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Why The Number of Sexual Partners Matters (Page 4)
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I am a living example of things you said are completely wrong
You being "living proof" is no where near enough to deunk any points I've made that I've managed to back up with studies and data. Pointing to exceptions to the rule does not disprove the rule itself. I sure hope you're not one of the statisics of MANY people out there that point out that the amount of sexual partners matters. All in all, you've failed to deliver true evidence and arguments to why I'm "completely wrong" even though studies show otherwise. Come back when you have something valid to say
What more valid can be than ones self honey
I am a working girl and i have had many many partners darling and yet i am living a very very happy and successful married life, i am a mum of twin boys aged almost 3 and half years and that means no abortions... i am very much in love with my partner n so is he... we are a world to each other and that means i am not a single mum and trust me or not i dont have any depressions and i am living a very happy life
You said once a cheater always a cheater but i personally know 2 guys n 1 girl who cheated in past but now they are soo nice n loving persons that one would wish to be their partner
N with me ex boyfriends i never bothered with their past sexual behaviour except if they were using any drugs coz that i could never compromise on
And honey i am mature enough to tolerate anyone's opinions and beliefs and i am able to respect them regardless of their opinion against me or contrary to mine
Once again, pointing to exceptions to the rule, does not disprove the rule itself. You're speaking about yourself and apply this to the general public while neglecting studies and statistics that clearly show that not everyone is as fortunate as you are. I'm very glad things worked out for you. Unfortunately, it didn't for many more others. You still have not given solid arguments that back your claim to that I'm "completely wrong". If you're planning on replying, make sure you actually provide the right arguments next time.
I am not here to put up a fight or something darling
All i am trying to do is giving you alternate view just to try to convince you that we shouldn't be so hard on people who we dont share our values with
There are always always studies n "evidences" which back every kind of claim/opinion coz it depends what was a certain survey based on n on what kind of people (i just can't be bothered to look through such surveys i mean contrary to yours but i am sure that you know it too)
Oh definitely, in the end what matters is the person. But funny how your last reply has a much different tone than your original comment. That's what I'm talking about. You claim someone is wrong, yet don't provide any evidence other than yourself.
No one is wrong at this darling and THAT IS WHAT I AM TRYING TO TELL YOU as there are studies and more importantly real life scenarios and persons who have been or are on the either side of the argument for example there are many out there who cheated and will definitely cheat again but at the same time there are many who cheated but have absolutely changed themselves and are embarrassed n ashamed of what they did... and so is the case with your other points... thatswhy i said one should never be so hard on others that it comes to stop respecting them as in the end its all about our experiences or the way we see things around us
If my change of tone can help me bring some understanding to you, its not bad
Then you've literally contradicted your first comment and pretty much just admitted that what I said is not wrong 😂😂. Try to be consistent next time
I think talking to u is like waste of efforts n time so lets leave ourselves be
Have fun n live 😊
You're actually the one wasting both our times with shallow claims and then contradicting yourself by setting a new narrative. My Take still stands Have a good day ;)
I can promise you would feel different about your guy, if yo found out he used to fuck dudes, but doesn't anymore. "because he Changed" lol
@cjmtherfcker ok alright
@cjmtherfcker Don't even try, the fact she thinks she is the very example that speaks for all other women out there, despite studies clearly showing the contrary goes to show you shouldn't try to discuss with her intellectually. It will all fall on deaf ears, anyway.
Good my take. Sounds pretty reasonable to me.
I feel like the guys who are most worried about this are guys with little experience and/or virgins.
Oh definitely. Virgin men, definitely feel this way and want someone on their level. But it definitely is not exclusive to virgin men. If that were the case, then slut-shaming wouldn't be such a big thing. Hell even women shame each other for this
But how much of slut shaming is a real thing and how much is angsty huffpost writers and such trying to make an issue for clicks? If you go by online, could you conclude everyone is a satanist or muslim or furry or vegan or antifa or catholic or trump supporter or anything you like. A tiny populace can make a ton of noise.
Yeah the actual slut shaming amount is questionable. All in all, it's a commonly known fact that men dislike women who have a high body count (for the purpose of relationships), except if it's about short-term pleasures. And women know this, hence why so many of them tend to lie about their body-count. Me mentioning the slut-shaming is simply an example of there being a stigma on having many sexual partners as a woman. And it's mostly women who complain about slut-shaming so we gotta ask them. All I know is that the manosphere is growing bigger and bigger and marriage rates are at an all-time low.
To me it doesn’t but everyone is different
For women, a man's body count doesn't matter as much as that of a woman to a man. So yeah I'm not surprised that you don't really put so much care into it
Very much so. The old saying “the if you have a key that opens many locks, that’s a valuable key, if you have a lock that opens by any key, that’s a bad lock. I explained it in my first post but reproduction is the major influence in what’s found attractive. Face and body symmetry indicates health. Alpha men are holy desirable for Genetics, protection, providing and fertility. It’s been true through 200,000 years of successful traits and selective breeding that women don’t find 80 % of men as a desirable mate. Men find females attractive in a basic bell curve. Few 1s, few 10s and 5s as the most common. Women’s Tati g of men find most men below 4 and jump to 8s 9s and tens in that top 20%. Chances are that in a early tribal state few men were selected below the 20% and the 20% produced the bulk of children. Passing on the favourable genetics and behaviour. It meant that those few top 20 could be identified by recognizing other women’s attraction to a male.
