+1 yIt takes one to know one aboutthis.
It’s bad if you l let it get to you. It’s easier said than done I know but focus on getting your validation out of life not women. If any of your “friends” gives you shit about this they are not a true friend anyway. I personally started tightening my circle after 30 and much more after 35. It feels isolating and shitty sometimes. But self respect takes precedence. Always it’s the most important thing.
Your true friends will respect you single or not.00 Reply
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yDo you like baseball? Pitcher Jon Lester was a young hurler for the Red Sox. He was in a car accident and hurt his back. While examining him the found he had cancer. That accident might have saved his life. So was the accident a bad thing?
No you're not in a relationship and that can be lonely and make you feel like the odd man out with all your attached friends. But it's only because your looking at the positive side. You don't have to take a partners feelings into consideration. And the unpredictability that comes with it.10 Reply
+1 yThat's not bad at all. How can that be a bad thing? Just because everyone else is dating that doesn't make you a loser or less of a man just because you don't have a girlfriend. Don't force anything. The right one will show up at the right time. Until then enjoy life to the max.
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+1 yAwww... just take your time! Its not a race, just remember to be you and the rest should follow ok.
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Aww thanks have a great night ❤
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Dont listen to the "be yourself" advice man. Its bullshit feel-good advice that means nothing. "Being yourself" only works if you're a guy that's naturally confident, outgoing, masculine, etc. If thats you, then of course, keep being you. But if you're someone that's shy, nervous, anxious, has more feminine energy/vibe, insecure, etc, then being yourself is the worst thing you can do.
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+1 yNo its not bad at all. I was that friend once who friends all had girlfriend ls and boyfriends before me and there's no point rushing in a relationship purely based on the fact but your the odd one out in your friendship group. You should be in a relationship with someone because you have a connection and like each other not because all your friends are in relationships. Plus just because you see your friends in relationships doesn't mean there life is better than yours, you don't know whats always going on behind close doors in a relationship.
10 ReplyNo of course it’s not bad, don’t rush into it and go looking for someone or it’ll never come and so don’t worry about it, you’ll be fine x
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1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Why is that bad? You are you and your friends are your friends. You don't have to do or have something just because they're doing or they have that something.
Remember that you're an individual and being a single male is not the biggest problem that you can have.
Plus real friendships have nothing to do with romantic relationships.00 Reply
+1 yThere is absolutely nothing wrong with it. So what if your friends all have girlfriends? Just don't care. There are thousands if not millions of people in the world who are single. The right one eventually comes and for you, it is just not at this moment yet.
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+1 yIt happens to everyone differently. It's hard to find someone. I am 31 and most of my friends are married with kids so you are not alone
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Yeah why don't you guys become friends so both would have someone to show for, I don't have any body either but it's by choice so I am chill about it 🙂
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+1 yWell, the difference here is your friends want a piece of ass, you want a heart.
Guaranteed, a few years down the line, your friends will be single or onto another girl, and you'll be there with the same girl. It all starts when you hit 30 for men that's when they get desperate.00 Reply - 887 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yI'm right there with you, been single all my life, it sucks. You know what it's like when even the females you know are trying to set you up on dates but the girls they are trying to set you up with would rather do anything else, you know how awkward a room gets after they realize you over heard one of them asking what's wrong with you that and discussing it? This is how my life is. So I totally understand you, surrounded by every friend being in a relationship and having kids.
00 Reply No it’s not bad. Half your friends relationships probably won’t last anyways unless they are very serious and marriage and a family future is in their plans.
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+1 yIt Is completely okay n I see no evil in that. They might have girlfriends since tney have found connection in them or something else.
And you have no girlfriend since it is not yet the time for you as a person;and you are not okay with it you can try dating out too.00 Reply 2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. No. Watch this video
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+1 yYeah it's bad. You will die young if you don't settle down and find a decent companion. Humans need love.
00 Reply Well you can make fun of their girlfriends and stuff since they can't use that against you. I do that with my taken friends.
00 ReplyIt's not bad. Other than getting ragged on once in awhile, don't force it. Take things at your own pace, no use doing something if you're not into it
00 Replyit's good to have a lot of friends that are girls, nothing wrong with that if anything that means you are a people person.
10 ReplyIt's worse to get a girlfriend just because all your friends have one. Find someone to complement your life because you want to enrich your life for you. Don't let others control your life.
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+1 yNot bad at all, unless you're sad about not having a girlfriend. If you're satisfied being the way you are then just enjoy. There's no need to compare yourself with your friends.
