My boyfriend had a hard on in the car without me even touching him.. how is this possible?

[Anonymous]

I hadn't seen my boyfriend since last weekend and we were driving to a friends place an hour or so away. We were just talking then he grabbed my hand and placed it on his pants then got this huge grin on his face. He clearly had a hard on.

I literally hadn't said or done anything sexually that I'm aware of so how come this happened? We hadn't kissed prior to this either. He is 25 years old and very experienced with sex as well. Guys... explain. I took it as a compliment.

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And it continues.. today he requested a sexy picture text while he is at work. I sent him a topless one and he responded back saying he got a 90% percenter. Apparently he is very attracted to me!

[Paris13]

I have a husband out in Egypt whom I haven't been with for nearly 2 years now. Just a lot of problems lately out in the Middle East, my own small ones here in the USA, and with this----Skype became our one and only way For Everything 'Sexually.' And it has worked for us.
Just the sound of my voice, the way I look, what I might say or how I might even act, he Instantly gets it going and Gets a 'Hard on.' And it's flattering to me to know that I still have what it takes over on the other side of the God's creation to get him Excited and Aroused.
It's the same way with you, being close at home, even sitting in the front seat of his car as he is driving. He takes one look at one, can smell your sweet perfume, sees how Amazing you look, how sexy you most likely are to him and he 'Instantly'--------Got this huge grin on his face.
Yes, feel 'Complimented,' take all the whirling of his words when you can get it. It's When they stop looking and Start 'Looking' at something else, that you will be asking: How did this happen?
Good luck, good work. xx

[LastGirlScout]

He's obviously been thinking about you as you've been driving... it's perfectly normal and you should be taking it as a compliment.

[misscoffeehead]

Haha when i had a bf i teased him in the car, he couldn't take it anymore and we had to have a quicky.. I won 😏

[broadsword]

Most red blooded men can get a hard on just thinking about sex. it's normal and natural. If he is a simular age to you then he is in his sexual prime and ready to mate at the drop of a hat. This is totally natural it's just we try to suppress it sex drive is a huge part of a guys make up but very seldom discussed.

[Asker]

Gotcha. I just thought as a guy you need some sort of stimulation to get you going like touching or whatever. However, I guess I never really have to try hard and he is hard as a rock. It makes me feel good knowing that I turn him on easily but then again he may not be too difficult to turn on in general according to all of the guys' responses here.

[broadsword]

If we are horny enough and not had anything for just a few days just a thought can be enough. This can actually be very embarrassing sometimes. You are think the right way though take it as a compliment. Also play with mind and use it. It can be a massive turn on for both the guy and girl to see if she can turn him on just by looking at him or showing a little of her body deliberately. It's the age old little tease thing. Can be great fun to see if you can go with out touching for a bit.

[Asker]

Hmm very interesting. I may try this when I see him this weekend by just being flirty and suggestive without actually touching him. I'll see how much it takes before he can't take it anymore.

[broadsword]

This also why a guy likes to see his woman strip if you are confident enough try this sit him in a chair in his shorts or pants. Tell him he must stay their and cannot move from the seat. Then keeping eye contact see how many clothes you have to remove before you are rewarded with a full boner. I bet you it won't be many:) It can be very empowering and confident building for a woman. Please make sure you reward him in the end though.

[Asker]

I definitely have no problem doing that but may have a hard time staying focused and serious. I will give that a try the next time we have the whole house to ourselves when his roommate is gone.

[broadsword]

Um yes best done without room mates :):):)
If you would like to ask anything else any time just message me.
The house being empty next time.

[broadsword]

Should be enjoy at the beginning of the last line

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Erections without touching a guy is very common to happen
a guy can see his girlfriend and get erection, it can be her
clothing , her make-up hair , it just happens. I tell you a old
saying all a guy got do see a girl wearing skirt and he pops
a boner

[cagefighter1568]

What to know the secret? Ok here it is!

He has a thing called a penis.

That's it. That's all. Shit, air has blown in the right direction and mine has gotten hard. Its gotten hard at church or when working out. It just happens. But you should take it as a compliment that he pointed it out. Means he probably got it from thinking about you.

[Mesonfielde]

Well of course. All you need to do in order to achieve that is think about possible sexual activity that arouses you. It really isn't hard. (Okay, okay, it is, but not like tha- seriously that is the worst possible pun ever.)

[Mesonfielde]

It is not that complicated nor difficult, and doesn't take a lot of effort either.

[stevie123]

He was excited at the thought of being with you.
He doesn't need contact to get aroused around you.
You must be hot, your guy gets hard without you even kissing him.
Take that as a compliment.
I like that he shows you what you did to him.

[MadeInAmerica]

It doesn't take much for us guys really especially a girlfriend. I don't have to touch my gf either sometimes not even look at her. I daydream about her at work and get turned on.

[BertMacklinFBI]

could've just been a NRB or he's just that turned on by you or maybe he had some thoughts and that got the blood flowing:P

[MothMonsterMan]

Well at least you took it as a compliment. I get hard just looking at my girlfriend. So, it's probably the same for him too. :)

[syd48]

He was thinking about something sexual. That's all it takes.

[allaroundguy]

Take it as a Compliment. The thought of you turns him on. Smile

[akadatank44]

Its from driving. Bumps in the road I think. A lot of guys get boners while driving. Google it.

[Asker]

Well i was the one driving us and we were on the interstate so it was smooth with no bumps. The road was recently redone but maybe it was somehow the case. I have no idea.

[akadatank44]

Its from the vibrations the car makes while driving not bumps sorry. Smoother roads are probably what caused it. They probably have a more consistent vibration pattern then a rough road.

[Jager66]

Erections happen all the time for many reasons, the body even has them just to circulate blood to keep things healthy for example.

[neoagent1]

He may have been thinking about all the sex you two were going to have at the friend's place possibly.

[Anonymous]

Now you're starting to understand the male gender, yes?

[Asker]

Haha yes this has been interesting hearing responses on this topic..

[Anonymous]

he was probably imagining stuff with you. Take it as a compliment, he thinks you're sexy!

[carnix]

thought.

feeling.

anticipation...

it's basic male physiology.

[Anonymous]

I get a hard-on every time I talk to my girlfriend on the phone or over text, and we never talk about anything sexual.

[ButterflyXkisses]

Maybe he had to pee really really badly

[beastman88]

guys get hard ons?