He does not tell me I'm beautiful anymore.

[Anonymous]

My bf and I have been together for over 2 years. In the first year he always gave me flowers and tell me I'm beautiful (I would always reply "yeah, yeah" with a smile). We had some big fights and almost broke up around our year anniversary. But since then he will not tell me i'm beautiful anymore. He tells me I look good and that he likes my body during sex, and stuff like that but has not told me i'm beautiful. I asked him about it and he said it was because I never believed him. I asked him start telling me again several times but he has not. Do you think he no longer thinks I'm beautiful?

[Anonymous]

There's something pent up in him. Either he got tired of telling you, or he's stressed or he's still hurt from the fight.

If so you need to wease it out of him, talk to him, give him a compliment e. g. tell him you respect him.

But then, to release pent up energy there's got to be an 'explosion', maybe you could annoy him on purpose (within limits) so that he gets angry and snaps at you and you everything he's annoyed about will seep out in anger, which would help to get a weight off his chest (if there is any). And then maybe have some hot make up or rough sex (if you're into that). But be prepared your feelings may get hurt if he says something mean and dont annoy him to breaking point!

Or dont ask him if you're beautiful, show him you are beautiful. Let him watch how lovely you look in a new dress, or how your eyes twinkle in the candlelight over a romantic dinner, and then there'll be no need for you to ak

[Anonymous]

By you saying "yah yah" it seems like you don't really care and a bit conceited. . like yah I know.. dnt ask him to tell you your beautiful now you have to work for it again.. so start off by giving yourself a nice makeover like wear an outfit you know he'd love the next time you see him.. something sexy don't go overboard and look slutty. . be classy not trashy.. your going to have to bring that spark back in your relationship it's not that he doesn't think your beautiful but your careless comments have made him feel you dnt appreciate him.. so work to gain it back.. even when you message him next time say something like ok thank you handsome.. or goodnight handsome... even compliment him.. i do that to my bf and say how sexy he is to me.. how i love his beautiful smile.. and I'm sure it makes him feel good.. n he tells me I'm beautiful all the time

[Opinion Owner]

Oh and I forgot to mention I've been with him for 2yrs

[aikoroshishane]

Just because he doesn't tell you you're beautiful it means he thinks you are not pretty or attractive anymore. Same thing when he tells you i love you it doesn't mean he really do. But i'm not telling you he doesn't love you. Did you see my point here? Don't make it a big of a deal. What's important is that you know he loves you.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

What he won't do another man will. Let him catch other guys checking you out and trying to be with you. Get a makeover and look hot. Guys need to realize the same chick you're not appreciating probably has a football team full of men wishing they could take your spot

[StickStickity13]

If that's how the woman feels good riddance

[tyber1]

You should realize that men are people and people shouldn't be treated like they are replaceable.

[KAMiNoAN]

U suppress the guy own him over again :* u be good ;)

Do like some role play on him :3 make him say u are beautiful xD

Man love it <3

but don't fight over that quit the "yeah, yeah" guys don't like that is hard for us to say those things... GL ;)

[AleDeEurope]

He still thinks you're beautiful, but if you don't seem to like it when he says it, he will get tired of saying it.
"Yeah yeah" is like "yeah, whatever man >.>", I mean, it doesn't seem like you enjoyed being told you're beautiful.

[JohnnySS]

SLEEP IN separate ROOMS. AND YOUR SOCIAL FRIENDSHIP NEEDS ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE MET BY YOUR MATE, THEIR SIPPOSED TO BE MET BY YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY. YOUR FRIENDSHIP NEEDS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE MET SECONDARY TO YOUR MATES PRIMARY ROLE WHICH IS LOVER/PROTECTOR AND TEACHER/LEADER.

[JohnnySS]

id say he's still a bit angry and hurt and the issue has not been fully put to rest.

[msinvisible1]

No, he's just tired of you not seeming to appreciate it. To do it now because you ask wouldn't make him feel you truly appreciated it. Not that you didn't to begin with. You all just need a vacation and to rekindle your flame.

[ShirleyMay13]

Being called beautiful by someone you care about is more than just vanity. It makes it intimate because he thinks you as a person is beautiful. When you blow it off or deny it, it can hurt his ego. Like you destroyed some of the intimacy in the relationship. It's not that he doesn't think you are beautiful, although I can't know for sure, but he probably is hurt by being shot down. My boyfriend and I went through something similar

[Anonymous]

You can't just tell a guy to call you beautiful that just forcing it! like he said you never believed him, he probably got tired of saying it an hearing the same answer and felt like "what's the point in saying it"

[Tokana]

Why do you have this constant need to be called beautiful? What are you 10 years old. He's been with you for an over a year, it should be known by now.

[IamFler]

So after a year of being together a guy can stop putting efforts into relationship?

[Tokana]

He can other things to put effort into the relationship other than simply calling you beautiful. Like picking you up from work, buying you gifts, being there for you, etc. You don't want to oversaturize the word beautiful or else it'll lose its value

[kangy]

honey moon period is over
guys tend to be complacent
he still complimented u so it is not like he doesn't
i believe he still find u beautiful just that he doesn't see the need to keep telling u that

[melodybooboo]

Welll maybe not sometimes. Sometimes. Guys. Stop saying. Sweet stuff maybe cuz something. Is in his head my boyfriend. Is doing the same its been a month he won't touch kiss me he barly wants to c me he doesn't. Say im beautiful. No more then all of a suddely before. We made like ve he's like ur so beautiful. Hunny so maybe its a phase he's going through

[boriblanca2010]

Nahh, he may think you're still pretty maybe he lost feelings

[Mikaychay95]

He's tired of paying you the compliment and you not believing he is sincere. After a while, people are just going to stop because what's the point?

[abundantlyrich]

He lost abit of interest because of your fights with him.

[dudeman]

He thinks you dont appreciate his efforts. Kinda makes a man feel cheap. Also we dont like being told what to do.

[chrisbigman]

Are you expecting him (to tell you every day)? If so, that might be your problem. Don't expect him to say it. If he's with you, then I'm sure he still sees you as beautiful.

[Anonymous]

"Do you think he no longer thinks I'm beautiful?"

I think he knows you're insecure and doesn't want to cater to the BS.

[TheArticOrange]

That's mean!

[blackeagle007]

That is mean. Come on dude, aplogize to her. If there is anything that women will always have that guys won't? The ability to fall in love through their hearts. (Sure there's that small number of females that are highly visual) but majority of women are more into their hearts. Just a shame is guys only go by what we see. Maybe that's why I missed out on a lot?

But please dude, apologize to the asker. She don't need your crap.

[Anonymous]

Women are self centered, they never give compliments but expect themselves to be showered with them. They never appreciate it though so eventually we stop.

[TheArticOrange]

Not true.

[tyber1]

It's kinda true, at least the compliments part. You just don't notice it. I wouldn't go so far as to say all women are self-centered, but some definitely are.

[80HDx]

Very true.

[BarbieDollT]

You shouldn't look for a man to call you beautiful all the time. You should know that you're already beautiful.

[TheSpartan]

You answered your own question:

"he tells me I look good and that he likes my body during sex"

[Anonymous]

Well just saying yeah doesn't motivate much. He's think you didn't appreciate it or were too used to those compliments for his to feel special.

[Anonymous]

Cuz you're ugly as fuck

[blackeagle007]

That was rude.

[Asker]

That was extremely immature!!!