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I am... just that it's only ONE-SIDED LOVE i think coz he never answered every time I asked him. :/
Sometimes people do things when their in love to protect their partners or shield them from the pain or the worry and that may very well be what your boyfriend is doing. Holding back doesn't necessarily mean the love is one sided, he may be unsure, for reasons you and I may never know until he chooses to show his feelings. Ask him about it. I wish you the very best
I already asked him and even his friends asked him too.. but he'll just smile about it.
I honestly don't know what to say, sounds like he's a little confused at the moment, I don't know. I hope you find your soon
yeah.. he is. That's what he's friends told me.
mmm then you know, just give it time, give it as much as your willing to give
I don't think I can.. especially now that he and his family already migrated to Australia.
I honestly don't know what to do coz I am not used without his presence everyday.
They moved to Australia? So long distance relationship. That may be his reason for the hesitatance. Maintaining a long distance relationship is not easy, not by a long shot.
Where are you from?
Honestly, we're not in a relationship. I think you can call it "Friends with Benefits" but on a different way not involving s** ( I mean we kissed several times already and cuddled but didn't talk about it).
and I'm from Philippines :)
Oh right right. Well if your calling it a friends with benefits (sort of) relationship, maybe he sees it the same way to. Except his level of commitment compared to yours in a lot lower. I don't know for sure here, I'm just saying what I think
yeah.. I know. He messaged me first on Facebook just now , the time we are exchanging each other's opinion here. I asked him if he missed me and he just said that "not yet? " lol! but he take it back immediately.
You think he also missed me? I mean he'a the type of a person that doesn't just messaged you without reasons maybe.
Yeah, I mean if you two had something special then he certainly does miss you, I have no doubt about that. I guess time will tell, be that for the better or for the worst, it has a way of sorting these things out
totally agree with that.
I told him if I can see him after 5 years? He said It's okay. But you think, Is it fine that I ask him this or am I just desperate?
Yeah, its good that you do
That depends on how intimate and how long a relationship you guys had. From the sounds of things there is a slight, slight possibility it may have come off as desperate to him but otherwise I think it was fine
that's too bad for me if he thinks I'm desperate :(
but on the other side, I won't take it back either coz there's no harm being honest right? :)
Still up to him if he starts to ignore me.
Well, the way I see it, it's his loss at the end of the day. You love him and if he's not understanding enough to see that then he's not good enough to have your love. And like you said, if he ignores you that is his chice and his loss, not yours :) Don't ever doubt that
I'll never ever doubt that.. we may don't know what we'll come up in the future, but it's still worth the risk. At least you tried right? Not the way you want to happen, just the thought of not being coward in facing the truth and the possibilities that are along with it. ;)
Good, glad to hear it :)
Absolutely, there are things in life we can't control but the risk may justify the means and if it does, at least for you, as the individual, go for it. And you said, at least you tried :)
totally.. (^_^)
hey? thanks for your time.. this really makes me feel a lot better :)
Haha yeah :)
No worries, your more than welcome :) I'm glad you feel better
Yes and yes, to the title question. All of this is quite true.
Glad to hear it :) Is there a special one for you?
A special guy? Yeah!
:) Glad to hear it :)
Best of wishes and I'm happy to hear it's true for you :)
Thank you. I like the point about best friends the most.
No worries, your more than welcome :)
Thank you, yeah, I think it's at that time the love magnifies to a degree numbers do no justice to
Haha just read this. You guys do crime together? lol @soccerchick4eva and @MarkyyG123
shhhh dont tell the whole world :P hahha
Haha mate, now you've done it, you got life insurance? haha
@soccerchick4eva haha ok i didn't see anything nor hear anything. Ok that good? :p @MarkyyG123 haha no but i got protection :p
HAHAHA, no protection gonna save you from the wrath of @soccerchick4eva , mate haha, you're on your own with this one, good luck, your gonna need it haha
{If you survive, I'll see you on the other side haha}
Im scared now 😱. She sounds like one tough chick :p i trust ur words @MatkyyG123 so see you on the dark side of the moon :p
Hahaha she ccertainly is a handful, mate, I'll tell you that much
Yeah, we'll see, I hear this crater ain't big enough for the two of us, but I'm sure we can come to some arrangement, afterall, we did survive the wrath of @soccerchick4eva didn't we? Well, if it gets to that haha
Haha yea ok man coollio :) i dont think we would get to that though :p
Haha too right, Bud. She's just too much for us to handle ay
In love and he is the one. I'm so happy to be whit him. I just wish he didn't live so far...
Happy to hear you found the One :D
Yeah :L Distance is the issue sometimes but not for long :) Love and time has a way of working these things out :)
Know that I think about it…. I have never been in love :(
And that isn't a bad thing in itself. Being in love makes you vulnerable, gives you a weakness and yet the greatest strength. Its maybe just not your time... yet. Things happen and happen for a reason, your will come if it hasn't already :) And that's the beauty of love, it'll be there and you just won't know it
I think I'm heading that way... Problem is... I'm sure if he even likes me.
It's good to hear you know its happening, most people never do until its way to late.
You may be unsure, but have you asked him? Whats the reasoning behind your uncertainty?
We are not dating... Just talking and he seems nervous around me... And sometimes he will acknowledge me and others not... Just very confusing...
