Gut Feeling or just false hope?

[Anonymous]

hey guys, so my bf (ex) broke up 3months ago (he did the breaking up), even when we were dating i knew we were gonna break up but i was still enjoying the relationship? if thats weird anyway

i always had this feeling (even when i was with him) like i know we'll break up but we'll end up together in the future, when we're both ready for relationship and stable with our lives.

i still miss him.
is this false hope or gut feeling?
(i hope i dont sound like a bitch)

[HotdogPanda]

Here is some Friendly advice. Remember players are sometimes the most sweetest guys around, but behind that curtain there is a bad side about them. You got to get to know them better!!

Those guys who don't really show interest or play the role of being the one who the women chase after... please don't go after them. Let guys work for you, try to win your heart, try to win your affection.

If you find a sniff of him flirting, texting, calling, messaging, or meeting up with other girls. Trust me his not worth it!! Don't even try to forgive him...

Find someone who will only love you and only you. But don't be overprotective guys hate that :), just let him know that you should be the only girl in his life!!!
I know this cause my room mates are players and they broke many hearts before, and I dont want to see another broken girls heart again.

Now Plzzzz somebody answer my question hahahah xD
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1129389-girls-please-explain-to-me-about-shy-girls-i-mean-really-shy-ones

[Asker]

do you think my ex was cheating on me? how do you think so?

[HotdogPanda]

Sorry I can't answer that question... cause personally I don't even know who he is and story of your love life, all I can say is be careful of some men. Especially those who have gone through multiple relationships in a month... this guys are certaintly not willing loyal Boyfriends. Or it could be the girls fault for not... well being a loving girlfriend. Oh yes! I forgot! Some men like the thrill of dating and flirting with multiple girls... Its like a drug to them.

[HotdogPanda]

im sorry I didn't mean a month. What I meant was a few months or a year...

[coop5]

I have actually been in this situation before and yes you can still end up together. Sometimes things do get chaotic enough to where we can't find a balance and have to focus on ourselves. That's why it's so vital to end relationships as civil as possible.

[Asker]

yeah thats what i thought. we had a very civilised breakup. we ended on a really good note. like we were still touchy and even kissed each other when we were breaking up? he also started crying (which to me were real tears cause he was trying to hide it). a month after we met up for lunch to catch up.

no idea what he's doing now but yeah mhmm

[Anonymous]

I had that feeling with my boyfriend we knew that we were too different to last and it took me months to realise that we're not getting back together so I'm sorry, in my experience if it feels like that it most likely won't happen, however I hope your outcome is different :)

[Asker]

sorry to hear that for you