I am single so does it mean I am ugly?

Question

I am single so it means no guy wants me right, should my life just end now i work all the time an haven't been asked out in a long while.

Am i just not meant to find love as i give up i don't flirt or talk to any guy i like now as i assume they won't, want me anyway.

I don't try impress or look good for a guy i just don't make effort anymore as no guy has even spoke to me in 2 months.

I've given up my dream of having a child an even getting married it's not meant to
Happen for everyone right?

I don't know why but love don't come my way so i don't believe in it at all. 

Guess i am meant to live an independent life

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

No, it doesn't mean that at all. You're certainly not unattractive. People can be single for numerous reasons. If you aren't making an effort yourself, that could be one reason. Men aren't mind readers. If you don't appear to be interested in someone, chances are, they won't know you're interested. Why don't you try to approach someone?

Men are always expected to approach women but I think if you really like someone, you are free to approach him also. The guy doesn't always have to make the first move. Instead of sitting around feeling sorry for yourself, get out there and make an effort! Be proactive.

Candylicious · Accepted Answer

Ma'am being single doesn't mean your "ugly"!!! That's pure bull because you are gorgeous. Maybe you're single because no one is worthy of your love yet. You just be patient, I'm pretty sure your significant other is out here in this big world somewhere. Never give up. And shoot we're women! So if you end up alone. That should be perfectly fine right? If you don't have a partner and want to have a kid there are always other options to have a child on your own.
I wish you luck in life! Its never too late to find love.
Just keep dreaming ✊

QueenJaxy · Accepted Answer

Aww girl you're breaking my heart! By that logic that means that any girl who is single is ugly and baby doll that's not true❤️ I'm single and it's a wonderful thing! Men are great and relationships are fun but they don't define you, YOU define you. Being single is what you make of it. You're beautiful and I'm sure very intelligent and there's no need to fret or fear because one day everything will fall in line but until then stay strong because a confidant woman is 1000x sexier than one with a man on her arm❤️

yourfriendforever · Accepted Answer

Even the most beautiful people are single may be bc others think they might be already taken ;)
So there's no direct relation between being attractive and committed
And you're beautiful :)
May I have your number ;p
I guess you can always wait for the best
Don't lose hope and be confident of yourself gorgeous lady :)

mistninja314 · Accepted Answer

Naw you ain't ugly and YOU wouldn't be single if you brought yo ass HERE (#^ ^#)   K   L

Frost_Byt3 · Answer

So you had a 2 month dryspell, no big deal! Guys have had FIVE YEAR dryspells! Keep your head up and get back out there! Its not your looks that are keeping you from getting a guy, its your attitude! Go to the mall, zoo, any place with a lot of people. Smile at every decent guy that walks past you and don't leave that place until you get a number or guve yours. You could also try a makeover or a new style thatll make you mote noticeable!

If you need any tips or advice on how to put yourself out there, or if you want opinions on style, feel free to message me

brownchic · Answer

hahaha i swear to god i am in the same boat as you! I am starting to believe the same about me too actually! All i do is work come home eat sometimes go workout. Even i tried talking to some guys online and i eventually find out theyre psychos after a while. So i even stopped doing that. But honestly sister this is the time i think we should focus on ourselves rather than others around us. Yup, if he has to come to you he will. We did our job to find ourselves one and it  hasn't  worked out in the past maybe we should just wait. It sometimes depresses me that all my friends are either married or in grad school. Whereas me, I am no where in terms of marriage or grad school. Life just sucks at the moment. :/

nandyme · Answer

Whaaaaaaat?
I'm not sure if this is a spoof question or a real one , so I'm just going to assume its real.
Singleness has nothing , I repeat NOTHING to do with your looks. I know several gorgeous women who are single.
And besides , i have never come across a single unattractive woman. trust me. convemtionally , unattractive , yes but not truly unattractive. everyone is beautiful. No this is not some bullshit quote. I genuinely believe it.
While singlehood could have a variety of reasons , looks are definitely not one of them.

Aud_Queen · Answer

But honestly, you look good! Just go out and talk to men. Your 22! The only holding you back is yourself.

AliceAcid · Answer

You're gorgeous. You just sound as if you need some confidence (which you rightly deserve). Don't worry, love and relationships will come, just be confident in yourself, as that is such an attractive trait and will just make the beauty that you already have shine brighter!

BumbleDeev · Answer

Just because your single now doesn't mean you're going to be single forever. You're young, you shouldn't settle down now anyway. Go out with friends, go to clubs, throw parties, hook up with people. Do all the things you wouldn't be able to do if you were with someone

Hidden_P · Answer

No.
I work all the time.
I was single for a year and a half.
Do you think I'm ugly?

Sometimes it's just not the right time. You're 22 years old, you are still young and beautiful. Don't beat yourself up, go out there and enjoy your life and meet people. Or, believe there is more to life than boys! :)

Climber · Answer

Enjoy being single. It has also advantages. Being single does not mean you don't have any friends and cannot enjoy life. It is better to wait for a relationship until you find your match. Taking a wrong person because you think its time now, will only lead to diasappointment. So make the best of your singlehood. You still have time enough left for the other part.

