Is it cheating if you kiss someone of the same sex? (Page 2)
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I think it's cheating. I mean, kissing is a special thing, not something you should do just cause you were pressured to do it. I don't know, maybe i'm old fashion... but i believe a kiss is a sacred thing, a representation of your love.
i myself wouldn't care actually ide think it was hot lol... but it would be considered cheating... still i doubt hell mind hell prob try and get a 3some going when you tell him or get you 2 to kiss in front of him LOL... i would :P
Yes that's cheating. You did it behind your boyfriends back and you kissed someone that isn't your partner.
It depends on the type of relationship you have. personally I would consider this cheating, even if it was with someone of the same sex, just because you are in a committed relationship with your boyfriend, so you should do things with him only.
Because you don't actually fancy girls in general I don't think it's cheating... more a drunken joke than a sexual act... Kissing a guy would have been different or if you where bisexual or lesbian...
If you're not 100% sure your partner is OK with it... it's cheating.
totally agree with this.. if you dont know then dont do it in the first place.
how would you feel if you knew he was kissing guys?
If it was isolated occurrences, just harmless fun at parties, I'd be fine with it and even find it funny. Just as long as he didn't do it all the time. Which I don't plan to.
well, there's your answer :)
Thanks, you're so nice!
you're welcome. I've been there, and done that... Same sex kisses rarely count as cheating. Its like you say, harmless fun. meant for laughs!
I've kissed my guy friends more times than I care to remember lol, just to get girls to touch each other up. its harmless.
You have nothing to worry about :)
I don’t find it cheating, if there were no boundaries set and there were no sexual intentions behind it. it should not be classified as cheating, if my girlfriend kissed another female and I was unclear about my boundaries and she did not mean it in a sexual way it shouldn’t be cheating as she didn’t know but if it was after I had set my boundaries and we both understood them, even if it was in a non sexual way it is classified cheating as she knows how I feel about it.
Basically in my opinion if you feel like you have to hide it then it's cheating, whether it's a text or a friendship or a kiss or sex. Since you don't feel the need to hide it, it's not cheating.
If the other does not know what you did then it is considered cheating, to do anything without the others acknowledgement is without any argument "cheating" or being untruthful. If i where you i would tell him unless you want him to find out from others which will lessen your credibility. If my girl did that without me knowing i would be upset, one fowl up turns into bigger fowl up's... a cheater is a cheater end of story.
I think it really depends. If you wanted to/enjoyed it then yes. If your S. O. doesn't like that and you know it, yes. If he's ok with it or it was an accident or something, then no.
First of all, how does it make u feel? Be truthful with yourself. Did kissing that girl have a sense a cheating to it?
If u feel u cheated, then u cheated. If u honestly didn't think anything of it, then it can't really be considered cheating. Cheating is planned 99.9% of the time. I'm proud that u are going to talk it over with ur man. It shows maturity on ur part. Hope things go well.
so you're saying homosexual relations don't count? pretty sure most people would disagree with you there.
a stolen kiss is a stolen kiss.
in your case though, you just have to see what your bf makes of it.
My husband wouldn't call it, if anything he would be pissed that he wasn't there lol. I'm bisexual and he's totally cool he just wants to be included.
just depends on the guy.
Well, I'd say that if I wasn't there when it all happened and y'all were drinking then YES! I'd be looking for a new girlfriend... just me, but I think that's a form of cheating be it another female or male. If he'd kissed another girl because he was dared to how would you feel about that? And "plan on telling him" you should have already had this talk with him before now. Jus sayn not judg'n
If he kissed another GUY because he was dared to, I wouldn't care. It's harmless fun. But I wouldn't kiss another guy and I don't expect him to kiss another girl.
what's the difference? I'm curious? if you're in a relationship and committed you shouldn't be taking dares to kiss or kissing ANYONE else but your significant other.
There were no feelings and no attraction. It was like kissing my mom or sister.
It's cheating in my opinion I mean if boyfriend kissed another guy how would you feel
I'd be fine lol.
Fair enough I guess you can't really go off what we say we all have different opinions I mean your boyfriend might or might not have a problem with it the only way to find out is ask him
I think it depends on whether you were emotionally connected or not. I think if it was just a fleeting one off event it wouldn't matter too much.
no, he'll be pretty upset he missed it though. prepare for a request to repeat from him! make it good lol
Yes. It is cheating of your true partner would get pissed and you have to ask if it would be cheating