@jeffend888 @Shiningtempest I'd say the opposite. I'd say people trying to "compromise" on things that can't be compromised on are what causes 50% of relationships to fail. I don't want kids. She does. There's no compromise there... so we fight about it forever and resent the other one and blah blah blah until we face facts and go down different paths
@BoopBoopBeep Exactly but some people think compromising on non negotiables is wise. They dont understand the link between fulfillment and lasting. Ofc anyone can last but what is the point if you dont even want it. Compromising is great on everything BUT the non negotiables. And there are only ever but a few non negotiables unless one is unwise and makes mundane things non negotiable.
I believe that there is one rule that shouldn't be broken, but others are moldable.
If two people have a relationship with God, He is in the midst of them and they are able to deny themselves to follow after His plan, together. Then they can conquer all else. :)
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@jeffend888 Your take explains why around 50% of romantic relationship ends in heartache.
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I'd say the opposite. I'd say people trying to "compromise" on things that can't be compromised on are what causes 50% of relationships to fail. I don't want kids. She does. There's no compromise there... so we fight about it forever and resent the other one and blah blah blah until we face facts and go down different paths
@BoopBoopBeep Exactly but some people think compromising on non negotiables is wise. They dont understand the link between fulfillment and lasting. Ofc anyone can last but what is the point if you dont even want it. Compromising is great on everything BUT the non negotiables. And there are only ever but a few non negotiables unless one is unwise and makes mundane things non negotiable.
@KingOfMe1 Facts. People want to overcomplicate things though...
I like to break rules though
Have fun with that.
You've been given fair warning though.
I believe that there is one rule that shouldn't be broken, but others are moldable.
If two people have a relationship with God, He is in the midst of them and they are able to deny themselves to follow after His plan, together. Then they can conquer all else. :)
I agree with you wholeheartedly, sir.