Ladies... is it normal my girlfriend has no girlfriends,, only guy friends?

[Anonymous]

The question says it all she's small petite blonde... with no girlfriends, only guy friends.. that normal?

[cobrar97]

Not really, but there's a couple ways I've seen this...
One is that she enjoys the attention of men. This is the most common case, and generally NOT a good thing. If she's flirting with them, doing things with them, etc, etc... that's reason for concern... unless you don't care and are open to her engaging with other men like this.
Then there's the second way, which is a good thing. Some girls just don't get along with other women well. They don't like the common back stabbing, caddyness, etc. Because of that, they tend to relate better to men who are more direct, get it off your chest type of personalities. This doesn't mean she's flirting or interested in other men... just that her personality causes her to prefer dealing with men. Often, women like this are also into more man-type things... shoot, hunting, cars, home repairs, etc.
One way makes for a horrible girlfriend or wife, while the later makes for an amazing girlfriend or wife.
Wonder which you have? Good luck.

[Asker]

Thanks for the input. Yeah, she's about 20% like the first type and 80% the latter. Only known her for 2 years.. but had ZERO background on her (Other that what she's told me) as she's from another town. I actually saw her flirt with one of my friends right in front of me,... but she totally denied it of course. She does seem to need male attention.. in social events, she will always gravitate towards the duded. If I go off to smoke a cigar for example, when I get back she'll be chatting with a dude.

[cobrar97]

Understood. Now I don't know her or you, but that would always make me a little uncomfortable. But it's probably more about what's ok with YOU. If she's loyal and a good woman, it might not be a big deal to you. If it makes you uncomfortable, you don't want to live your life that way. I couldn't do that to myself.

[VulcanHades]

Most of the time a girl with many guy friends is insecure about her love life. She keeps a lot of guys around because they are plan B, C, D, E and F. She will typically only be friends with guys that she finds sexually attractive and she will have many fuckfriends and friends with advantages. She doesn't really care about serious relationships, she just wants to make sure she can have a dick when she needs one.

They are pretty unstable, compulsive and bi-polar. Often of the tomboy or hipster kind and they are likely into art, punk/metal music and video games. Which explains why a lot of guys want to be friend with her.

I have met many of these crazy women in my life and they should be avoided lol. They are not worth being emotionally invested. They aren't loyal friends and they don't make good wives or mothers.

[hanscuit]

I dont see the issue too much. I mainly have only guy friends, while I do have like 2 girl friends i just feel like girls bring too much drama and then again i dont have much in common with girls. Girls love hair, makeup, fashion, boys, chickflicks, romance and lovedovey stuff. Im not into all of that, I do like boys, and fashion can be nice, I dont think dating is for me just yet, I dont like romance i really feel like its overrated and i dont wanna talk about hair, makeup and dating i want to talk about killing stuff, and video games, and action movies, im girly but tomboyish at the same time. And im not like "NO I MUST NOT TALK TO GIRLS" i try but it doesn't work out because we barely have anything in common.. So i can relate to this some, but describe her personality.

[Prettygurl12]

Eh... depends. I have mostly guy friends but I have girl friends too. But mostly guy friends and a lot of times the girls can't make it and it'll just be me and about 9 guys hanging out. It's whatever. My boyfriend wasn't thrilled but then he met the guys and was fine with it.

My mom, back in college had a group of 12 guy friends. 11 of them asked her out. The 12th was gay. She never said yes to any of them.

I suppose it depends on what type of girl she is.

[Skittles_lover]

Yes. Females are so annoying, and petty at times. I do have at least one good female friend, but if I hadn't met her I would have only guy friends. Men are just sooo much more laid back.

[elman123]

thanks :)

[Skittles_lover]

@elman123 you're welcome =)

[kelly173815]

She could just relate to guys better? All my girlfriend's are the ones I've known since school, but my closest Friends besides them have been all guys, as they tend to be easier to meet in the real world, and I get along with them really well

[dancingqueen87]

You just described me. Like legit im only friends with guys. And thats okay. Girls are far to bitchy for my liking

[Anonymous]

I don't know what her looks have to do with that, but most girls have female friends. Some have more male friends or go better along with them. Talk to her.

[dthdhdghadh]

It's supposed to be a slut indicator, not sure what to make of it.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the kinda woman she is. For some women, that's a bad sign, for others it's nothing to worry about.

[bubbletrouble]

I don't think it is but she could be keeping them around for potential bfs.

[Anonymous]

No. Find out why.
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