Confessions of a Ladies Man-Signs She's Falling in Love with You

[Apope16]

She Has Obscure, Deep Thoughts About You

Here in the picture you can see she sent me a text message after she spent the night. She thanked me for taking the time to understand her “essence”. Not sure what that means. Haha. But Deep thoughts about mean deep feelings.

She Analyzes You

Girl I started dating said, “You’re so mysterious”. It means she thinks about me privately and thinks about my behavior. She’s obsessed.

She gives you Compliments

This morning after having sex we got ready for work. I put on some chinos and she said, “What are you going to do about that?” Then she grabbed my crotch indicating that it was large (8 inches) and other girls would look there.

She Talks to People About Your Date

There’s a funny story about a girls dress ripping on our date. She told me yesterday that she told her friends and parents about our date. Then she said her mom was impressed how I reacted.

Your Pets Mood Shifts

Is your dog humping your date when she visits? Is Your cat getting territorial? Animals can sense connection. When It is intense between two people.

She Sends You Pictures of Herself

If its nudes or booty pictures? No. Thats sex. But if she sends you cute headshots? She probably likes you.

SHE SPENDS MONEY ON YOU

Guys the best way to test a lady is to make her do things. Dont just invite her over, tell her to bring a bottle of wine or chips. If she is buying you gifts, or food, or a drink, or is expecting to bring something when she comes over to see you? She is INVESTED in YOU. she's in love.

Suggesting Future Dates

If she is talking about events in the future or inviting herself to do things in the future with you? She has HIGH obsession with you.

[natured]

She Analyzes You - She's obsessed : Like these two things don't even go with one another. We can Analyze different people, analyzing is normal, it won't make antone OBSESSIVE... that's a harsh word to come up with.
She gives you compliments: by grabbing your crotch? I mean... REALLY? ... Investing money on someone? I always bring Wine to every friend that invites me over, even when my mom invites me i bring wine chips and all... Yes you are right that planing something for the future means she has interest in seeing you again... but again "She has HIGH obsession with you" DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT OBSESSION IS? Look, everything is so simple and here is why:

- She looks at you in a different way, her pupiles dilate and her eyes are shiny, she touches her hair, she bites her lips while talking to you, she softens her voice: She's interested - She gives you compliments as in : I love how this shirt looks on you, your eyes are so interesting i love them, i love your new shoes ( she notices things and compliments them) : She's interested TRUST ME, OBSESSION IS NOT HEALTHY, a healthy relationship starts with freedom, you give each other freedom, you give each other time to get to know each other... when a partner is obsessed it's destined to fail... be careful please

Take care
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[FictionalCharacter]

That’s nice you met your soulmate 😉

[Apope16]

Looks like us.😉 im black. she's a taller, hot, Norwegian blonde.

[FictionalCharacter]

I know I saw the pics 👍🏻

[Apope16]

You know I am black because I post pictures of myself every once and awhile. but I of course would never post pictures of a girl i am currently dating. I haven't even posted pictures of past exes either.

[RolandCuthbert]

Haha! They are laughing at you bruh.

[FictionalCharacter]

Who’s laughing?

[invalid1]

But if that happens, is it good? Should we be happy, or should we sense danger and back off? Because I dunno, it thrills me if a girl is falling for me, but in the same time if it happens, I don't think I will enjoy that, I will feel guilty, or coward. Unless I go with her akl the way, means real commitment.

[Apope16]

Follow the advice above. When she is falling for you maintain the mystery. Keep being an alpha. Keep being unique. Dont be too available. I would say right around 2 months she will start to fall in love and want to message you every day. When you get to that point it is a little bit more okay to message more frequently. But keep it SHORT. and Flirty.

[Apope16]

Have an in person relationship not a text buddy relationship.

[Apope16]

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[invalid1]

I understand.
To be honest I am not such a good reader, unless I am hyperfocused. For all your content is a treasure for me that keeps increasing although I disagree with you from time to time, sooner or later I am going to set myself for reading all the articles.
The only question I am left with is... And as you know these times online we have "story viewers".. Now can this indicate any feelings from the opposite sex, given that you press on a posted information that could be anything, while she knows you're gonna see her as one of the viewers.

[Apope16]

First of all you need to not be so harsh on yourself. You are only 27 years old. Women do not want to be serious about relationships until around 30 years old. Girls in their 20s are just wanting to have boyfriends during the winter and having sex with hot guys in the summer after they dump nice guys. You are young so dont worry man. YOu are learning at the perfect age. I didn't start becoming a ladies man until around 28 years old.

You wanted to know about "Story Viewers" on line. I am assuming facebook or instagram and such. Here is my advice on this.

1. Understand that a girl who is looking at your social media most likely is attracted to you.
2. If she is viewing a whole bunch of your stories she probably has a crush on you
3. If she is liking all your posts she has a high chance of wanting to have sex with you

What should you do?

NOTHING.