00 Reply I have been in your situation for most of my life.
Expect the girlfriends of your friends to try to set you up with their ugly friends.00 Reply
+1 yHell no enjoy and love your freedom while you can because ones you fall in love you become stupid and blind lol ⊙▽⊙
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yDo you feel like the third wheel? Is that why you want one? Have you ever had one? Try using dating apps. I’m going back to use dating apps to find someone.
00 ReplyNo, you just aren't in a relationship and thats fine. No rush.
00 ReplyIt's not bad sir, it maybe because you are waiting for the right girl, which means the girlfriend you will have maybe your life partner.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI'm one of the few virgin relationshipless girls in my friend group but I'm still friend with them. Just enjoy their company if you do enjoy it. Don't compare yourself to them because of this.
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+1 yMaybe it's a signal from the Universe that you are meant to be catching dicks.
00 Reply Friends drop drop friends because of shit like that. It’s no big deal. I’m the only single guy in my group. Some of us have been friends for 20 years.
01 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not bad at all. But very very annoying. Especially when they ask you that question hundreds of times. I'm single still today, I'm annoyed about it myself.
00 ReplyThat's totally normal.
I would say enjoy your bachelor time until you find someone.
Don't rush or force things. You will definitely find someone.
Enjoy life!10 Reply
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yAsk them for advice or to match you up with someone.
I'm sure one of their girlfreind have a single freind.02 Reply- +1 y
They try but I always get rejected and if I try I still get rejected.
Opinion Owner+1 yWell ask them why they think your always rejected.
Rejection is normal and going to happen but often there is a reason your not aware of.
+1 yRelax... Its not bad.
Do activities outside your house.00 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. It may not be within your fate to find a girlfriend. I can see myself there in 5-6 years.
00 ReplyNope. Not at all.
And don't just get a girlfriend to "fit in." Really.10 Reply
+1 yNO! Stay single and hit the pussy buffet. Show your friends their mistake.
00 ReplyIt really doesn't matter and no it doesn't make you bad
00 ReplyNot at all. Don't rush to find a girlfriend, this isn't a race or competition. So take your time. Don't date just anyone just to show off. You need to date someone you truly love.
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+1 yHeck no. Your female friends undoubtedly have single female friends you can hit on, right?
00 Reply 19.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. It’s not that easy to have a girlfriend it requires a lot more than just being Attractive
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+1 yTotally bad. What kind of horrible, disgusting man would remain single while his friends are dating?
00 Replyfocus on making a animated cartoon instead and give me some entertainment
girls are waste of time00 Reply790 opinions shared on Dating topic. Not really, I've been "that guy" my whole life, it hurts especially if you've never dated anyone before
00 Reply1K opinions shared on Dating topic. You're not missing much. Relationships are overrated
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+1 yMaybe one of the other girls could help
You meet a girl friend with their help00 Reply
+1 yIt’s bad if you think anyone cares.
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+1 yHonestly it's not a bad thing. Maybe your waiting for the right one not everyone can just be in a relationship it means more to them
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That makes no sense
Well am in the same situation so I know how it feels but I think you should just approach girls often go out and you'll get one soon
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+1 yNo I know you might feel a bit lonely but no in short. But if all your friends are having a couple night out then maybe kind of leave them that’s all.
00 ReplyNothing bad about ! Being single is ok ! You have no problem don’t worry.
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+1 yNo its not bad relationship are shtis if you can't handel them properly
00 ReplyNo I’ve been single the last few years
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Get new friends or get a girlfriend
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+1 ythat's called life, dont worry about it
00 Reply 347 opinions shared on Dating topic. Ya. That means you're the weakest link.
10 ReplyIts a requirement only if thats how you make it.
00 ReplyJust be a third threesome with them all
00 Reply14.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. what would be bad about htis?
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+1 ySomeone's gotta be the ugly one in the group
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+1 yThere’s nothing wrong with that
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+1 yyour not alone my friend :(
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yMaybe you're retarded.
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Why am I retarded last time I checked I out smart my own best friend and he has a high IQ
Opinion Owner+1 yI'm not saying he's retarded because he doesn't have a girlfriend. His question is just so STUPID. I mean, who would say "HELP" I can't get a girlfriend. So, that's being retarded in opinion.
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@devilman666 THANK YOU!!!
Opinion Owner+1 y@Darcia Retarted as profoundly stupid, not as an individual with a cognitive impairment. Stop it with this fake hypocrisy.
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Person makes themselves anonymous and calls someone stupid words... goes to show @anonymous is a gutless fool who is mad about their own life.
+1 yNot bad at all, its normal
00 Reply4.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope.
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+1 yWelcome to my life.
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