The problem with 99% of women is they do not see themselves as offering anything greater in a relationship to a man beyond sex. This thinking has destroyed young girls and relationships. They use sex as blackmail for a relationship or to get what they want because they have no proper negotiating skills or respectability to offer a man beyond gratification of desire for a period of 10 seconds out of his life. It is sad and pathetic.
A woman's value is not her virginity. It is not sex. It is her being. The fidelity and decency of her behavior.
Who she is as an intelligent, funny, engaging and resourceful person. Sex should not be the end goal of a companionship but the very beginning of it all. The end goal is a union that is spiritual not physical.
A man should be weary of women who intentionally withhold sex as a game or some prize to be won.
Why is it that some women are so prude about sex early on in dating situations? How did the folly come about that portrayed the value of a relationship based on withholding of sex?
I think the concept behind it was a very old and sexist idea. The idea was that a man should marry a virgin. In the old days, it was believed that a woman was impure and unworthy of a man's love if she had been betrothed to another man in lustful action prior to marriage. The whole idea behind withholding sex is sexist. A woman's value is not based on whether she puts out or not. The value of a relationship is not based on that either. It is folly. Nothing but fiction.
Life is too short for games. Life is too short not to enjoy sex. Life is too short not to form a bond which may last a lifetime.
Every woman should ask themselves a simple question. Does having sex with a man turn a decent man into a bad person? Does withholding sex from a man turn a pig into a husband material?
The answer to this question is NO. A good man is a good man regardless of whether he fucks you on Date #1 or on your wedding night. LOVE FULLY. ALWAYS.
I have spoken.