Women are obsessed with attention. It is their crack cocaine. It will drive her crazy that she keeps liking your stuff and trying to get you to chase her. DONT. wait for her to message you first. let her chase you. dont take that bait. If she messages you ask her out RIGHT AWAY. "Hi nice to meet you. You are cute. Lets go on a date..." She will be shocked because she has been stalking you online for months scared to say hello and then booom! You all of a sudden have a date just by saying hello.

Let her chase you. Be that guy who has so many women liking your photos that you didn't even notice that she was one of the 10 chics who liked your story. be THAT guy.

[invalid1]

I can't thank you enough. In the same time I don't want to sound like a people pleaser lol.
But what you wrote blew my mind 🤯

[Anonymous]

My friends with benefits is in love with me... what do I do?

[Apope16]

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[Opinion Owner]

How does this help me

[ChristianMan21]

Well, just from experience, if you like her too, then date her! I'm in a very good relationship right now (by far the best relationship I've ever had) and she was my friends with benefits.

[Opinion Owner]

@ChristianMan21 I like her, but I don't see us as being compatible long term.

[ChristianMan21]

Okay, may I ask how come? I don't know anything about your situation, but for me, we have really good chemistry, communicate well, and don't have any major conflicting interests in life. One thing I can say is that if she is in love with you, I would be hesitant to throw that away. Especially if you like her too. Since your relationship started off sexual, you also already know that you two are compatible in a sexual way, which is good. I personally think it's wrong to have sex with someone before marriage, but like I said, I made that mistake as well so it is what it is. 😅

[Opinion Owner]

@ChristianMan21 she’s overweight, we have no mental connection, I find myself going back and forth between being annoyed with her and extremely attached to her. I don’t think it’s gunna progress in a healthy way. I’m less attracted to her naked than I am with clothes on. I just don’t see it working out. I am hesitant to throw it away, believe me, but I know I’ll always have a wandering eye for other women if I’m with her. I just don’t have the feeling that it’s right, I don't know. All that being said, I’m finding it very difficult to give her up... I know I should stop seeing her but she makes it so easy. I’m a fking mess. I

[ChristianMan21]

Okay, I see. Well I'm sorry if this is unwarranted advice, but if I were you, I wouldn't be going for anyone who I wasn't attracted to, ya know? It sounds like for you, there wasn't really any redeeming quality about her. I don't say this as an insult, because trust me, I've been there too, but it sounds like you were feeling desperate for a connection with anybody, so you settled for her. With all that being said, I would agree with you that it's best to stop seeing her. If your only hesitation is losing the connection alone, and not losing her, then you need to move on.

[Opinion Owner]

@ChristianMan21 she does have many redeeming qualities, she’s a great cuddler, always there for me when I need her, caring, supportive, honest, it’s not like I don’t like her, I just don’t think there’s enough here for a long term relationship. I’m mostly just lonely and hesitant to lose the connection, you’re right. Of course I will miss her and everything that is good about her, but yeah... I feel as though if I had not been alone for so long I wouldn’t be with her. I feel awful and guilty; and this is exactly the advice I need, so thank you brother. What’s weird is that she is okay with just coming over for a night now and then... like she was very not okay with that in the past, she wanted more, but now it’s like she’s emotionally detached and will just take what she can get. I don’t think this is healthy for either of us... it’s just hard to resist sex with someone you know is std free and whom you have a connection with... but now I’m getting too emotional. I feel so, so guilty...

[ChristianMan21]

No, I get it. I didn't mean literally nothing good about her. There's always something good about someone. I just meant like you don't find her attractive, you don't have a mental connection, which I'm assuming means you can't have super good conversations? And I know what you mean as far as the guilt. But honestly, it's better for both of you if you get out of it now if you know it's not going to work out. No sense in putting it off. That only makes it harder.

[Opinion Owner]

@ChristianMan21 yeah... like I’m not not attracted to her at all, but I just don’t think it’s strong enough for a relationship... our conversations aren’t great yeah, our connection is mostly an emotional physical one. Yeah I’ve known for a while it has to end but her door is always open and it’s so difficult to resist... I will have to be stronger next time

[ChristianMan21]

Yeah, I gotcha. In general though, you've got to keep in mind that for a relationship to last, it needs to cover all the bases. Physical, emotional, mental, practical, and spiritual. Of course, physical attraction will matter a lot at first, but beauty fades with time, so everything else is extremely important as well.

[Opinion Owner]

@ChristianMan21 yup it’s all true... just gotta bring my actions into alignment with what I know to be true and right

[ChristianMan21]

Yeah, definitely. Well good luck to you, my friend!

[Opinion Owner]

@ChristianMan21 🙏

[iseekpinetrees]

Yea definitely though I don't know about falling in love over just you being their current obsession or crush.

[NathanDavis]

" ~your dog starts humping her... that's how you know she's in love~"

this is amazing... lol

[Starwitch23]

Oh I do agree with you!

[Apope16]

Yay! Thank you so much girl!

[C4sse]

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