I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months. I love him.
I have a male friend who I’ve known for years before I met my boyfriend. Every few weeks we hang out.
I wanted my boyfriend to meet him but my boyfriend said he doesn’t want to meet up with him as it would feel uncomfortable ( but he’s happy to meet my female friends). I don’t know why it would be though, do you think he’s jealous? I wanted them both to meet but I guess if he doesn’t want to I can’t force it
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Sounds like he is a bit insecure about the relationship you have with the guy. It is his decision whether you think it is right or wrong though. He doesn't have to meet people he doesn't want to meet. I guess feel fortunate that he doesn't have a problem with this friend and isn't saying he doesn't want you to hang out with him anymore. I would just let it go as long as it isn't causing major problems. Maybe down the road he might change his mind. I can think of a lot of reasons how this whole scenario could be a lot worse for you two. I just believe he is insecure about something. Don't push or you might cause problems.
yes it seems to happen in every relationship at least it does mine anyway I know more girls than I know guys or I hang out with more girls than I do guys.
and I can honestly say we're just friends but the moment I get into a relationship the person that I start dating wants me to kind of stop seeing all my friends I really don't believe in that.
but of course try not to make waves and try to make it work both ways but it's hard to do sometimes
but I do like your question because it just made me realize the next time I do get into a relationship I think that's one of the first things that I will say so they understand at the same time I understand LOL it can all work out just because you have friends doesn't mean that you're having sex with them
First of all this isn’t really about being insecure when men have issues w girls having a best friend who is a male. A lot of women will say he’s insecure. It’s just that men know how other men operate because we operate the same way. This is knowing how other men act when they like a girl, that chances are he’s going to try to sleep w her, play the part of a good friend like a little weasel. Because in all honesty a lot of men befriend cute women in hopes of getting w her sexually or as more than just friends. So he’d rather not deal w that. More the. Likely he doesn’t want you hanging out w this “friend.” But he won’t say it because chances are it’ll turn into an argument.