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It’s bad if you l let it get to you. It’s easier said than done I know but focus on getting your validation out of life not women. If any of your “friends” gives you shit about this they are not a true friend anyway. I personally started tightening my circle after 30 and much more after 35. It feels isolating and shitty sometimes. But self respect takes precedence. Always it’s the most important thing.
Your true friends will respect you single or not.
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No you're not in a relationship and that can be lonely and make you feel like the odd man out with all your attached friends. But it's only because your looking at the positive side. You don't have to take a partners feelings into consideration. And the unpredictability that comes with it.
That's not bad at all. How can that be a bad thing? Just because everyone else is dating that doesn't make you a loser or less of a man just because you don't have a girlfriend. Don't force anything. The right one will show up at the right time. Until then enjoy life to the max.
Awww... just take your time! Its not a race, just remember to be you and the rest should follow ok.
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No its not bad at all. I was that friend once who friends all had girlfriend ls and boyfriends before me and there's no point rushing in a relationship purely based on the fact but your the odd one out in your friendship group. You should be in a relationship with someone because you have a connection and like each other not because all your friends are in relationships. Plus just because you see your friends in relationships doesn't mean there life is better than yours, you don't know whats always going on behind close doors in a relationship.
No of course it’s not bad, don’t rush into it and go looking for someone or it’ll never come and so don’t worry about it, you’ll be fine x
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Why is that bad? You are you and your friends are your friends. You don't have to do or have something just because they're doing or they have that something.
Remember that you're an individual and being a single male is not the biggest problem that you can have.
Plus real friendships have nothing to do with romantic relationships. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. So what if your friends all have girlfriends? Just don't care. There are thousands if not millions of people in the world who are single. The right one eventually comes and for you, it is just not at this moment yet.
It happens to everyone differently. It's hard to find someone. I am 31 and most of my friends are married with kids so you are not alone
Well, the difference here is your friends want a piece of ass, you want a heart.
Guaranteed, a few years down the line, your friends will be single or onto another girl, and you'll be there with the same girl. It all starts when you hit 30 for men that's when they get desperate.I'm right there with you, been single all my life, it sucks. You know what it's like when even the females you know are trying to set you up on dates but the girls they are trying to set you up with would rather do anything else, you know how awkward a room gets after they realize you over heard one of them asking what's wrong with you that and discussing it? This is how my life is. So I totally understand you, surrounded by every friend being in a relationship and having kids.
No it’s not bad. Half your friends relationships probably won’t last anyways unless they are very serious and marriage and a family future is in their plans.
It Is completely okay n I see no evil in that. They might have girlfriends since tney have found connection in them or something else.
And you have no girlfriend since it is not yet the time for you as a person;and you are not okay with it you can try dating out too.No. Watch this video
https://youtu.be/EMZOuaK_drkYeah it's bad. You will die young if you don't settle down and find a decent companion. Humans need love.
Well you can make fun of their girlfriends and stuff since they can't use that against you. I do that with my taken friends.
It's not bad. Other than getting ragged on once in awhile, don't force it. Take things at your own pace, no use doing something if you're not into it
it's good to have a lot of friends that are girls, nothing wrong with that if anything that means you are a people person.
It's worse to get a girlfriend just because all your friends have one. Find someone to complement your life because you want to enrich your life for you. Don't let others control your life.
Not bad at all, unless you're sad about not having a girlfriend. If you're satisfied being the way you are then just enjoy. There's no need to compare yourself with your friends.
I have been in your situation for most of my life.
Expect the girlfriends of your friends to try to set you up with their ugly friends.Hell no enjoy and love your freedom while you can because ones you fall in love you become stupid and blind lol ⊙▽⊙
Do you feel like the third wheel? Is that why you want one? Have you ever had one? Try using dating apps. I’m going back to use dating apps to find someone.
No, you just aren't in a relationship and thats fine. No rush.
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