Hmmmmm...
I doubt she has self respect. . .
And she told you all of this herself? As in she's proud of it? What for?
Oh man... and you can't forget about this and it's affecting your sex life? I think you'r moral values are getting in the way of you sleeping with her again after the things she told you.
She isn't done 'partying' and sleeping around with different people, while you obviously have a problem with this. If she said she would do this again then she's obviously been thinking about it... A LOT.
Talk to her about your feelings and about how you feel about the whole situation. How it's affecting you - physically and mentally. Try to not attack her, just simply explain yourself. See if she can make it better somehow - with something she says. Although, if she says she's proud of it, would do it again (if she says this again) theeeeeen... you're probably not going to feel any better but worse.
It's a gamble, but you have to try and talk your feelings out. And soon.
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she shouldn't have told you. now its made you insecure and jealous. that's why you don't bring up old partners in detail. your not one of the girls, ur her bf and she shouldn't have let you hear that.
however her past is her past. why try to make her feel bad for it? did she hurt anyone or is it something you just don't want to think about? im sure she could judge a girl you've slept with too
If this is bothering so much it's probably time to end the relationship, you guys obviously have VERY different values and because of that will likely have a really hard time making things work.
Also, if she did that once she has or likely will continue to do it in the future, when she travels she apparently abandons all her principals something to think about.
She shouldn't be talking to you about her past like that. That is most likely what your real problem is, and not the age of the guy. I don't think there should be a problem with her being with an older guy. There are lots of 40 year old people that are really hot. She does need to learn to keep her mouth shut about her past.
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You should have ended this relationship long ago.
haha so did she say he was good?
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