Do teen guys ever want a serious relationship?

Question

Like one that would last for a lifetime? Where you're best friends and lovers?

Galden · Accepted Answer

At 14 from what i could rember. Girls became something. I did not know why.
At 15 my first GF i found kissing fun, it drove me, but i did not know that then. But my dick was hard and i was embarrassed. But holding a girl and kissing a girl was fun.
Do you realy think a teen has any idea about a relationship? We were loaded with emotions, non stop. Every day. Just trying to deal with them drove us to thoughts of death, and romance...
And yes we dreamed of that Disney romance. Just like you, we wanted to be loved.

I gess the answer to your question is yes. The hormones were pumping into our brain. Our sex drive was in overdrive. And our emotions wanted that girl of our dreams...
Why do you think teen boys say stupid things to a girl. Our hands are full of sweat? We want you. And biology is driving us mad.
Ok best friends and lovers? No. We wanted that dream lover as a teen. When we get older and learn to deal with all those chems. pumping into our bodies then do we find out that we want to be best friends with our lover.
The sad truth is, that many men never learn this. And you girls will suffer as they go drinking with there buddies, and leave you alone with the children...

oldanddecrepid · Accepted Answer

Don't get too serious... you are still growing into your dislikes and likes... best to take your time and find a guy later on that you connect with.

You still have way to many things in your life to be tied down at this point and think it is forever.

There is still school, employment, etc., who knows where you will end up.

Most high school relationships that last over the years and end in marriage, end up divorced because peoples likes and dislikes change. Not all relationships but a good majority!

Not trying to be a downer or anything but just realistic.

Secret22 · Accepted Answer

My BF saw me in 8th grade, didn't know who I was, be he fell in love with me from the first moment he saw me. We then met for the first time freshman year and were best friends until sophomore year (that's when he asked me out). It's been two years and five months sconce then and we will be getting married. :) so yes, some teen guys want a serious lasting relationship, but they are very hard to find. I just got lucky! :3

AnayaWilliams · Accepted Answer

Who doesn't want a serious relationship? I know I do. Enjoy being a teenager while you can. I learned when I was younger that guys in there teen years don't really care much about a serious relationship. They only care about getting with girls and then breaking there hearts. They don't really make a relationship there priority. Guys like that are very hard to find.

gabbyirene · Accepted Answer

I would suggest just date without worrying about serious relationship. When you grow up, there's a higher chance you'll meet the perfect guy. For now, live your life and learn from your mistakes.

But to answer your question, some. We don't know, some relationships won't work even if the guy or girl say "We're gonna be together forever"

BubblyMaria · Accepted Answer

Yes
My ex and I began dating when we were 16 and lasted throughout high school and then some. He told me he had always wanted one girl to settle with and didn't like the idea of jumping around. He wanted to marry me. So to answer your question, yes they are out there. But be very careful. They're rare.

Voidone · Answer

Some do, some don't. Some don't even give a shit and just wanna do them. If you really want something serious wait until you're older. I'd say age 18+ there's a higher chance of that, though it kinda depends. I mean I'm kinda in one right now though I don't think I've been with her long enough to know if I want to be with her forever.

laurenvialox · Answer

It happens... but then again everything as a expiration date. Having this type of expections is not good you will miss what the universe has for you. You cannot predict other peoples behaviors. Even if you are willing to commit to someone eternally, there is no guarantee that would be reciprocated.

Jbunk · Answer

Honestly, if I were to put it on a timeline it would be like this:

13-16: (I didn't care at all)
17: (Began considering long term)
18: (I want my next relationship to be my last)

Everyone is different. I have dated enough to where I can say I know how to keep a relationship healthy so now I'm waiting for that perfect somebody, so I don't mess around with anyone I know I won't last long with.

crotzer · Answer

Yea teenage boys are definitely capable of wanting a serious relationship, I know I did. Not every guy is in it just for sex or for fun. Just because some guys do that... We all get the bad rep for it.

Now lifelong partners? That's a lot more rare but it definitely happens.

forgottenmonkey · Answer

I did, I have always been the house, picket fence, dog, kids, and a wife type. The American dream was my goal. Not anymore but at the time even when I was in high school yeah thats exactly what I wanted, but its also why I didn't date in high school because I knew I wouldn't find it.

bhawksfan1998 · Answer

I wish my crush could be with me my entire life :( go on adventures and stuff... explore the world :/

Frost_Byte · Answer

A serious, committed relationship is what i am searching for as well and I'm actually 14 (despite what my profile says)

DailyAlice · Answer

Guys my age don't even want a serious relationship. Not sure if teens would, I've never dated one. It's extremely rare these days for anything to last a year, let alone a lifetime.

MeetmeinMontauk · Answer

Well, from my experience let's say, teen guys only care about their friends. They enjoy hanging out with them and having a relationship with a girl isn't their first priority.

babu_001 · Answer

teen guys are in a state of heavy semen creation they get horny every second they don't even know what a relationship is all they know is - tits, ass, pussy.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Yeah, a bunch do, but the better looking and more popular they are, the less likely they are to want that.

Anonymous · Answer

your young enough for that gal!.. focus first on your studies and improve yourself first and set a goal.. in the right time it will come. don't be a girl. be a lady :)

Hotshott · Answer

Yea they do, at least i do nd im in a serious relationship :)

Xelebrum · Answer

Most don't but there are still plenty who do, such as myself.

MikeHunt_IsReady · Answer

Let me give you a long and detailed answer to this one, as it is a rather difficult question.. No.

Izzex3 · Answer

Yes, a lot do. .. That's how it was when I was a teen at least.

CBryan · Answer

Maturity level for most boys in their teens is around 8-10 years old. Majority of them don't understand what a "serious relationship" is yet.

Anonymous · Answer

Odd of a teen romance lasting forever are less than.01%

imjustadude · Answer

They do until they have sex and get dumped.

Grant101 · Answer

Yea I know many guys who do including myself

ilikegirl · Answer

Yes but no one likes me :/

RUMMAN444 · Answer

ya we guys we need a loyal hot gf always

Anonymous · Answer

I think nobody wants something serious before 17.

bubbletrouble · Answer

Not at your age...

JCT666 · Answer

I personally do.

elizabeth2000 · Answer

I would hope so...

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