Doesn't love me anymore, but still cares about me?

[Anonymous]

What does it mean if my ex doesn't love me anymore but still cares about me?

Does it mean we will never get back together still?

[nina88]

I don't want to rain on your parade by its going to be hard since you guys are not on the same level right now. you will finish schoool in a year and he has five left.

you guys will grow into different people by the time he is finished with school. you will be a working professional and be socializing with other people who are on the same level as you are in life and he will still be in school and is probably meeting different people on his level which is most likely at school. do you kinda see how its not really a good time right now? take it for what it is. he cares about you and nothing more.

if you guys are meant to be it will happen but for now live your life and take it as it comes. see how you two are when he is done with school.

[Asker]

You don't think that's why he broke up with me do you, is because we are on different levels?

see how you two are when he is done with school, I think that's good advice.

[nina88]

That's probably a minor portion of it but you also mentioned that he doesn't love you anymore. he loves you but is just not in love with you.

[ty-lady]

It means that he does not want to date you anymore, the relationship has ended but he is "human" he still cares about you like he would anyone else that he is very close to. Best thing I can tell you is to move on and if it will ever happen again it will be no time soon. Enjoy life and don't worry about getting him back at this point, concentrate on getting to know you better. Once that happens then you will then understand your own question. Hope this helps...Much love & best wishes!

[Asker]

Well, I graduate from college in a year, but he still has 5 years. I worry that I'll never see him again and that he will forget all about me.

[ty-lady]

I understand, the nourting typical female... we worry about them and where does it get us. We all come in contact with people that we grow to care about but some people are only meant to be in your life for a season and others for a reason. We learn from everybody but we can't stop time in order to get the things we want. Love life and keep it movin, he will never forget you!