Why won't she tell me how she feels?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend, I told her I like her. She shows many signs of liking me (just search "does she like me" on Google, she shows 7-8/10 of those signs) but she won't say. Why is that? She does say that she misses me a lot and all of that, and she isn't the type of girl that plays people or plays games (one of the reasons why I like her). I wouldn't be pursuing her if she didn't show so much interest, and I've turned down a few women in the past few weeks for her. Yes, I want to be together with her that badly.

[TintMoss]

Sometimes i think guys are really pressuring when it comes to telling them how how you feel. Personally i hate it when he asks me to tell him how i feel, you are then soooo pressured into saying sometimes things that you may not even feel in fear of losing the other person. I think just give her time, allow her to just come up out of no where and say how she feels, it'sway more special that way anyway

[Asker]

The reason why some guys can seem "pressuring" is that they have come up with the courage to tell them how they feel, and would like to know your side. Guys want to see that they aren't being given false hope or that they can get the memo to move on.

[TintMoss]

Maybe she hasn't come up with the same courage yet, or maybe she got hurt in her past relationship so she's afraid that you maybe selling her dreams too.

[Asker]

Both are possible and ones that I have thought of. I've been thinking that I may be too good to be true to her based on her past, but I hate sounding/being cocky about these things.

[Jocko]

Is she recently out of a relationship? Maybe she's afraid to get into anything at this point in time.

[Asker]

No she hasn't been in a relationship in years. It still wouldn't hurt for her to let me know how she feels, even if she doesn't want a relationship at this point and time. I've been on that boat before, and I don't have a problem expressing it.

[Klaatu51]

maybe she is shy expressing it? is she a shy person in general?

[Asker]

Shy in general? No. Shy expressing it? That is a possibility. I did sense a bit of nervousness and shyness when she opened up a tad.