Ohh alright, then you two have time. Take things slow is all I can say. Shy means he cares and attention means he likes you, both very positive signs. In time you'll know
I wish you all the very best :)
I currently have a small crush on a guy AND a girl... Think I need a therapist?
Uhh wow, mate, that's a new one.
I honestly don't know, probably best to wait a while and see how and where things actually go. Hopefully in time you'll know who you really do have feeling for
I'm pretty sure I have complete interest with both of them because they are my tastes...
Well that does make things harder, but not impossible. Interests is what keeps us at the start, common ground, similarities, chemistry, things like that is what keeps us in the long run
Awwww :DD ♥♥
love you nerd :D
♥ ♥ ♥ Haha and I love you more :*
Thank you this really helped.
No worries, your more than welcome
Best of wishes with the Bloke, I hope it all works out :))
never fell in love XD
Not never. Just not yet, mate, just not yet. Just don't ever give up hope, Bud, because in that second you do she can come and go, all it takes is that split second
Marky! You wrote this?
Hahaha I sure did, Miss :)
Haha awwww.. Great job man! Im surprised! Probably better then some experts articles.. But shhhh lol 🙈
Thanks Miss :D She similarities in you life with "Him"? :D
Oh hahaha, yeah, shuuush haha xD
Lmfao man I don't know.. 😔 let's not even start..
Hahaha oh yeah, lets do start :P
Yup, definitely where I'm at :)
Good to hear :D Yeah, a pretty good feeling and time in life isn't it :)
Indeed! :D
:) Yeah
I wish you all the best :)
Awh thanks! You too!! :)
Your welcome :)
And thank you, I appreciate it :)
I'm not in love at the moment. One day.
No worries, mate. Yeah, one day, you'll never know, it might be working it's magic with 'her' as we speak haha
You're a positive dude. I dig that. You're right.
Thanks, Bud, you seem like a top bloke yourself and a funny guy at that haha, I've read a few of your answer
Yeah, I hope so, you'll just wake up one day, look in the mirror and you'll see her
The feeling I hate most
Whys that, mate?
i became soft and hurt
Yeah :L It'll make you soft mate and hurt, well, we know why that happens :L I hope that dosen't mean you've given up hope Bud
i gave up already, tried to find something which i can't have
Bad idea, bud. I've said it before and I'll say it again, in that time you give up that One, will come on up and walk by and you wouldn't even know it, all it takes is that split second. Don't ever give up
i won't always know mate... i gotta admit the feeling is nice
And that's the beauty of it, Bud. It works its magic and you won't even know it, just give it time, mate
no mate i never been so lucky... i just try to accept to be single for the rest of my life
Luck has nothing to do with it mate. Things happen for a reason, we think it luck but there's always a reason, we'll probably never know why and by adopting a negative attitude, you are potentially robbing youself of that reason... don't hinder yourself
That's beautiful. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you very much and your more than welcome :) I'm glad you enjoyed it :)
Anything you can related to?
I'm in love with food... Does that count? :p
Hahaha ofcourse it does haha and it's a solid start
Now that I think about it, my girlfriend is sometimes more in love with food than me -.- I've been beaten by fruits and potatoes one time -.- Women huh hahaha
ah i know how that feelsss!! i had to pick out of mark or food, tough decision that was @MarkyyG123 ;)
HAHHAHHAHAHHAHA!!!
Hahaha oh wow, tough decision... sometimes I wonder why you do this to me, Woman <3 <3 @soccerchick4eva
ahahahhaha ok it wasn't tough... it was very very very very very etc tough decision ;) <3
-.- Women these days
Only you Zo, Only you can drive me completely and utterly insane and yet I still love you more than life -.- hahah <3 <3 @soccerchick4eva
Now: Stop harassing this wonderfully, in love with food, Opinion owner :P Sorry Ma'am about all of this
😂 😂 😂 😂
ahah soz anon :)
It's ok, you guys are cute :) @soccerchick4eva @MarkyyG123
Haha thanks :) Good luck with the food, I hope it's the right taste of love for you haha
Nope, I'm not.
Sorry to hear that, mate :L
Just not yet man, not yet
Sorry for what? I'm enjoying being single, so less stressful than relationships.
Haha fair enough, mate. Yeah, sometimes being single is the best thing ever, and then, it get lonely or you meet Her just one day and what seems like a mistake turns into the best thing that ever happened to you and that's all there is to it
love isn't real. not all this anyway.
That may be your standing, and each to their own, you have all the right to believe what you'd like. But it's either I know what I'm talking about because I am going through or have gone through it or I'm damn good at coming up with lies.
so if i have the right to believe whatever i want why are you being defensive? just because you feel these things doesn't mean you're in love, doesn't mean they love you, and doesn't mean you've found the one. people can't be summed up that easy… you have your reasons for being optimistic, i have mine for being realistic. but at the very least, i can put my opinion on whatever i want anywhere i want, and if you get defensive that's your deal. you asked, i answered.
This is the way true love was meant to be, and if you meet the right person you can experience it yourself. It seems like you've been though some bad relationships and that's sad, but don't let your bad experiences define love.
Too right, I'm with @ThatGuy98 . I was not being defensive, I was trying to show you that there's another side to it all. I have no right to judge and all I am going to say is what ever you've been through or seen, in order to reach the conclusion on love you have, must have been terrible and quite trauatising. I hope things work better for you in the future