Yes!. I hate hearing "the past is the past"
@TruthBringer. Very well said.
The poor woman that ends up with you...
Seems like I triggered a snowflake. My girlfriend is very happy to be with me and she does that willingly. And she also happens to share my views on this topic Thanks for proving you're incapable to construct a valid or and productive argument.
She wouldn't be a slut like >>
@Light_beam Exactly. I'm currently with a wonderful girl, who not only isn't a slut, but is also raised by a traditional family with values. Snowflake Shlie here are simply butthurt because more men are starting to raise their standards and hold women accountable for their actions, instead of simping for them. Because God forbid a man wants to have a girl who hasn't been dicked down by half the town 😂. She wants to sportfuck all through her twenties and still settle for a high value guy who will "accept" her. Wanting to have her cake and eat it too. Delusion at it's finest.
You can't convince someone especially a girl that she is cheap ! Ego games and denial always take over..
how are these women "poor?"
I can't say it doesn't happen but technically speaking nobody holds women at gunpoint to sleep around with every dude they see
Where do you get these ideas by the way? And why are you so concerned with these women? Ngl when I first read your post I thought an incel wrote it.
Also you and your girlfriend slutshame together? Must be nice lol. I was also raised in a traditional family and I don't look down on women who enjoy having lots of sex so. 💁
@apple_jack I look down on women who allow themselves to be degraded to a sexual object. Don't expect respect from others if you don't respect yourself. That's a very basic and simple rule to understand. The fact you thought I was an incel pretty much shows how poor your and other women's analytical ability is to assess the situation and the person you're dealing with. My girlfriend doesn't actively slut shame. She simply looks down on these women and is happy to not be like them. And she has every reason to.
To answer your question to why this "concerns" me so much. On a personal level, it doesn't. I couldn't care less if a woman chooses to sell herself cheap, destroys her ability to bond with a long term partner, risks getting STDs, risk getting depressed or becoming a single mother. Those aren't any of my problems. The only thing that I'm concerned about is making sure I don't get with such a woman. This MyTake is there to inform people of the dangers of having multiple sexual partners. But of course bunch of snowflakes get triggered and see it as an insult. The statistics don't lie. And facts don't care about feelings.
@sixtyeightplusone "doesn't'like sexual conquest". I've got with women who have had a sexual history and my size + skills were never a problem. So this "conquest" you talk about has never been a concern to me. My concern is getting with someoen into a relationship that will cause me headaches and bring more misery to my life. I don't need bad energy. Go cry us a river elsewhere. I'm not married, goes to show your level of intellect already lmfao
@apple_jack For someone who claims not to be attacked personally, you sure type many paragraphs yourself trying to explain that you're not triggered by my take. Instead of throwing temper tantrums, try to debunk anything I've said along with the stats I've provided. Good luck to you, little SNOWFLAKE
ME: 350 plus, wish it were 10x that. I enjoyed and cherished every experience and wouldn';t trade them for the world
Lmfao sure you did
Oh women are so naughty.
Get over it.
I don't have to get over a red flag if I don't get with a woman with that red flag, to begin with. And yes, women are 'naughty'. So I tend to get with the women who are the least 'naughty' whom we men consider to be relationship material. Sounds like you need to get over the fact that men have preferences and standards
True , but by alone
Fortunately for me, I have no issues attracting women of quality. And I'm currently with a wonderful girl who we both are very happy to be in each other's lives. But thanks for your concern anyway, ma'm.
I'd like to read your take on men with multiple sexual partners as well. So far you've only been talking about women here.
Also you do mention "your wonderful girlfriend" quite a lot in these replies. Mostly to try to prove your "point". It's kinda sus ngl and maybe she doesn't even exist at all lol.
speak for yourself
@apple_jack Two wrongs don't make a right. Just because I point somethign about women, doesn't mean I'm obligated to do the same for men. It's like a guy stealing a soda complains about getting lectured by pointing out someone else stealing a soda aswel. Asif that would excuse him of that behavior and consequences. So no, I'm not going to answer your rhetorical demand and I don't need to. Especially after I already put forth that I'll be talking about women because I'm more interested in the female side as a heterosexual male. Like I said before, cry a river elsewhere.
@apple_jack Men don't experience sex the same way as women do. There are a lot more emotions involved when a girl has sex therefore there is a higher chance of her not being able to commit and much more mental issues that come along with it. Plus women find guys who have a lot of experience in bed desirable, but guys on the other hand value girls who have a low body count or even a virgin.
@YesICan Very well said, but your words will fall on deaf ears as that snowflake can't handle facts and reality
No hymen, no diamond
I've had a few.