Is she considering me? Is she interested?

[Anonymous]

When I first met this girl, she considered me a friend, greet me as one etc. After I told her I liked her (maybe 2-3 weeks after I met her) she stopped calling me and introducing me as friend, and started calling me by my name more. To be honest, I haven't heard her call me a friend since then. She's always teasing me about making out and whatnot. We almost kissed once (the one move I made), but she said she wanted to wait. She never seems happy when we part ways, she kind of looks sad. I'm usually keen on women, but she's a complicated one haha.

[Anonymous]

Put her solidly in your friend zone. Treat her like one of the guys.

If she flirts or teases about making out, show no interest at all. Just say, "haha old joke, find a new one". Don't act mad though, just don't bite on it.

She's got you on a leash and she knows it. She's hunting for other guys and keeping you in reserve as her consolation prize. Teases you just enough to be sure you're still there wanting her.

Act like her puppy dog and you're fucked. Act like you've got bigger fish to fry and she'll wonder if you're a catch.

[Asker]

"She's got you on a leash and she knows it. She's hunting for other guys and keeping you in reserve as her consolation prize. Teases you just enough to be sure you're still there wanting her."

What you're saying is true, she's not that type of girl, and I'm no where near "puppy dog". I'm actually acting the way you worded how I should act though. I'm not an amateur when it comes to this stuff, I've learned the hard way from experience. She's just different which is why I'm attracted to her, and guys don't actively pursue her. She also keeps no secrets from me as I don't with her. She wouldn't risk all the stuff she's told me getting out in the open.

[Opinion Owner]

You need to move on then. Just asking for torture to hang out with someone you want to date and she won't date you. She shot you down. Doesn't matter how she acts. And she IS that type of girl by your own admission. Time to cut and run. She's either a tease or not into you. Those are the only two choices.

If she's near your age, then she's way too old to be acting like a high school girl.

[Asker]

We are dating...

[Opinion Owner]

So you had no question at all then. You already know she's interested. Thanks for wasting our time.

[emerald77]

I think she's taking some time to think about it! She's probably considering you.

[sophian]

she seems like she's interested