He wants me to meet his friends but I don't want to hangout with his friends?

[cassidy001]

I've been texting this guy I like a lot and he's been flirting with me. He asked me if I could hang out with him and some of his friends. The thing is though that I know who his friends are but I don't really want to hang out with them. They're pretty much bad boys and their girlfriends are super intimidating. Should I get over it and go for him or ask to hangout another day just me and him? Guys and girls opinions (:

get over it and meet his friends

ask him to hangout just you and him another day

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[Ihav2fart]

That is perfectly fine so long as you do not require him to hang out with yours. I personally like to separate my love life from my friend life, but do not mind if they mix either. I feel like you're just intimidated by his friends. If that is the case get over it. You probably will NOT get along with all of them but not everyone is there to hurt you. If you do not like his friends then I really do not think it will work with the guy himself.

[drb125]

I say just meet them and see how it goes. If it doesn't work out well then you don't have to hang out with them again and can reevaluate your relationship with said guy later.

[LittleSally]

It's the ultimate test to see if you can be his girlfriend. If you get along nicely with his friends, you're definitely IN. Also... if they think you're hot you're even more IN than usual...
Personality and looks approved by his mates is a golden ticket...
If you blow it... he might still text you and maybe hook up, but he'll never really be with you officially. This is how guys operate.

[AnnDZ]

Hmm, I don't know... you may be surprised and may like a few of his friends and possibly some of their girlfriends. And you don't have to buddy-buddy with all of them because it's just not realistic :) I find it somewhat impossible to spend time with someone and not meet the "other half" of his or her life.

[hottchristity]

Talk to him about it so u give to him straight because I been through this before and its kinda embarrassing but I went with just too try it and his friends were being like horny dogs on a summer day and I couldn't take it so I walk out ohhh it was fucking stupid and dumb move ):

[madhatters4]

i think your reasoning is fine.

something to keep in mind though. there is a saying "you are the company you keep". if he surrounds himself with "bad boys" he too may be a bad boy... just something to be on the look out for

[northernligths]

I think you should do what you are comfortable doing. Just tell him you prefer to hand out with him... ALONE. Get to know him an to be comfortable around him. He won't say no. He can hang with you then go chill with his friends or vice versa.

[BEatenyou]

You should do what makes you feel comfortable. Slowly work your way to it, but dont wait too long. I made that mistake and it made it weird after me and my ex where together for almost 8 months and I had never hanged or partied with them.

[QueenRussia]

You could meet them shortly and then leave with him maybe? Or just spend like half an hour with them and say you have to leave.

Don't do stuff that makes you uncomfortable!

[TheOneAndOnlyBart]

You shouldn't be forced to hang out with people you don't like. If you don't want to, don't do it and tell him you'd rather hang out with him alone.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Do whatever your comfortable with, you don't need to do something that will make you upset etc.

[Skittles_lover]

Maybe ask if you can start off with one of his friends and that friend's gf?

[RichardBoehner]

Girls get intimidated by other girls? I guess it depends on whether you want his nuts or not

[Anonymous]

If you can't get along with his friends, there's probably no future with him... if we have to put up with your friends, you should be able to put up with his

[jacquesvol]

Try it once. You'll know what stance to take for the future.

[Execu]

I would try to single him out for a date.

[bananaman57]

Ask him for a "me and you" day.

[TheCanuck]

Just say no, and leave it at that.