah let me boil all this down for you all. Men aren't committing because we A. Don't have to, and B. Recieve no benefit by doing so.

[beefy40]

Relationships are one car at a time bi-directional street. I think relationships have become way more asymmetric. When we had gender rules, it was two halves making a whole. But in today's world, rules are something you negation. yes, you can still find a good soulmate, but I think a lot of people ( men especially) don't see the point of negotiating a Relationship. In fact, to me it's downright unromantic.

[VanillaSalt]

It also complicated dating. With so many different personalities finding an “acceptable” partner is more difficult... dating used to be a 500 piece puzzle... now it’s a 10,000 piece puzzle with a mix of such vibrant colors you have Seizures.

[ManaX]

@VanillaSalt never seen it phrased that way, but my garsh you're right, these days it's so unnecessarily complicated.

[jabberwocky00]

What exactly is toxic masculinity? Is that like a boys don’t cry type lesson?

[Unit1]

Correct!

[extremelybored]

Best take I've seen on here, very well said brother.

[LEADFOOTboi]

cuz more mens are red pillin... its the way to go in this society where womens have too much power in the game... best answer is not to play

[Zen10]

Because they trying to legalize hoeing
Women are overly aggressive
Argumentative
And don't like to submit
They don't have natural femininity anymore all they care about is sex

[Posterboy56]

Uh... strange point to end on; it seems as though you're alluding to some solution to these problems, yes? What would that solution/those solutions be?

[MrOracle]

I could have written a whole book on this subject, with footnotes and videos and other references, but you only get so many characters in a MyTake, and people are already complaining that it's too long.

There's no one-fits-all solution, but my one substantive idea, which I rarely hear discussed, is for women (and society in general, as that sets the tone in a big way) to take marriage and children seriously in their early 20s - to PLAN for an early 20s marriage from when they're a teen, the same way they plan for a career today, and plan to go to college in their early 30s, when their kids are already in school. Given that biology limits fertility to a specific age window, but school is not similarly limited, there's no reason why women who want BOTH marriage/children and a career to be encouraged to do the career AFTER the marriage/children, rather than before. in my opinion, that would make it far easier on women - who find it very difficult to put a career on hold to have children, and often find they have fertility issues because they waited until their early 30s (or later!) to start trying for kids. And companies are also less likely to promote a woman into an important position if she's likely to take a bunch of maternity leave, because she could be gone 6 months a year for several years.

Women were encouraged to go straight to college because that's what men did (and they were told they needed to directly compete), but that completely dismisses the fact that childbirth puts women in a very different situation that should be accommodated. Of course, part of post-50s Feminism was the destruction of the family, so this was done on purpose, but I think we all agree that it was a huge mistake and absolutely detrimental to families.

[Posterboy56]

"Women were encouraged" ... Yes. By themselves. This isn't something that fell from the sky-- the place they held in subservience to males for hundreds of years was obviously displeasing in many ways to them, or they wouldn't have desired college and whatever else in the first place. What you're proposing obviously didn't work, or things would have not evolved over the last century to become the way they are.

[Juxtapose]

"Who knew that huge societal changes would have huge unintended consequences?"

^^ this.

[Compassiondude101]

Because 9/10 times she has a super jealous ex boyfriend who wants to kill you Becca sue he thinks you “stole” her from him. Best to just watch porn and get the sexual feelings out of the way

[anametouse]

You said it yourself, it's about having a quality partner. Most people out there are just not that in my experience

[Wewladdy]

Most women are whores and aren't worth committing to. But this is largely man's fault.

[msc545]

Because most women treat the majority of men like disposable trash, as does the legal system.

[BlueStarPenguin]

I haven't experienced this. It seems woman are less committed these days

[Shocker650]

Woman are the ones who aren't committed most of the time. They always looking for a better deal.

[ProLife]

this is the best mytake i've read in long time, thank you sir