Guys and Disappointments

[idontneedAname]

First of all, let me just start by saying Guys are nice, a guy is your friend, a guy is your brother, father, husband and whatever.

Guys are very simple. They can never be as complicated as girls.

But the thing is, girls tend to be more straightforward and honest when it comes to their feelings, they aren't seemingly complicated for no reason. In fact, this is an evidence they want you in their lives.

They'll get mad, jealous, furious, caring, -very caring-, worried, trustful, loving and alll sorts of emotions just for you.

So generally speaking, this should be considered as a compliment rather than an ennoyment source. This is how girls express their feelings and prove their true feelings to a guy. Because believe me, once everything is shut down and the girl is not even close to being into you, she will ignore you as if she never knew you.

Boys, on the other hand, love to love and be loved, even the meanest macho on earth would seriously appreciate the intimate presence of a girl in his life.

However, boys can be very irrationnal, neglecting, selfish, reckless, indifferent..that you'll start questionning their feelings towards you and your ability to still trust them.

A girl can't give you her trust easily, and when she does, you're holding a treasure right in the palm of your hands that you should take thorough care of.

So basically, the ball is in your field. And if you'll miss the goal, you'll miss it forever, because the chances are, she'll be gone at the time you'll catch the ball and come back to the field again.

So, without further ado, take care of your crush, your girl your girlfriend..because she's a very sensitive creature even if she won't let you see it.

[Anonymous]

"thing is, girls tend to be more straightforward and honest when it comes to their feelings"

Umm, what did you just write there?

The only thing I can agree with you on is that when a good woman cares for a man, she should be valued and treated well. But the same goes for a good man. Saying "the ball is in your [guys'] field" is pure nonsense. It has to go both ways or it will never work. You as a woman are no more valuable in a relationship than your man is, and you don't deserve any more special treatment than he does.

So yeah, I have have to call bullshit on this one.

[idontneedAname]

you're free to call it whatever, as i'm free to call yours the same thing ;)

[idontneedAname]

your opinion could have been worthy if you took out the anonymat, so i guess it should remain anonymous as well ;)

[Opinion Owner]

So my opinion has no merit because I posted it anonymously? That's brilliant. LOL.

[idontneedAname]

yes exactly

[Opinion Owner]

Hopefully you're bright enough to recognize the absurdity in that...

[Anonymous]

"Guys are very simple. They can never be as complicated as girls."

Not true, guys can be just as complicated.

"They'll get mad, jealous, furious, caring, -very caring-, worried, trustful, loving and alll sorts of emotions just for you."

Guys do the same when they like a girl.

"Boys, on the other hand, love to love and be loved, even the meanest macho on earth would seriously appreciate the intimate presence of a girl in his life."

Applies to both sex.

"However, boys can be very irrationnal, neglecting, selfish, reckless, indifferent.. that you'll start questionning their feelings towards you and your ability to still trust them."

Again, applies to both sex.

"A girl can't give you her trust easily, and when she does, you're holding a treasure right in the palm of your hands that you should take thorough care of."

And now again, it applies to both sex.

[idontneedAname]

so i understand you don't agree with me, i respect our point of view

[Opinion Owner]

I appreciate you respecting my point of view. Thank you.

[1GuyOpinion]

"girls tend to be more straightforward and honest when it comes to their feelings"

WHAT?

[idontneedAname]

please explain to me how you can't agree with it so I can understand your point of view

[sp33d]

Yes, yes and yes until you turn it into a competition by saying "the ball is in your field". From thereon it turns into a guilt-trip. No, bite, but you almost got me.

[idontneedAname]

I didn't mean it this way, no true relationship is based on competing, calculating and so on! Sorry to make you get it the wrong way!

[Anonymous]

Nice take nice take.. good job

[idontneedAname]

thank you :)

[idontneedAname]

if only guys thought just the way you do!

[Opinion Owner]

Ok.. How did I get downvotes?

[kheserthorpe]

So long story short you've never dated a girl.

[idontneedAname]

stereotyping is the only thing that gets relationships into ends

[kheserthorpe]

If only that were true!!

I don't mean to suggest girls are more complicated. i have no idea. We would have to ask someone who has dated pretty of both.

You suggest that guys are complicated but then tell us that girls who are simple in fact hide their feelings out of fear. Should we just assume every woman who expresses any emotion loves us? That seems a poor assumption.