Girlfriend is "liking" a bunch of guys with shirtless pictures on Instagram. Should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

She is "liking" a bunch of guys' pictures on instagram. The pictures are of guys who are ripped and posing for a selfie. Is this something I should be worried about?

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Can you all look at the question I gave femmememe? Thanks :)

[chocolatedragon]

Would she have to be worried about you if you were liking pictures of girls with nice butt/boobs on Instagram? If not then no, you don't need to worry. She probably just appreciates the male fit body.

[ElHenaut]

Yes you should be worried she is not a loyal woman if she does that.

[Anonymous]

Lol I get like this when my bf does this but not just with bikini pics like any pic of a girl will make me mad but then I realize I'm being silly and probably have nothing to worry about

[ami04]

If the guys are in your local area, maybe. If the guys are all over the place, usually not. Girls do enjoy seeing attractive men like men enjoy seeing attractive girls

[Asker]

I think they're just random guys. Although she just made an instagram account and wanted followers. So she had been posting kinda hot selfies which made me mad. But I don't want to look insecure

[ami04]

Sounds like she just wants a confidence boost to me. And as I said, we still like seeing hot guys even if we're taken. I've been married for over 5 years and both of our eyes still work ;-)

[Asker]

Okay sounds fair :)

[femmeme]

No... she's simply admiring his hard work. Is she not allowed to find other men attractive? That's ridiculous. I'm sure you find other women attractive as well.

[ElHenaut]

Of course girls will find other men attractive, but when you're in a relationship it is disrespectful to be that open about it. Liking guy's shirtless pics is the same as checking out a guy while she is on a date with her man. This Asker should definitely be worried.

[femmeme]

I'm guessing you disliked my comment.

[femmeme]

Asker, stop being insecure. It's nothing to worry about. If she's not fucking any guy, it's not your business or your problem. I'd rather my boyfriend be open about it than hide it from me. That's when you should be suspicious and it's an issue.

[Asker]

No I didn't downvote you I up voted you. Was probably the elhaunut guy

[femmeme]

That's what I meant. If you like it that much, you'll give me MHO lol.

[Asker]

What if she's liking random pictures of this certain guy... who is also random. And he keeps liking hers. Although our conversations always show nothing's wrong w our relationship

[Asker]

Is it better not to bring it up? So I don't sound insecure?

[femmeme]

Listen, dude, my bf is on Instagram all the time liking these super model chicks with huge ass tits and tiny waists and six packs, and do you really think that makes me feel the greatest? No. But at the end of the day, I know he's coming home to see ME and we're going to have the best, most awesomest sex ever and I'm going to give him the best head in the world and he won't even be thinking about those girls. If you're girl's with you, she obviously finds you attractive. I don't suggest bringing it up, because what's the point? Even if she stops liking these guys, she's still going to think they're hot. She's just validating that they're hot through a like. You're over thinking it.

[Desiderata]

Haha no, it may be disrespectful to you, but it's not something worry about (:

[Anonymous]

My girl does this.. makes me so jealous lol I HATE IT.