My boyfriend accidentally called me his wife?

[Ananchor]

Is this normal? He got bright red and embarrassed. I loved it of course.
Does it mean he wants to marry me soon

[Thatguy321]

Id say yes, haha i dont know how that happened because its never happened to me.. It has happened before when i was thinking "you look so beautiful" in my head and i literally said it out loud instead of thinking it hahaha so maybe he was thinking about what it'd be like to marry you or something

[Ananchor]

I said I was scared to meet his mentor because I wanted him to like me
And he said
You can't be scared you're a navy wife...
Then he got lobster red and had this insanely massive and stupid grin on his face

[Thatguy321]

Id be expecting a ring soon haha what did you do haha

[Ananchor]

I smiled, joked on him and little then kissed him

[Thatguy321]

Haha thats good (:

[BoundByCuriosity]

my gf and i call each other wifey and hubby for fun :P so it could be just a slip of the tongue, or was on his mind, but personally i wouldn't read into it too much.

[Azara]

why are you asking us. he's the one who said it. do you want to marry him? have you talked about it?

if he was wanting to marry you , i should he think hed tell you about t. its a bit odd to be playing games wen you're that close to marriage.

[Ananchor]

We've talked about it many times. It's definitely in the cards. But he's never called me his fiancée or his wife before. Always girlfriend. He always slips things though, he slipped "I love you" four times before he said it when he actually meant to

[shannon21]

Sounds like an accident. Don't read too much into it. How long you been with him? I'd chill about it as it might scare him off if he senses your sudden excitment when he could of just had slip of tongue or said it as a joke for fun...

[Anonymous]

Let's break this situation down to see where common sense has gone with younger generations:

Your boyfriend (not ours) made some statement in some situation that none of us were present at. We don't know what the situation was. And more importantly, we (like you) don't know what his thoughts were internally. So instead of asking the person who actually said it (because they would be able to tell you exactly what's on their mind, since it is their mind after all)...you ask a bunch of random strangers on the internet who literally know nothing about the guy, the situation, his thoughts, or why he might have said this.

Or to put it more simply: Person A hears Person B say something. To understand it, Person A completely bypasses Person B and asks People C what Person B meant.

Doesn't make much sense, does it?

[ManaX]

But what would GAG be without person A, B and C. (like your reasoning though lol)

[Opinion Owner]

A lot less cluttered for people with actual questions that can't be solved by taking charge of your own problems lol

[bleedingquadrophenic]

Lol well put

[Ananchor]

I did ask him- and we did talk about it which I've stated to others who have answered me with helpful thoughts
But thank you for taking the time to write such a scathing answer to my question. I'm surprised you took the time since clearly I'm an idiot. Though I'm not sure what that makes you. In the future if all you plan on doing is attacking someone it might be best to just not answer.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I'm an asshole, obviously. But since I struck a nerve and you ranted on more about how you're all pissed off, let's get back on topic.

What did he say to you when you asked him about it?

[Ananchor]

Because I didn't think you actually care about my question, more you just wanted to point out a flaw in my character

We have talked about marriage, kids, etc. all of which are in the cards. But we aren't going to be walking down the aisle tomorrow. Probably within two years. I'm more curious as to is he thinking sooner. He slipped up and accidentally blurted out I love you four times before he actually told me. And now he accidentally called me his wife. I've never blurted out anything like that, or accidentally called a boyfriend a husband. Those are two very different titles with very different meanings. His love for me was on his mind a lot. So he blurted it out. Is my being his wife on his mind so much that now he's saying it. (Which is a question I don't want to ask, I don't want him to say when he's going to propose, I already know he's going to because he told me but I want the rest to be a surprise)
I'm just trying to see if other guys have done the same

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Hm. Was it really an accident? Seems like something a man with a little wit in the perfect positioning might do.

[Ananchor]

Read my comment to the guy above you :)

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Guy. Above. Me. Can't. See. Anyone. Above. Me. Dang. D:

[Ananchor]

I said I was scared to meet his mentor because I wanted him to like me
And he said
You can't be scared you're a navy wife...
Then he got lobster red and had this insanely massive and stupid grin on his face

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

That's deliberate and well placed!

[Ananchor]

Really guys try and slip stuff in like that? Why?

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Why not? After all you're here all gigglefitting about it. You loved it. What more do you need?

[Dionysos]

Freudian slip. If he's been married before, it's less significant than if he hasn't.

[Ananchor]

He's never been married and neither have I. Most of his friends are single

[Dionysos]

In that case, I'd say you need to have a discussion about the M word.

[Ananchor]

We talk about it all the time, it's definitely gonna happen. It just might happen sooner than I first thought :P

[Dionysos]

That's good to hear. I've never found anyone I wanted to get hitched to or vice versa. It makes me smile that there are still folks out there connecting like that.

[dodgypirate]

Things like this happen sometimes, just like when you spill your ex's name instead of your current gf.

Don't look too much into it.

[godfatherfan]

Sure, if you have been together a while. It is a natural slip.

[kambo_trick3y]

How long have you two been together?

[Ananchor]

Half a year

[kambo_trick3y]

Too soon.

He doesn't know the meaning of that word or the weight behind it.

[Ananchor]

We've both had very serious relationships
I was engaged before
He was serious and going to have a baby with his ex (until he figured out she lied and tried to trap him then she aborted it in an effort to try and make up for her trick and make him stay)
So we've both know what we don't want and we work well together.

[kambo_trick3y]

I have no doubt you both are incredibly mature and experienced, that much I wasn't implying.

However, there's something to be said about knowing the deeper aspects of each other. THAT is the hard part.

Half a year is too soon to know how long they will hold on when things get really tough. Lotta exploration into each other's personality through the tough times that you guys have to experience.

[Ananchor]

Oh yeah I fully plan on getting to know all aspects of him, his friends, family etc. and him me. I'm just perplexed, I've never made such a massive slip of the tongue. :P

[Mesonfielde]

Soon? Not sure. At some point? Most likely :D

[Ananchor]

We've talked about it before. But always with it's or when's. but yesterday he started joking with my family about our future kids. And he's never called me anything other than girlfriend before even by accident

[Mesonfielde]

Half a year is early, but anything is possible.

[Ananchor]

We've both had serious relations in the past (over 1 year is serious in my book) so we both know what we don't want even if we are still figuring out what we do want. But neither of us has ever just been able to be with someone this easily. All the pieces fall into place

[Mesonfielde]

Good! I hope for the best and that it will stay that way. :)

[mandira]

aww that's so cute lol.

[Ferruccio77]

Yep.. thats cute. Can u explain how it happened. Why didn't you gave us a script

[Ananchor]

I said I was scared to meet his mentor because I wanted him to like me
And he said
You can't be scared you're a navy wife...
Then he got lobster red and had this insanely massive and stupid grin on his face

[NoblesseOblige]

Of course not.

[Ananchor]

Such a butthead! :P

[NoblesseOblige]

lol you know it's true.

[zombiebabe]

seems like yes

[Anonymous]

Seems intentional

[Ananchor]

Nah he looked like he was gonna poop!

[Opinion Owner]

well now he has to marry you

[Ananchor]

Actually when he forgot I was in the shower with him and I saw him blow his nose into his hand and wash it off that's what he said :P

[Opinion Owner]

oh my