SatanSenpai · Answer

stop living by trying to impress a guy, just do things for you. buy new make up and try out different contouring. for you though. buy healthy food and walk around your city and just try to be positive and happy. if a guy doesn't come along till you're 25 it's just the way it was meant to be.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

Judging by your profile picture your looks are pretty decent. You'll get asked out eventually, but for the moment you at least know how it is to be in a man's shoes. But unlike most single men, you can just sit back and wait for the one to come.

Have a nice day.

singlebee · Answer

Oh girl.. for god sakes you are 22... you don't have to be so harsh on yourself... you are not ugly by the way... you look good...

I am single too.. and i am not pursuing any girl right now... i dont think i am ugly... am i?

I think we both need to do some effort and pursue our interests... Maybe we won't be single... anymore :)

SensualScribe · Answer

You are still very young and have your whole life ahead of you. Just because you are single does not make you ugly and it does not make your life worth any less than anyone who is attached. I am sure you will meet someone.

TedStar · Answer

Nonsense!! You're a beautiful young woman. There is a guy out there who is looking for someone like you. If he doesn't find you I'll be on the first plane to wherever nyou are

aniyat13 · Answer

Are you out of ur mind. Of course not, you seem to have very low self-esteem. Let me tell you , I've never had a boyfriend in my life, but that doesn't mean anything. Maybe its not your time right now, you should wait and be patient sometimes things don't always go the way we want them to. And just because you don't have a boyfriend doesn't mean that you don't have an admirer/s. If u where you I'd wait, ur young like me, we have a while life ahead if us.

Watermelonoma · Answer

you're not ugly. Thing is though, less and less guys approach today. It's even seen as disgusting by some women to approach them at a coffee shop, so guys are kind of sick of approach women as much as they use to. It doesn't mean you are ugly

watashiwahanadesu · Answer

If being single means you're ugly then I'm ugly too. O~O Don't worry you're only 22. Eventually someone will fall for you. You just have to be patient :).

TripleAce · Answer

Yes that's exactly what it means. Humm obviously not

But if thats your situation. You need to reasses whats going on here. Start making some changes to whatever is holding you back to get yourself out there.

It's not just sit back and let the boys fall on your lap. It takes personality and effort

elizabeth7676 · Answer

You are not ugly! I can't see why you would think that. Very pretty girl.

Nooran · Answer

Are you insane?

First, you are too young for the 'I'll never have children ' thing. In my age I can start saying that.

Second, most women married or in a relation are very average looking. A lot of attractive non-slutty women are single or are in bad relationships with guys who undervalue them.

so please stop this illogical thinking of yours.

rockaholic · Answer

Well.. is that you on the photo? looks nice.. don't worry about being single.. love comes by itself

daring_girl001 · Answer

Your not ugly. if your single embrace it. Do single things with your friends go out focus on you. Love will find it way when you least expect it. Don't worry it will happen for you.

MadKitty · Answer

Being single does not mean you are ugly that is the most stupid thing anyone had said here today. You said it yourself that you just don't make an effort anymore so maybe you should change that.

Hopefuldreamer8 · Answer

You're 22 years old and you think you're life is over? You're not even close to being ugly if that's you in the picture. You're likely single due to your attitude. This post screams of attention seeking.

Illusive_Man · Answer

I'm ALSO singe , if being single means one's ugly then I am also ugly.  If so then let's be all be ugly together lol

Bluemax · Answer

Being single does not mean that one is ugly. However, giving up often does make one less attractive. It seems you are giving up.

SomeHopeLeft · Answer

umm no, it's more of finding the right situation at the right time, that's basically it, statistically speaking in the world one person is always compatible with the another and vice versa

Just1n123 · Answer

Everyone is gorgeous! You just haven't found the right guy yet, don't worry you will find someone eventually! Just keep your head held high for all to see and one day your true love will come! :3

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Well if single equals ugly then I guess I'm ugly too. There are plenty of single people in the world. You're not alone.

Klaatu51 · Answer

no... being single has nothing to do with being ugly. i'msingle aswell, yet by choice... and never felt ugly :-)

Random_chick_2384 · Answer

Your not ugly!! Don't ever tell yourself that!

Gpfweb · Answer

I've been single for the past 15 years I put it down to I'm just not what people want who wants a geek as a boyfriend.

Silverware · Answer

OMG... you're 22!!! I'm 29 and single, so what? Maybe guys don't talk to you because of your lack of confidence. No one wants to date someone with low self-esteem... Please stop throwing a poor me party and start thinking positive..

Luvme66 · Answer

No.. being single is a status which has nothing to do with your appearance!

James687 · Answer

no being single is good if you think about it... you save money, time and effort, not committed to anything and can do what you want

SatanClaus · Answer

You ain't ugly TBH

Unit1 · Answer

I am single = I am ugly. That is all but true.

Kshppatel · Answer

We're all gonna make it. Don't stop believing.

tenofthepeaks · Answer

there is more to life than dating.

pool4 · Answer

I would advise you to see a psy asap.

Littlett25 · Answer

Not necessarily

jannette723 · Answer

NOOOOOOOOO

Bruins03 · Answer

Yes you are ugly

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