Why Intentionally Holding Out on Sex with Men during dating is Stupid (Page 2)
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Women are entitled to decide when to spread themselves for anyone. I don't feel comfortable enough to have sex with a dude I barely know, so I won't, even if he thinks I'm a prude.
Nobody is saying you should have sex with someone you aren't comfortable with. Just saying if you do... dont withold it as a game or some test of a guy.
I think it’s best t on get to know someone prior to jumping into bed with them. Decent guys respect women more for it.
So when is your Netflix special coming out😂😂😂
@misanthropistkev So are you saying your favorite saying is Wham, bam! thank you mam, and by the way, you're on my cam?
@JuliaStyles 👏👏👏golf clap 💀
big disagree. Women hold out on sex to detect and avoid fuckboys like you
Read above. Holding out on sex does not succeed in detecting fuck bois. There are many fuck bois who have many women on dial. They are fucking other chics who put out and going on dates and flirting with the prudes, sweet talking them until they put out. Withholding sex as a way of blackmail or games changes NOTHING.
It does succeed in detecting fuckbois, no fuckboi is going to marry a girl just to fuck her, accept this.
Another histrionic display of your pseudo confidence. Screaming at the top of your lungs to the internet about how confident you are isn't going to ameliorate your deeply rooted insecurities and obvious shortcomings with women.
They're prudes who aren't nearly as sexual as us men. Just look at all the 1800's, Victorian style replies. Some even from men!
I'm bi, I *know* most men aren't prudes.
So is withholding sex from my husband because he doesn't ever make the first move and I want him to bad?
Just man can get sex from Any where so why does it matter. if we decide to have sex with you right away or later.
Imagine a guy gave out 10,000 to women whom he dated in the past. He went on trips in yacht, private jet and had fun traveling.
Now, he's with you but he doesn't have that kind of money and can't afford to do or won't do it all. Now he wants to live a normal life and settle down.
He wants to be with you. You start dating and you want to go out but he's prudent and frugal with going out or traveling. You have to work for your own clothes and support him with a bill or two. He's doesn't want to seem financially irresponsible so he doesn't want to blow much money off with you.
@Mysterio421, what does any of that have to do with having sex. Lots of men are scumbags who are just looking for quick sex and ditch the girl afterward. She holds off on sex to weed those guys out. It's not always obvious when a guy will be like this in the first couple dates. Only way to be sure is if you hold off on sex. The guy will leave on his own if she refuses to give him any, or the guy will stay if he's genuinely interested in her.
Its one of a few way women have to ward off toxic, abusive men.
@Hogwheels Dating, sex and marriage are tied. I used an analogy to explain one point of view as to why a guy cares if he waits. And you are right, you do have women who hold off to weed those guys out.
@Mysterio421 @hogwheels is right. I’m not saying that women don’t want it to but at the same time we want something serious I have had. guys just ask for sex and that’s all they want it and I love their honesty about it did we have sex no but I’m glad that they were being honest.
And what you just described doesn’t even make any sense because if you have money before and now because you don’t have money you want to settle down that shouldn’t be your reason for settling down. You should choose to because that’s your choice whether you have money or not
Here is a simple reason it's stupid: Do it and we will leave you for someone who won't do it.
No big loss there lol. She dodged a bullet.
@Jamie05rhs Actually, they deserved each other.
I disagree, but ok.
Meh, i hate hookup culture anyway, so i dont mind waiting for sex with a girl im interested in.
A female has ONE use. As a series of holes to insert one's penis.
Do you put that on your Mother's Day card?
@zagor I refer to childless women. Once they get knocked up, their uses chanhes to: Incubator and Human cow.
I find relationships born around fucking to be tiring and boring.
sex is just physical activity &
love and intimacy beyond the sex
Virginity is historical fidelity.
Of course a man wrote this
Just lol.